Uloyiko lwakho loyiko
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ibinzana lokuba ukwesaba okuthintela ukusebenza ngokuphumelelayo yinyaniso enkulu. Kodwa wonke umntu uyamoyika ukwesaba, nkwenkwezi zehlabathi, ekhuluma nabantu abayizinkulungwane. Into elandelayo, kulandela ukwesaba. Umnqweno wokubeka kwi-cap engabonakaliyo okanye ukuzibonakalisa kum ukuba ndinokuyisa ukunqoba kwam. Isabelo esincinci sokwesaba sivumela umzimba wethu ukuba uvelise i-adrenaline, eyenza umzimba usebenzise amandla, oku kuthetha ukuba siqala ukubonisa iingcamango zethu nokuthetha bhetele. Ngoko uloyiko oluncinane, luncedo. Kodwa ukuba uloyiko alufunanga ukuhlawulela kwisixa esifanelekileyo, oko kuya kufuneka kulwa.
Beka intetho yakho
Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba ilungiselelo lokunikezelwa kwintlanganiso lwenziwa ngabaziwayo, abamele abaphulaphuli bexesha elizayo. Makhe bacele imibuzo engaqinisekanga, zama ukukubamba kwiindawo ezifihlakeleyo. Emva kokuba unemiba yangempela, uya kukwazi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba uphendule.
Hlaziya iziganeko eziba yingozi enkulu kuwe. Umbhalo okhohliweyo, isilayidi ayifumanekanga kuloo ntetho, zihlaziye ezi zihlandlo kwaye uzigqibelele, uthini ukuba uthetha ukungaphumeleli-ukugxekwa kwabasemagunyeni, ukuzihlambalaza?
Hlaziya uloyiko olusondeleyo, aluyi kuba luloyiko. Ngubani ongazange afumane abaqashi abathukutheleyo, ngubani ongazange enze umehluko ebomini?
Yenza uqobo lwakho umlambo
Ukuqhaqhazela, kungekhona umdla, ukuzithengisa - oku kuyisinyathelo sokuqala ukusilela. Abaphulaphuli, abayeka ukuphulaphula, baqala ukuphazamisa nokuzithemba kwesithethi.
Ukukhusela oku kuyimfuneko:
- Phawula amanqaku abalulekileyo entetho. Gxininisa kwilizwi, intetho kumanqaku ezobugcisa, okwangoku kubonakala ngathi kubaluleke kakhulu. Unako, umzekelo, ukuxelela ibali lobomi, ehambelana nesihloko saloo ngxelo, ukuba, ngokwenene, vumela ububanzi bomcimbi.
- Namela i-namamiku. Kufuneka kube bukhoma, kodwa kungabikho. Ngokufanayo kusebenza kwi-kzhestikuljatsii, unokuyidiliza ibe yintetho, into eyona nto ayiyikuyidlula.
- Kodwa uloyiko lwabaphulaphuli alukwazi ukuboniswa. Uloyiko lufundwa ngombono wokuthi abahambahambayo bajonge ngeenxa zonke egumbini, njengokungathi bafuna i-straw yokugcina. Ukuze ugweme oku, khetha abaphulaphuli banenhlanhla kwaye ujonge kuyo. Eyona nto ingcono kakhulu, ukuba uya kuhlala phakathi, ngoko uya kufumana ingcamango yokuba uthetha nabo bonke abakwiholo.
Bhala intetho efanelekileyo
Imvakalelo ayincedi, ukuba isekelwe kwisicatshulwa esithandekayo.
Isicatshulwa kufuneka siphulwe kwiindawo:
Isingeniso (malunga nokuba kutheni unqume ukuphuma ngaphandle kwexabiso kwaye uthathe ixesha elifutshane kubaphulaphuli);
Inxalenye ephambili (intsingiselo yentetho yakho);
Isiphetho (izigqibo ezivela entetho yakho).
Zonke iindawo kufuneka zixhomekeke ngokufanelekileyo komnye nomnye kwaye ziphuma zivela kwelinye lize lingabonakali.
Ukuba isihloko sesingxelo sakho asenzeli ukuba ibali elivuyisayo, uze ulihlaziye kunye namahlaya afanelekileyo, aphorisms. Iingongoma eziyinkcazo zichaze ngolwimi olulula, zithelekisa, ungasebenzisa kwesi sifanekiso. Ukuthelekiswa okunjalo kukugcinwa kangcono kwimemori.
Iziphakamiso mazibe mfutshane, zingadlulwanga. Umntu uyaziqonda ngokulula inxalenye yesine yolwazi, ngoko ke iingcinga ezibalulekileyo ziphindaphinda kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zombhalo.
Ungakulibali ukugcinwa kwenkcazelo yesikhashana, ekhangela umdla wabameli.
Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, isihloko salo mbiko sifanele sibe nesithakazelo, okokuqala kuwe konke, kwaye ke le meko iya kuhanjiswa kubaphulaphuli.