Ngokusemthethweni yonke intombi yomntwana wesithathu iqala ukucinga ukuba into ephosakeleyo kuye, ekubeni ifunyanwe ngenyameko, ihlasekisa yonke into kwaye izama ukufundisa indlela yokwenza okulungileyo kunye nendlela yokunyamekela ngayo unyana wayo othandekayo. Uninazala unokunika iingcebiso ngokulondoloza uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, ukuthetha malunga naziphi iipiliti ezingcono, ubonise uhlobo luni lwephepha lodonga lokukhetha ukulungiswa nokunye. Impazamo yokuqala kunye neyona nto ibonakalayo imfazwe okanye ilizwi elihlala lisithi kumfana okanye indoda ukuba intanda yakhe "intombi" ayithandi. Yeka, vumelana nento umkhwezala athi kumamazala, kwaye ... yenza ngendlela yakho!
Sekunjalo, kufuneka uqonde izizathu zalolu dlelwane, ngokukodwa ukususela kuba kukho rhoqo kubo babini.
Eyingqayizivele kwaye engabonakaliyo
Isizathu esivakalayo sokungazithandi umalokazana umkhwele. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka njalo ukuba umhlobo wakho ungomnye kwintsapho. Akanayo abazalwana kunye noodade, ngoko ke yonke ingqalelo yabazali ixhomekeke kwizinto zobomi bonyana. Ngoko, uyayipheka? Ingaba uyazi ukuba ungayifaka njani ibhulukhwe yakho ngokuchanekileyo? Ngaba udla ukutshintsha ii-linens zokulala? Ngokwemvelo, wenza konke okungalunganga. Kwaye kufuneka ufundise indlela yokunyamekela unyana omnye.
Indlela yokujongana nomona womamazala?
Ukuqala, mhawukele. Ewe, uyacaphukisa ukuba ufanele uphulaphule ukungaxhasi, kodwa uzibeke endaweni yakhe, kwaye uya kuqonda yonke into. Ukuze ubonise umama wendoda yakhe ukuba awuyikulungisekanga, yenza ngokunyanisekileyo. Ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye ucokole kunye nomthandi wakho kwaye uchaze ukuba uyamhlonela unina, kodwa ndifuna ukupheka njengoko uthanda. Futhi umcele ukuba adumise izitya zomama wakhe, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo ubonise ukuba unokongeza into ethile (ngokwendlela yakho iresiphi). Uyabona, umamazala uya kuphulaphula unyana wakhe, kuba iqhinga livela kuye.
Kuyafana nangeminye imiba, makube ukulungiswa, uhambo lwangaphandle. Vumela umyeni wakho abe ngumqalisi waluphi na utshintsho ebomini bakho. Okanye yenza okungenjalo ukuba abazali bakhe bacinge ukuba uyakuqhayisa, uthumele ezantsi, ukulungisa, njl Futhi udumise umhlobo wakho kunye nonina: uya kukuxabisa aze afike kuwe.
"Ghost" yakhe yangaphambili
Esi sizathu esichukumisayo kwaye esingathandekiyo, kodwa ukuba uyamthanda, kuya kufuneka ulwe nesithunzi somfazi wakho wangaphambili okanye umtshakazi. Ukuba unyoko wakho uthe njalo upheka njengokuba ucinga iMashen, ungenayo ithuba lokuphuma, uhlale usebenza emsebenzini, njalo njalo, zama ukufumanisa indlela umzekelo wakhe owakwazi ngayo ukugcina indlu ihlambulukile.
Mhlawumbi, akazange asebenze, okanye ubusuku bonke ahlambulule, ahlambulule kwaye ahlambuluke phantsi okanye enye into. Ngaba ufumene Kwaye ngoku uzama ukuguqula "ukungaphumeleli" kwakho kwizibonelelo ezicacileyo. Ngokomzekelo, xelela abazali bomyeni wakho ukuba awukho phantsi komsebenzi, umsebenzi wakho uphambili kwaye ufumana imali eninzi yokwenza izilungiso kwintsapho yakho okanye kumamazala kamama.
Ukuba yakhe yangaphambili yayihlambulukile kwaye ihlambulukile, ihlambulukile kwaye iyathobekile, kwaye uyintombazana eqaqambileyo, ukhetha ukugqoka iingubo ezinzulu kunye nokuthanda ukuhlala ukhangeleka, kuya kufuneka ubonise abazali bakho abathandekayo ukuba nguye oye wafuna konke ubomi bakho. Njalo utsho ukuba uyayithanda kwaye uyayixabisa, mbulela umkhwe wakho wokukhulisa lo nyana. Ukutya kweentsapho kunye nezidlo, woza kuqala kwiingubo ezithobekileyo.
Khumbula ukuba abazali bomyeni wakhe bafuna ubomi bentsapho bonwabe. Ngabo kufuneka ube ngabahlobo, kungekhona ukulwa. Yazisa, hlonela kwaye uzame ukumthanda ngokungafani nabazali bakho. Bona kunye nomyeni wakhe baya kuvuya kakhulu!