UMama Teresa
Uhlobo lokuqala siza kuthiwa "Mama Teresa". Kukho intombazana ehlala ezama ukunceda wonke umntu aze abone into entle kuzo zonke. Ukuba babona umfana ophuza ngaphandle kokusela, ngoko baya kufumana inkcazo yolu, esithi, umzekelo, ukuba wayengenalo ithemba ngothando kwaye ngoku uphuze entlungu. Ukuba awusebenzi, intombazana leyo iya kumgweba, ichaza ukuba umfana ongenakukwazi ukuzifumana ebomini, ngenxa yokuba italente yakhe ibonakala kuwo wonke umntu kwaye uya kusebenzela ezimbini, ngoxa ehlala ekhompyutheni, edlala imidlalo okanye ebuka TV.
Ukuba ubona ukuba u-"Mother Teresa" oqhelekileyo, ngoko kufuneka ulungele ngokukhawuleza ukuba wonke umntu azisole. Uyakhangwa kumadoda anjalo, kuba uvakalela iimvakalelo zakho ngenxa yabo, kwaye nabo, basebenzise ububele bakho. Ukuba umntu oselayo, oku akuthethi ukuba unobunzima bokuba ngumyeni wakhe. Inokwenzeka ukuba, le ndoda ibuthathaka kwaye ingenakukhunjulwa kwaye endaweni yokuzibamba kunye nokuqala ukwenza into ethile, ikhetha indlela elula. Indoda ayikwazi ukuyifumana umsebenzi ngenxa yokuba ivila kwaye ayikhathalele oko kuya kwenzeka emva kobomi bakhe. Ngoko ukuba amagosa anolu hlobo lwesiluleko esisodwa - awela ngaphaya kwalabo abafuna ukuxolisa kwaye yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle nawe.
Nkosikazi
Abafazi abanjalo bahlala besikhalaza ukuba emva kwabo basetyhini abangatshatanga, kodwa iingubo zangempela. Babesaba nje ukhetho lwabo, bahlekisayo kwizinto zonke, abayi kuze bathethe kakhulu kwaye abayi kubonisa nawuphi na umlingiswa. Abafazi bathanda into yokuba indoda ethandekayo kunokuba ibe ngumkhuseli wayo, ibeke emva kwayo kwaye imhlophe, njengenja encinane kwi-leash.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, loo ngxaki ivela kulabo abathanda ukuyalela. Ladies bayazikhethela abafazi, abahlala bevuma kuyo yonke into, bathande ukubonisa isinyathelo kunye ne-tadaleye. Kuze bazimeleyo kwaye banenkani, bawela ngaphesheya. Kodwa i-vitoga, imeko xa umntu egosa, njengesiqhelo saseTshayina, uphazamisa umlawuli okhukhumeleyo kwaye uqala ukukhalaza kubahlobo bakhe ngendoda okanye umyeni wakhe, ammangalela ngokungabi naso.
La mabhinqa angacetyiswa ukuba azinqande ngomnqweno kwaye ahlale eyala. Ukuba ufuna indoda ibe yindoda, kwaye ingenayo inja kwi-leash, ngoko kufuneka uziphatha njengowesifazane, ungathandi nkokeli yeqela. Funda ukunikezela kumadoda, wenze izinto eziphathekayo, ubanike ithuba lokuzilawula. Ewe, okokuqala kuya kuba nzima, kodwa ukuba ukhathele ngokwenene ngabafana abalungele ukukrazula izithende zakho ngothando, ngoko uya kuba neentlungu ezincinane kwaye ekugqibeleni uza kubakho i-cowboy yangasemva kwakho.
Ukudala
Kubantu abanjalo abaphakamileyo, uthando luyindawo ebaluleke kakhulu yomkhwa womntu. Ukuba uyamnika iintyatyambo kwaye adibanise iinconnets, uhlabe phantsi kweefestile ze-serenade kwaye ulungiselele iipiknikoni ekushoneni kwelanga, intombazana iyancibilika, i-mildens kwaye ilungele ukulandela umfana ukuya ekupheleni kwehlabathi kwaye ihlala kwindlu. Emva koko uhamba ngexesha kwaye uqala ukukhononda malunga nenyaniso yokuba indoda ihlala "ihamba," ayinayo imisebenzi eqhelekileyo, kuba idala, kwaye ibuye ikhuphe, ikhuphe kwaye ingaphendulwanga ubomi boqobo. Yaye intombazana ayisacingi ngothando, kodwa inomsindo ngenxa yokuba kukho intaba yeesitya eludongeni, kwaye intombazana yakhe idwengula enye umfanekiso wesithombe sayo esingenakulinganiswa kwaye akanakwenzeka nantoni na ngeengxaki zemihla ngemihla.
Kule meko, amantombazana kufuneka awakhumbule ngoku kulandelelanayo oku kulandelayo: uthando olunye aluyi kuzaliswa. Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo kuhle xa umntu enza izinto ezintle. Kodwa ukuba uyayenza kakhulu kwaye kaninzi, kubalulekile ukucinga. Inyaniso kukuba amadoda okwenene akakwazi ukuthanda. Le yimizi yamantombazana athandekileyo aphuphayo, akhathazeke ngamaqhawe ama-serial kwaye akhala rhoqo. Kwaye ke abafana bacinga ukuba bangayilungisa njani imoto baze bafumane imali. Ukuba intloko yomfana ihlala kuphela ngokuthandana, ngoko ke ayinaso ixesha lokuphila ngokuqhelekileyo kwindoda eqhelekileyo. Ngoko kuvela ukuba kwisiphumo sokubambisana kunye naba bantu baphendukela ekuhlanjululeni.
Ngako oko, kungcono abantu bokudala ukuba bakhumbule ukuba izichaso kunokuba zithandwa. Intombazana ethandanayo kufuneka ibhekisise ngakumbi amadoda athabatha iintyatyambo kude nentsuku zonke kwaye yonke intsingiselo yothando isetyenziswe ngokufutshane, "Kancinci, Ndiyindoda", kwaye, kamva nje, kodwa ukulungele ukusebenza emisebenzini emithathu, kuqhutywe kuwe emibini ekuseni, soloko uqinisekisa ukuba awudingi nto. Kungcono ukufundisa umntu onjalo ukuba akuxelele izinkondlo kwaye ahlele izidlo zothando (kwaye oku kunokwenzeka, kholwa kum) kunokuba ubomi bubuhlungu obunomdla obengaqondi nto ebomini.
Intombazana encinci
Kwaye uhlobo lokugqibela lwabasetyhini esiya kuthetha ngalo lubizwa ngokuba yiiMvana eziMnyama. La mabhinqa ahlala enza ngathi ayenzi nto kwaye akakwazi. Ukuthobeka, ukuthula, njengomntwana, le ntombazana ihlala ifuna uncedo kunye nokukhuselwa kumntu. Ufuna ukuba wonke umntu enze konke kuye aze asombulule yonke into, akaze azame ukujongana neengxaki zakhe aze azame ukuphuma ngaphandle kwizigqibo ezibalulekileyo. Kodwa ixesha lidlula kwaye idamaski eqala ukuxhalaba ukuba intanda ayithathi isinyathelo sakhe, akalokothi akhulume ngeengxaki zakhe kwaye akayithobeli ingcamango yakhe, kwaye xa ezama ukubonisa ukuzimela okanye ukuzinikela ngokhetho lakhe, loo mntu uyiphupha ngeendlebe okanye Isicatshulwa esicacileyo sithi lo akusiyo ishishini lakhe. Ngokwemvelo, intombazana icaphukisa le ndlela yokuziphatha, ifumana intsha entsha kwaye yonke into iqala ngokutsha.
Ezi ntombazana kufuneka ziyeke ukuzama ukubonakala zibuthathaka kunokuba zinyulu, kunokuba zikhona. Ewe, ewe, sonke sifuna ukuba abafana bawakhusele baze bawakhusele. Kwaye senzani nabantwana? zilinde, zikhusele kwaye zilawulwe yonke into. Nangona umntwana ezama ukuzenzela yena ngokwakhe, abazali bayayibona njengento efanelekileyo kwaye bayayibhala kwakhona. Kwindoda, isimo sengqondo esifanayo nakwabesifazane balolu hlobo. Bathanda kwaye banakekele, kodwa abayi kuvunyelwa ukuba bazimelele, kuba abakholelwa ukuba lo mntu unako nantoni na. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukuba iqela lakho elilandelayo libhekise kumntu, qaleni uzibonakalise njengomntu omdala, onobuqili, obumba. Kwaye zonke izinto ziya kulungiswa.