Utshintsho lusinceda sihlale sisitye, senze ubomi bube bhetele kwaye siyolise. Kodwa ungashukunyiswa njani kubo, ukuba amandla okwenza izinto kunye nokwesaba kunzima? Ufuna uqeqesho!
Inyathelo 1. Qalisa usuku ngokudala
Ngaphambi kokuba uvuke kusasa, cinga malunga nokuba unokuziva okanye usebenze ngokungafaniyo, njengokuba njalo: "Namhlanje ndiza kuhlamba ngomculo ndize ndisebenze ngenye indlela" okanye "Ndiza kubeka i-blouse entsha kunye neebhotile kwi-hairpin - ngamnye makabe oku ". Zama ukuhlala kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, kuyavuya ukucinga ukuba utshintsho olulula nolulula kumsebenzi wemihla ngemihla okanye ukubonakala: njani ungadli isidlo sakusasa ekhaya, kodwa kwi-cafe; ukuya emsebenzini hhayi nge-subway, kodwa ngeeteksi; zithenga iintyatyambo ngapha kwendlela kwaye zivele eofisini ezinezimbali. Iphupha kwaye ... hamba oko! Naluphi na ukucamngca kunceda ukwandisa i-horizons kwaye ubeke iingcingo ezikhohlakeleyo.
Inyathelo 2. Sifuna umzekelo omtsha
Hlaziya indlela yokuthetha, ukugqoka, ukutya, ukuphendula kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, ukuchitha ixesha lakho lokukhulula. Khumbula, ngokumxelisa ngubani owenza oku. Mhlobo? Abachasi? Bazali? Ngaba uyayivumela le migaqo? Umama wakho wathatha ulawulo lweSabatha ukuze anikezele ukucoca, kwaye waqhubeka nesithethe. Kodwa ngaba uyayifuna? Mhlawumbi kukufanelekile ukuba uchithe usuku oluye lunomdla kuwe? Akunjalo ngombono wokususa ngokupheleleyo, kwaye unqamle ukudibanisa usuku oluqaqambileyo lweveki kwindawo yokucoca i-vacuum ne-rag. Yaye uhlala ngokuhlukileyo. Utshintsho kwi-destiny luqala ngezihlwele ezinjalo.
Inyathelo lesi-3: Ukuguqula iiNdlela
Ukwenza oku kufuneka uqale wenze uluhlu lwazo: indlela yokubulisa, yenza ukucoca, ukupheka i-borscht, wenze uthando ... Ngoku ke bhala imikhwa efanayo, kodwa kwifom eguquliwe: borscht upheke kwiresi entsha, ungahlambulukanga kwii jeans, kunye ne-bathrobe, ngesondo ababandakanyekanga kungekuhlwa, kodwa kusasa ... I-psyche yethu iyalondoloza, kulula ukuhlala ngumzekelo, nokuba utshintsho olungapheliyo kunye neengxaki ezincinci zinganikezwa ubunzima. Kodwa nje musa ukuxina! Phatha yonke into njengomdlalo. Unokwenza, umzekelo, uzame ukubingelela emisebenzini. Esikhundleni sezinto ezithandekayo "Sawubona!" Yithi: "Sawubona wonke umntu!", "Ndivuyayo ukubona wonke umntu!", "Ngomso, bahlobo!" Ngamafutshane, sifuna ukufumana iindlela ezamkelekileyo kwaye sicinge ngezinto ezilandelayo. Ngaba ukucocwa kuya kusebenza ngakumbi, kwaye ubulili buya kukhanya? Ngaba uya kuvuka ngokunyuka kwamathuba okuba unqobe kunye nokuhlukahluka? Ukuba ewe, sebenzisa iingubo ezi-1-2 ukusuka kwoluhlu olutsha ukuqinisekisa ukuba: kumnandi, kuyonwabile kwaye kuyayiluncedo kwimeko.
Inyathelo 4. Gcina iDayari
Idayari ye-intanethi (iblogi okanye i-LiveJournal) ngoku iyakwazi. Kodwa unokwenza ngendlela endala, ephepheni, ukulungisa yonke into eyenzeka emini. Emva kweenyanga ezintathu, kufuneka ufunde kwakhona okufakiwe. Ukuba isiganeko esichukumisayo ngeli xesha kwakunokuqhekeka kokuzila kwi-ngxowa, kwaye eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukufika kuka-anti waseRyazan, ngoko sinokuthi: ubomi buya kugubha! Inqaku ledayari lenza oku kucacileyo. Ukuphinda uchaze ngokunyaniseka kwezinto zobomi bemihla ngemihla kungenasiphelo, kodwa ukuthatha utshintsho lokubhala ngokubhaliweyo luncedo kakhulu. Ukuqhuba loo diary yekamva. Masithi, kuzo zonke iinkcukacha, chaza umhla wephupha lakho, into ofuna ukuyithenga, kunye nendawo ongathanda ukuya kuyo. Unokwenza umzekeliso kumasimu kunye nethemba ngekamva. Xa utshintsho oluthile luba nomfanekiso kwaye lubonwe ngemibala, lusondela ngakumbi. Kwaye ngolunye usuku awukwazi ukukhanyela yena okanye wena.
Isinyathelo 5. Cwangcisa umhla ogqibeleleyo
Okokuqala, kwanele ukuhlala kwinqanaba eliphezulu ubuncinane isahlulo sawo. Ngokomzekelo, ukulungiselela umzekelo wasemini isidlo sasemini kwisangqa sezihlobo. Cinga kwangaphambili kunye neenkcukacha ezincinci: zeziphi izixhobo, iitrafti, iintyatyambo zokukhetha oko kuza kuba kwimenyu, nokuba ukubeka ukukhanya okungekho kunye nokuhambelana nesandi, indlela yokulungisa iindwendwe, into ekumangalisa ngayo, yintoni ekumele uthethe ngayo etafileni. Ukusebenza ngokugqithiseleyo kule mibuzo, uya kuhamba ngaphaya kwesiseko esiqhelekileyo, kwaye inzondelelo yeendwendwe iya kuvuselela. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kuphela i-stroke entsha ewaneleyo. Umzekelo, imenyu iyaqhelana, kodwa ugubungela isidlo kwisidlo esiphantsi esilungeleyo ngasempumalanga. Ngokuphathelele umhla ogqibeleleyo, kukulungele ukuguqula usuku lwakho lokuzalwa. Hlela yonke into ngokungathi yayiyimigubho yokugqibela ebomini bakho. Buyela emva kwakhe kwinkqubo yobomi bemihla ngemihla ayifuni. Mhlawumbi, ukususela ngoku ngoku, i-future will follow a trajectory!
Inyathelo 6. Siwela ebuntwaneni
Kulowo nalowo uhlala khona umntwana othe ngqo, umntwana. Cinga ngako xa uvakalelwa kukuba uye wakhula ngendlela endala yabantu abanomqondo onobuqili, onobuqili, oqikelelekileyo kwaye obangelisayo. Indlela elula yokuguqula umntwana kumbutho wabantwana, abahlobo bakhe: banqabile egcekeni, bahambe nabo entabeni, badlale baze bafune, bakhe ubuso phambi kwesibuko. Yaye ukuba loo minqweno ibonakala yedwa? Qiniseka ukuba ulandele. Ukuguqula kwi-swing, kunye nokukhetha inja yakho kwiqhwa, ukunyuka phezu kocingo ukuphepha ukujikeleza, ukulungele iingoma zemvelo phambi kwesibuko ... Ukubuya okubuntwaneni kunika ubumnandi bemvakalelo kunye nomzimba kunye nenkululeko, ukukhululeka, ukulahlekelwa yintliziyo, inkululeko yangaphakathi kunye ukwandisa ukuzimisela ukutshintsha.
Isinyathelo 7. Masibe ngabamabhayisikobho
Khawucinge ukuba usemidlalo, ungumlawuli. Ngaphambi kwakho kwinqanaba, umdlali we-actress, ikopi yakho eyiyo (ukuziphatha ngokusemthethweni, njengoko oogqirha bezengqondo bebiza). Umi kwi-ramp kwaye ulinde ukukhokela kwakho. Ujolise ngokupheleleyo kwizinto ozibonayo ... xabisa ukuziphatha kwakho kunye neliso lomlawuli oyimfuneko, uyithandani ngokubonakala kwayo, indlela yakhe yokuthetha, yokuhamba? Mxelele ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha njani ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zakho eziqinileyo. Cinga ngezinto ozilindele kuye njengomdlali we-actress, okokuziphatha kwakhe kunokukuvumela, umlawuli, ukudala ukusebenza kakuhle. Mhlawumbi unamandla kakhulu, unamandla-olambileyo, unamahloni? Beka phambi kwakhe umsebenzi womdlali obalaseleyo, ndixelele imibala engayifaka emfanekisweni. Nika iziphakamiso: gqoka kakhulu okanye ngaphantsi kwezesondo, ngokuqhelekileyo okanye ngaphantsi udlalwa ngothando, qhubeka uyeka okanye ukwandisa isigama. Kwaye ngoku uye uye eqinisweni uze uqale utshintshe phantsi kolawulo lomlawuli wakho wangaphakathi. Ukuba awuyikoyika ukutshintsha indima, uya kuba nempumelelo kunye nobomi obutsha.
Isinyathelo 8. Siphupha malunga nokungaqiniseki
Enye into yokuphupha uhambo oluya e-Anapa, nolunye-malunga namabhanku amhlophe eMaldives okanye ... malunga nokushayela kwenyanga. Iminqweno neephupha eziphambene nazo zinelungelo lokuba khona. Kwaye ke, benza umsebenzi obalulekileyo wokwelapha: basenza sikwazi ukwandisa ingqondo yethu, siphumelele ubuso obungenakwenzeka. Kananjalo bonisa kwakhona ngokuthelekisa ukuba kulula kangakanani ukwenza yonke into: utshintshe indlu, ubhalisele iqela le-aerobics kwaye uvule i-salon encinci ye-salon. Xa kuthelekiswa nokulungiswa kwendwendwe yakhe yenyanga, ezi zizinto ezintle!