Ungayiqonda njani ukuba umthandi akanakuze ahlukane?

Inani elikhulu leengcinga kunye neengcamango ezahlukeneyo zenzeka imihla ngemihla entloko yowesifazane oye wahlakulela ubuhlobo bothando nomntu otshatileyo. Kodwa ebaluleke kakhulu kubo babini: "Ngaba uya kumshiya umfazi kum?" Kwaye "Ndiyicinga ukuba akayi kushiya intsapho yakhe, nokuba ulungile kunye nam." Umfazi onjalo uqonda kakuhle ukuba kwintlungu yomnye umntu, unonwabo olungenakwakhiwa kunye nokuba kukho amadoda amaninzi angatshatanga. Nangona kunjalo, uyaqhubeka ekholelwa, ethemba kwaye ulinde "ukuxakeka" kwakhe.


Masizame ukuhlalutya imeko ebomini.

"Kubonakala ngathi uya kubanda kum emva komhla!" Oku kuziphatha komntu kuchazwa ngento yokuba kwindawo yentsapho eqhelekileyo akanalo isondo esaneleyo. Oku kunqongophala uyenzela ngoncedo lwakho. Ukubonakalisa oku, kufuneka uqhathanise inani lamakholi kunye nemilayezo ye-SMS evela kukhethiweyo wakho ukuya kwintlanganiso nangomhla emva kwentlanganiso. Emva kwintlanganiso, ngokuqhelekileyo eqaqambileyo kwaye igcwele i-romanticism, imiyalezo ithathelwa ingcaciso emfutshane yemihla ngemihla, okanye ingekho ngokupheleleyo. Umlingane onjalo ufuna ukuhlangana nawe kuphela xa efuna kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akanakuziva. Ungomnye uzonwabisa ngaye kwimpilo ebuthathaka, ngokuqhelekileyo.

Izicwangciso zakhe zekamva elizinzile . Umthandi wakho kwiholide elandelayo ulungiselele uhambo lokutyelela kwamanye amazwe, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile kuphela kunye nosapho lwakhe. Ngoko, akayi kucinga ikusasa ngaphandle kwakhe, kwaye awunayo indawo kuyo.

O, yeka taciturn! Amazwi akho athando kunye neentetho ozama ukuzithumela kumthande wakho, unjengokungathi akanakuva okanye angayinaki. Ngokuqinisekileyo, nawuphi na umfazi ufuna ukuva kumntu ukuba uyona mhle kwaye unethenda, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo yimibinzana eyomileyo kwifom "Okwangoku, ndithandekile, konke kulungile." Mhlawumbi, iintetho ezifihlakeleyo zifihliwe kuwe emphefumlweni wakhe, kodwa ukungaqiniseki ukuba uyakuthanda kakhulu kunentsapho yakhe. Uqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba xa evumela ukuba avume ukuba uyakuthanda ngakumbi, ngoko uya kumnyanzela, umxinzelele ukuba ashiye intsapho yakhe. Kulo mjikelo weemeko akayikulungele.

"Akanandaba nokuba ndiphi ." Ngokuqinisekileyo, uqaphele ukuba ngelixesha lezesondo iqabane lakho lisebenzisa ubuninzi bokukhathalela amagama: "Ngaba uyayithanda okanye loo nto? Xa kulunge kwaye kukuphi na olungcono? "Kodwa ngobomi obuqhelekileyo, akanalo umdla ebomini bakho, nje akuboni ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuchitha ixesha kwiingxoxo ezingenanto. Akangakhathaleli kakhulu ngempilo yakho, ukuba uyagula okanye uya kuzinika umyalezo osisisiseko seSMS, ukwazi ukuba unosuku olunzima kakhulu.

"Ndiyimfihlo yakhe enkulu . " Ungathanda ukuchitha njani ngokuhlwa ebusuku kwindawo yokutyela okanye uye kwiifilimu. Kodwa ngesizathu esithile, nanini na ukummema kuluntu, ufumana isizathu. Kuyabonakala ngathi akukho nto iyingozi, ukuba uhamba ngezitrato zesixeko. Kodwa okhethiweyo wakho uyaqhubeka engawunaki izicelo zakho zokuchitha ixesha ngaphandle kwekhaya lakho. Ngoko, lesi sizathu sokucinga ukuba unomthandi kangakanani kuye.

Inzala yakhe kuwe ayizinzile . Ukutyelela kwakhe kwenzeka kwixesha elithile. Ukuba uchitha kunye phantse yonke imihla, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ilahleka ixesha elide. Isizathu sinobudlelwane bakhe nomfazi. Xa ulwalamano lwabo luphelile, bafumana induduzo kuwe. Kodwa ukuba yonke into iyahambelana nomfazi, ngoko ngeli thuba akacingi ngawe kwaye akukho mtshato.

Kude kube nini uhlangene? Iinyanga ezintathu, unyaka okanye enye yekota? Uphononongo ngabafundi bezengqondo zibonisa ukuba kukho ixesha elide emva kokuba umntu ekhetha ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuphula ubudlelwane nenkosikazi yakhe. Le nyanga zi-3 kunye nonyaka owodwa. Kwiinyanga ezi-3 zokuqala, indoda kuphela kwimeko enquma ukushiya umfazi kwintombi yakhe, ukuba ubuhlobo bentsapho abukude. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba intsapho yakhe ikhululekile kakhulu, ngoko uthando lwakho luyakudlula, kodwa kuphela ngonyaka. Nangona kunjalo, eholide uyahamba kunye nosapho lwakhe, kwaye kungekhona nawe. Ngoko, lixesha lokuba uchithe ubudlelwane kunye nalo mntu, kuba unyaka ozayo kuya kuba nekhosi efanayo yeziganeko.

Yonke le yeso sihlandlo sokucinga ukuba kuyafaneleka ukuqhubeka nobudlelwane nomntu ongacingi ngokuphila ngaphandle kwentsapho yakhe. Emva kwakho konke, uya kulahleka ubutsha bakho, ungafumani nantoni na. Ekubeni, kukho iimeko xa iintsapho zatshatyalaliswa xa umntu ehamba nenkosikazi yakhe. Ngokulula, le mitshato ekuqaleni yayiyilungele ngenxa yezinye izizathu eziphosakeleyo. Intsapho ngumanyano wabantu abathandekayo abakhe babenza ukhetho oluchanekileyo lokuchitha ubomi babo bonke!