Akubona bonke abanomdla. Abanye abantu babala ngokwenene ipenki, abayi kuphinda bakulibale ukucela kuwe ityala leeruble ezimbini kunye nama-kopecks angamashumi amahlanu anesithandathu, kwaye baya kulindela ukuba uya kunika inani elichanekileyo. Abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, banikele yonke into kuwo wonke umntu. Yintoni enokuthiwa ngolu hlobo? Okokuqala, mhlawumbi into yokuba akukho zigqithisi ezintle. Ukuba umntu ulungele ukubulala ngokusemthethweni ipenny, oku ngokucacileyo akubonakali kwicala elilungileyo. Kodwa kwimeko xa umntu enika yonke into, umpostile ngokwawo ulambile, akanamdla kakhulu.
Ukuphana ngumthombo wolonwabo
Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba unomdla wokuba ube ngcono kunokuba unqabile. Kukho nje uluhlu lwabantu abathanda ngokwenene ukunikela ngaphezu kokufumana. Loo mntu unako ukuhlala kwisonka kunye namanzi ukuqokelela isipho, enokuphupha umntu. Uya kuvuya xa ebona uvuyo emehlweni endoda yakhe. Ukuba sithetha ngokuphana okunjalo, ke akunakwenzeka ukufumana into engalunganga. Emva kokunika umntu, abantu abanjalo bahlawuliswa ngokoqobo ngamandla anika amandla kubo ukusebenza, ukudala nokuhlala nje. Kwimeko xa kufuneka basindise, kungekhona kubo, kodwa ekuncedeni abanye nezipho, baqala ukuphazamiseka nje phambi kwamehlo ethu. Abantu abaninzi abayiqondi le nto, kodwa ngokwenene, umntu onjalo uqobo uyathatha umthombo wokuzonwabisa. Kumaxa xa beqonda ukuba akudingeki ukuba uphonse imali okanye izipho ukuthenga into yakho, kusenakukhathazeka emphefumlweni. Futhi ukuthenga into enqwenela ixesha elide kuyifumane uvuyo, kuba becinga ukuba umntu akancediswanga, umntu akazange avuyiswe, njalo njalo. Ukuba umququzelelo womntu wokunika ngumnqweno wokubangela uvuyo kwabanye abantu kwaye ufumane uvuyo kuwo, ngoko ke kuyimfuneko kwaye kunokwenzeka. Ngenxa yokuba ngaphandle kokuvakalelwa ngabantu abanjalo baya kugxina ekudakaleni.
Baya kuhlala behlangula
Kububele bomntu, ngokuqinisekileyo kukho iinzuzo ezininzi. Omnye wabo uncedo olufanayo. Umthetho wokulingana usebenza ngokugqibeleleyo ehlabathini. Yonke into oya kuyenza, kufuneka ibuye. Asoloko ivela kubantu abafanayo, kodwa ke, yonke imisebenzi emihle ivuzwa. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntu unomusa kwaye akaze athandazele nantoni na, baninzi abantu abanombulelo ngaye. Ewe, ukuba ukhetha ukukhetha aba bantu. Ngaphandle koko, unako ukuqokelela abantu abathandekayo abaninzi abaya kuqikelela ukupha ukuba buyathayisa kwaye bekhokhe imali kuyo. Kodwa ekubeni enxulumene nabahlobo abahle kunye nabaziwayo, umntu onomusa uhlala efumana oko anikayo. Ukwazi ngeempawu zakhe ezintle, kwiimeko ezinzima ezininzi ziya kunceda kwaye "zinike isandla". Kwaye, ngaphandle kokufuna into ethile ngokubuyisela, kuba bayazi ukuba lo mntu akazange enze oku njengalokhu kwaye wanikela into engenanto. Kungenxa yoko abantu abanomdla abaphantse balahlekelwe. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlawule ngeendlela zokuphathekayo, njengoko bebuya kwakhona endaweni ethile. Mhlawumbi, abanye abantu bancedisa kubantu abanjalo, kuba nakwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu into engalindelekanga eyenzekayo, eyaba yindoda "yang-wand" yangempela. Kwaye, uncedo luvela ngokungalindelekanga: iklayenti elide elikhohliweyo livela kwaye linikeza iphrojekthi ehlawulwe kakhulu, kunamakhulu ambalwa anokwenza angayivuyisa, umntu ukhumbula ngokukhawuleza ukuba wayelibale ukunika isipho kumhla wokuzalwa kwaye unike ngekheshi. Ngokubanzi, nangona kunjalo, kodwa abantu abanomdla ngendlela yabo inhlanhla ebomini.
Awunayo nayiphi na imali, kodwa unokuba nabahlobo abangamakhulu
Abantu abanomdla banamhlobo amaninzi. Apha, abanye abantu abangathembeki banokuvakalisa ukuba ngale ndlela abantu abanomdla bazithengela ubuhlobo, kwaye bonke balahlekelwa yimali ngokukhawuleza. Enyanisweni, oku akunjalo. Ukuba umntu onomusa uyazi ngabanye, uyaqonda ukuba ubani unaye ngenxa yemali, kwaye ngubani nje ngokuba uyamthanda. Emva kwakho konke, umntu akafanele adibanise ukuxhamla ngokusondeleyo kwengqondo. Ukuba nesisa akuyikuba usasaze wonke umntu ngokungakhethi. Ukuba nesisa kunceda abo bafuna ngaphezu kwakhe. Ngoko ke, ukulungiswa ngokuphangaleleyo kwabantu abaninzi abalungileyo. Emva koko, umntu olungileyo uyamxabisa omnye ngokungenabugovu kunye nokukwazi ukuhlala ehlangula. Yaye xa ebona ukuba umngane wakhe omtsha engagxininisi yonke ipenki kwaye unokukwazi ukuxhamla imali ngenzuzo yabanye, uyaqonda ukuba umntu unokuthembela kumntu onjalo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo uba ngumhlobo omhle kuye.
Xa akudingeki ukuba ube nesisa
Ewe, umntu akakwazi ukuthetha ukuba ukupha isoloko sihle kakhulu kumntu. Kwezinye iimeko, kuyichaphazela kakubi. Kodwa kuphela xa eyeka ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo abantu kwaye uqala ukuzivumela ukuba asebenzise. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka rhoqo kula maxesha xa sithanda umntu. Le ntliziyo yenza ukuba unike yonke into kwaye ncinane. Kwaye kulungile xa umntu obathandayo efuna ukwenza yonke into kuwe, naye. Kodwa kukho ezinye iimeko. Ngelishwa, uthando lwabantu abanobubele luqala ukusebenzisa. Kule meko, bayaphonsa imali kunye nezipho, kwaye bazitshitshisa kuzo zonke izinto, banikeze baze banike, ukuze kuphela umntu othandekayo. Apha, kwiimeko ezinjalo, akunakulungele ukupha. Enyanisweni, kunzima ukuqaphela ukuba umntu othandekayo kuwe unomdla kwaye akakhathaleli ngeemvakalelo, ukuba ngaba kukho imali kuphela. Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba uzenzele ngesandla uze uhlolisise imeko. Ngokukodwa xa uchazwe, okanye uxelelwe ngabo baziyo kakuhle kwaye bathanda ngokwenene. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba unceda umntu ongenakuyixabisa, kwaye, phantsi kweyiphi na ingcamango, ngokukhawuleza unqakraze uncedo oluvela kuwe, ngoko ke uqokelele i-omnipotents kwaye unqume. Loo mnikelo awunyanzelwanga nakubani na. U se tyenziswa nje. Ukuba wenza oku, kungekudala uza kubona ukuba lo mntu akayidingi into enye. Ekuqaleni uya kuthukuthela aze aqhubeke emdaka, kwaye xa eqonda ukuba akukho nto iya kuphunyezwa kuwe, uya kuhamba.
Ekugqibeleni ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba abantu abanobubele akudingeki ukuba bagxininise ukugxekwa kwezenzo zabo kunye nezimvo zabo ezazisasazeka ngemali, abazi ukuba baphile ngokufanelekileyo kwaye baxabise umvuzo. Ukuba unandipha umdlalo wokwenza umntu onwabileyo, ukuba uziva ulungile, wehla phezu kwayo yonke into uze wenze njengoko intliziyo yakho ithi. Yaye ukhumbule ukuba yonke imisebenzi yethu emihle iyabuyela kuthi. Ngoko cinga ngabanye, kwaye baya kuba bacinga ngowe.