Oku kubangelwa yimveli yenkcubeko yabantu baseRussia, abaye bahlala bebaxolela izihlunu ezingcwele, bahlambalaza abantu abaphumelelayo.
Ukuchaswa kwengqondo, nokuba ingqondo okanye i-neurosis, njengobunxila, kwilizwe lethu kubangele ukwedlula ukwesaba. Kwaye ubulili besini, nangona ubuninzi beemagazini eziluhlaza, asiyi kuba nesidima kunye nomqondiso wempumelelo yomfazi. Ngoko kuvela imeko engaqhelekanga apho ukukhangela kwimeko yobundlobongela ngesondo ngokubhekiselele kwabasetyhini kuphendulelwe phantsi. Kukho izizathu ezintathu zezizathu zesiganeko esibi - indoda, ibhinqa kunye nabantu abasithathu okanye iimeko. E-Rashiya, kuqhelekile ukunyanzelisa indima yamadoda kule siganeko esingathandekiyo, kodwa indima yabasetyhini iphezulu. Siza kuzama ukugcina ingqalelo kunye nokuqwalasela zonke izinto ezintathu ezibangelwa ubundlobongela ngesondo.
Umntu njengomthombo wobundlobongela
Ukufundwa kweengxaki zobundlobongela ngesondo kwenza ukuba kubekho ukucacisa ngokucacileyo zombini umfanekiso wesibalo kunye nesengqondo somdlwenguli. Phakathi kwabahlukumezi baninzi abangamadoda angabodwa kunye neqondo eliphantsi lemfundo, ngokuqhelekileyo banomsebenzi onzima. Phakathi kwabasebenzi beofisi kunye nabahlakaniphileyo, abadlwenguli abaqhelekanga.
Amadoda athathwe ngobudlobongela ahlala ephikisana kakhulu noyise kwaye ahloniphe indima yomama kwintsapho. Inentloko yendoda enjalo iphalaji idityaniswe kwenzondo kayise kwaye izama ukukhusela ngokuziphatha kwayo kwindoda. Umzekelo wobuninzi kunye nobutshinga ngumama, owathi ngengcaciso ayikwazi ukuba ngumgangatho ofanelekileyo wokuziphatha komntu. Lo mxube ongaqhelekanga wokuchonga okungalunganga kunye neendibano zesondo, inzondo kunye nemilozo yokulwa noyise yenza indoda ixhomekeke kwizinto ezibizwa ngokuba yi-hypermasculine zokuziphatha. Ukubeka nje, bayaqiniseka ukuba yindoda enyantya engayaziyo inceba, ingaba yindoda yangempela. Ubundlobongela bezesondo ngabafazi kubo yindlela yokuqonda loo mbono yendima yindoda kunye nokhetho lokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwangaphakathi oluvela kwimpikiswano engaboniswayo yabantwana.
Amaxesha amaninzi amadoda, athelela ulwaphulo-mthetho, aphethwe yintsholongwane yeentlobano zesini (ukuphambukela kwimimiselo). Bathanda ubulili beqela, phakathi kwabo kaninzi kukho i-pedophiles, i-gerontophiles, abafihlakeleyo nabasetyhini. Enyanisweni, ubungqingili phakathi kwabadlwenguli ngokuqhelekileyo bubambele indawo. Oko kukuthi, bayayisebenzisa kuphela xa kungekho ukufikelela ekunxibelelaneni nabasetyhini, umzekelo, entolongweni okanye emkhosini.
Umfazi njengengcinezelo yobundlobongela
Isizathu sobundlobongela ngokwesondo ngokubhekiselele kwabasetyhini singabhekiswa kwingqondo yabasetyhini ngokwazo. Abasetyhini abasemngciphekweni kubaphulaphuli yilabo abasebuntwaneni babonakaliswe kwizenzo ezingcolileyo kubantu abadala kwaye baneengxaki ezinengqondo zengqondo malunga nesondo. Abafazi abanjalo batyhola abadlwenguli, besingazi kakuhle ukuba ba nobudlova. Uninzi lwabasetyhini luyaxhathisa abahlukumezi kude kube ngowokugqibela kwaye bayigweme ngempumelelo, kodwa kukho nabanye abafuna nje ukwesaba, indlela abazinikele ngayo. Le ndlela yokuzibingelelo isona sinqweneleka kakhulu kubadlwenguli, kwaye bayakwazi ukwahlukanisa intukuthelo intokazi ekulungele ukuzincama, kwintsimi enkulu.
Amaqela ezithathu kunye neemeko ezibangela ugonyamelo
Ubundlobongela bezesondo lunokubangela ezinye izizathu kunokuphambukiswa kwengqondo entloko yendoda okanye ukuthambekela ekutsaleni abadlwenguli kwinxalenye yowesifazane. Oku kuyinyani ngokukhethekileyo kumaqela abantu, abandakanya abantu abangahlambulukanga abangakabonakali okanye abonakalise ixabiso lempilo, umzekelo, abatsha, izilwanyana okanye iziboshwa zangaphambili.
Phakathi kwababangela ugonyamelo bangabalandeli beBDSM-themed. Kule ndawo, kuyisiko lokudlala imidlalo equka izinto zobundlobongela, ukuhlaziswa kunye nentlungu. Kukho bobabini abalandeli abanelisayo kwizifundo ezibuhlungu, kunye nabantu abahlazileyo beza kule ndawo. Xa sele sele uqhagamshelane nomfazi onokulungele ukudlala imidlalo yokudlala ngesondo ngesitayela se-BDSM, abanako ukuyeka, kwaye bangaba ngabadlwenguli bangempela kumfazi obeka engozini yokuzama.
Kufanelekile ukukhankanya ngotywala, obangela abanye abantu ukuba benze izinto ababengenakuyenza ngokucokisekileyo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, kwaye zonke iinkalo zobundlobongela bezesondo zidinga uhlalutyo olulodwa. Izizathu zingafani kakhulu, kwaye musa ukunyanzelisa abanye okanye ukukhathalela abanye. Nangona kunjalo, kuluntu lwethu-kubalulekile ukuvuma le nto - umfazi owaba yintlanzi yobundlobongela ngokwesondo, unobungozi kakhulu. Emva kwayo yonke into, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yimalini yecala lomdlwenguli, ingcinga kawonke-ndla iyenzeka njalo, kwaye ingekho kwicala lakhe. Yaye le nto ibangela ubuhlungu umfazi osele wayesebenzileyo.