Iimfihlelo eziphambili zokuzithemba ngokupheleleyo

Ukubukeka okuhle kukugodlo, kodwa akusoloko i-jackpot. Awukwazi ukuvavanya ngokwakho "ngaphandle". Kodwa musa ukuqwalasela indima yokubonakala kwindlela yokuzibona kunye nokuzithemba, naye, akufanelekanga. Kungcono ukusebenzela ulwalamano olwaneleyo kulo. Siyathanda kakhulu, xa sibonakala sihle, kwaye sihlonishwa kakhulu ngenxa yokukwazi ukuzibonakalisa ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Ngoncedo lwezakhelo ezenziwe ngokungafezeki, iingubo ezikhethiweyo ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nekhanda elihle, senza into yokungahambi kakuhle (nangona sikwazi ukusilela kwethu). Ukutshintsha okubonakalayo ekubonakaleni kusikhuthaza ngokuqiniseka ukuba sinokutshintsha yonke into ibe ngcono. Njengoko sizitshintshe ngokwangaphandle, utshintsho lwangaphakathi luya kwenzeka: sibonakala silungile, sinqobe ukungaqiniseki, ukwesaba kunye nobunzima. Kwaye sikulungele ukuzithobela ngokwenyaniso yokuba sithobela ukuguqulwa okukhulu. Iimfihlelo eziphambili zokuzithemba ngokupheleleyo ziya kuqwalaselwa namhlanje.

Umthetho wokukhanga wena

Siphelelwe ngaphandle, sifuna ukuqaphela abanye. Yaye siyifumana, sandisa ukuzithemba nokuzithemba. Ngamnye wethu ukhetha indlela yakhe kunye nokwakha umfanekiso: otholekileyo wesetyhini, onokuzikhethela kakuhle, oomntwana-othe ngqo, othakazelisayo wesondo ... Njengomthetho, olu khetho alona ngengozi: sigxininisa kwinqabileyo yalowo sifuna ukumthabatha, simangalise, sinqobe ngonaphakade okanye ubuncinane ngokuhlwa. Kwaye ukuba "iinjongo zitshitshiswa," ukuzithemba kwethu kuphakama: siqala ukuzihlonela ngokuba sikwazi ukulawula ukubonakala kwethu size sifinyelele injongo yethu. Kodwa umthetho usebenza ngaphakathi kwisakhelo sobudlelwane nabasetyhini besini. Ukungafanelekanga ngamabomu ukubonakala komntu, ukungabikho kwenhlalakahle, ngokunyaniseka, kubangele imfesane, kwaye kudibanise namantombazana azungezekileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo okunciphisa ukuzithemba kwethu. Izambatho ezintle kunye nokwenza i-make-up asivumelekanga ukuba singabacinezeli abantu bethu abasondelene nathi. Olu hlobo lwenhlonipho - wena nabanye abantu.

Umthetho wokuzihlonela

Ukubonakala kakuhle kukunceda ukufihla ubuthakathaka bethu (ukugula, isimo sengqondo esibi) kwaye singalahleki ukuzithiba nakweyiphi na imeko. Kufana nomsila wezobugcisa, phantsi kwazo iingxaki zomntu wangempela azibonakalwanga, ukubonakala ngokucokisekileyo okubonakalayo kusenza sibe nomda othile phakathi kwethu nabanye. Kubuhlungu ukuba uzide kude nabo. Mhlawumbi awukho kwindawo ebhetele namhlanje, kodwa ukulungelelanisa, iimpahla zangaphantsi ezibizayo kunye nesigqoko sokugqoka asiyeki ithuba lokuba abanye bayibone. Uziva unesifazana kwaye unamandla ngexesha elifanayo, zihlonele ngokukwazi ukuguqula iingxaki zakho ngendlela engabikho mntu uzakrokrela ngazo kwaye akayi kuzama ukuxhamla ubuthathaka bakho. Ngaphezu koko, ukubonakalisa kakuhle ukubonakalisa ukuba uziphathe ngokuhlonela uThixo kwaye ungavumeli nabani na omele banciphise umgama ekukhulumeni nawe ngaphandle komnqweno wakho.

Umthetho wokucinga kakuhle

Ngokuzenza ngokwakho, si ... sihombise ihlabathi! Kwaye ukuzithoba kwethu kukhula emva kokutshintsha kwindlela yokuzibona kunye nokuqonda kwehlabathi elikujikelezayo. Ukuzama ukulungisa into ebhetele kwindlela esibukeka ngayo, songeza into efanelekileyo ekuboneni kwethu inyaniso. Xa siqhakaza, ihlabathi liba lula kwaye libalabala: uqala ukudibana nabantu abalungileyo, phawula izinto ezintle ezintle, fumana amathuba amasha. Kwaye kule mvelaphi, esinye isixhobo sokuzithemba sivula. Nangona kukho iingxaki ezinkulu kunye neengxaki ezingathintekiyo, umnqweno wokuphila uphila kwakhona. Ubuncinane ukwenzela ukuba ubonise "uluntu" ukubonakala kwayo entsha enhle, kwaye njengento ephezulu - ukuyisebenzisa. Yingakho kwiimeko ezibuhlungu zobomi kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumana amandla okungazakheli kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, nokuba utshintshe ukuphucula. Yaye ukuba imikhosi leyo, sivakalelwa yimpembelelo yale ndlela ngendlela yokuzithemba kunye nomnqweno wokwenza ukuxhamla okutsha kwimpumelelo. Kwaye nokuba "ibhonasi" encinci, efana nokujonga okumangalisayo okanye ukunconywa kumhlobo, iba yinto ekhuthazayo kwisinyathelo esilandelayo esilandelayo.

Umthetho wokuxhomekeka

Ukunyamekela, okuqhubekayo kunye "nokunyameko" ukunyamekela ukubonakala, kuphakamileyo izinga lokuzithemba. "Ixabiso" lithetha ukuba akukho mali engenayo eninzi ngaphakathi, njengokuba ixesha kunye nomgudu onikezelwe ukuzinakekela. Ukuba sithatha usuku ngalunye nge-cream efanelekileyo, ngamaxesha onke sinika umzimba umzimba wokuzihlaziya, ukugcina ithoni yomzimba kwindawo yokuzilolonga, ubuncinane kanye ngonyaka siya kwi-resort, sizikhupha ngokuzenzekelayo emehlweni ethu. Umthetho weengqondo owaziwayo "Utyalo-mali, oxabisekileyo" usebenza kule meko ngekhulu leepesenti.