Ubomi obuqhelekileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo ukuqonda ukuba unethamsanqa okanye unenhlanhla kuwe kuxhomekeke kuphela kwiqondo lokujonga. Omnye kufuneka asebenze ngosuku, kwaye omnye usekhaya kunye namaphupha ngomsebenzi. Kodwa abo abanenhlanhla ebomini, ngokwenene abanomona. Ngokuqinisekileyo unako ukukholelwa kuyo okanye ungayithobeli ingqalelo, kodwa ehlabathini, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kukho abantu abangenabuhlungu kunabanye. Abantu abanjalo babizwa ngokuthi "iingxaki" ezingama-33 okanye "ingozi yomntu."
Ukunganeliseki ngenhlanhla
Kukho abantu ababetha ingxaki ngemifanekiso. Abantu abanjalo abanenhlanhla nantoni na ukuba bangenathamsanqa. Bafumana nje oko babelindele.
Ngokomzekelo, xa ufika ekuphumleni okufanelekileyo kwaye uhlala ehotele, kuya kuhlala kukho isibini esicatshulwayo ekuqaleni kokubona kuyo yonke into kunye nayo yonke i-nukes. Abantu abanjalo sele bevela emngceleni bathi badibana nabo, ukuba isikhokelo siyi-thug yangempela, ibhasi ihamba, ihlaziye kumanani angqongqo, kuyo yonke indawo inkohlakalo iyonke kuloo moya. Kwaye ngenxa yesizathu esithile, ngokungathi ngenjongo bafumana inani elibi kakhulu, apho i-conditioner emoyeni ayisebenzi okanye iipompo zigijima, zihlala zilibale ukutshintsha ithawula kwaye ziba ikhamera yevidiyo okanye isikhwama.
Ngelixa abantu bevuya, benobubele kunye nobungane kwihlabathi lonke, ngaphandle kweminye imizamo yabo bafumana ngamagumbi amahle kwihotele ngandlela-thile, bafumana amagosa angenakubungozi, oogqirha abanezakhono, iinkokeli ezizukileyo okanye abamelwane abakhethekileyo ababuyisa indandatho yedayim elahlekelwe kwizitepsi.
Kodwa apha akukho siphelo okanye iphela, njengoko kubonakala kum, ayikho nxu lumene noko kwenzekayo.
Ukuba awunathamsanqa ebomini, kwaye uphatha ama-dentsfacted alents, ke:
- kunokwenzeka ukuba awuyikuqonda oko konke;
- ukuba kuqondwe, ke oku kukunqoba;
- zilahlekise izinto ezingalindelekanga; akazange aqalise, sele elungiselelwe "ukuchithwa kwegazi", ungenzi naluphi na ukubikezela (akukho nto, akukho mbi);
- ukufunda, ukuthetha nabantu, ukuvavanya kubo ukuvavanya kunene;
- kwaye nje umomotheka kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kunye nehlabathi, ngokukhawuleza, liya kukuncoma.
Uhluphekile uLucky Boy
Kukho abantu abangena enkingeni nje njengengxenye yendlela yobomi. Ihlanganiswe ngokohlobo lomntu. Nangona iindaba zeentlungu kunye neengxaki ezivela ngaphandle zivakala njenge-saga malunga nokungabi nabulungisa kwendalo, akukho nto ikumangalisa kulokhu kungabi nabulungisa.
Le nto inenhlanhla, ayinalo inhlanhla, bathi ngabantu abanjalo. Ndaya ekhaya-ndayifumana entloko. Ndandimgxotha kwisitimela ukusuka emsebenzini, nditshwenyeka kakhulu - ba ndiyisa kwisikhululo samapolisa kwaye andingazi ukuba babhala ntoni. Yaye yonke into ayinenhlanhla kuye, bonke bayanqotshwa kwaye bacinezelwa, bahlawuliswa kwaye baxoshwa.
Kwaye kutheni? Ewe, kuba ngulo hlobo. Ihlwempu. Hayi, ngokuqinisekileyo, andizange ndihambe ekhaya, kodwa ndakwazi ukunxila ndaza ndalwa. Ukuhamba emotweni kwaye akazange abonise ithikithi kumlawuli, kuba loo nto ayizange isitsho. Ingxabano yaba yinto yokulwa. Ngoko amapolisa ayithatha. Kwaye ngoko ebomini.
Kukho uhlobo olukhethekileyo lweentombi ezihlala zihlala kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeengxaki zesini. Bahlala bexineka loo madoda, bazama ukumthabatha ngemoto, ngenxa yomona umntu onomhlobo ubulala abantu, ngoko banamafoshe abaphambene kunye neminye imimese okanye into efana nayo. Kwaye abayiqondi ngokwenene isizathu sokuba inhlanhla enjalo.
- Ndihamba nje ngokukhanya ngokubanzi kwindlela engaphantsi. Umntu onovelwano wayehleli kum, waqala ukuthetha, wadibana. Saya kwi cafe, sahlala siphuza ikhofi. Emva koko i-champagne encinane. Emva koko uya kubamba inja ... iinyawo! Makhe siye emnyango kunye nam, uthi. Kwaye ngubani na ocinga ukuba lo mntu wayeyingozi kangaka? Ubani ngokwenene?
Ngoko, ukuba unentlonelo ebomini, ngoko:
- kunokwenzeka ukuba, uyazi oku, kodwa awukwazi ukuba unokuhlangabezana njani nale nto;
- kwenzeka, kuba ngaphambi kokuba uphathe ukungena enkingeni, uhlala ucinga ukuba: uhleli nje isiqingatha seyure; uya kusela enye iglasi; ubonise uluvo lwakho, uthetha nomntu onomdla, njl.;
- Ukwenza uluhlu olucacileyo, onokuthi ungayenzi kwaye ulufunde njengePIN-code yekhadi lasebhanki, uhlaziya rhoqo kwimemori. Futhi musa ukwenza oku ngaphandle kokunye.
- Buza abahlobo (ukuba kukho) ukubanceda, njengoko bathi, "kwinyoka" kwaye, naphezu kokuchaswa kwakho, baya kugcinwa bangangeni ekubophelelweni.
Ilahleki epheleleyo
Ukuthetha kunye nabalahlekelwayo, asiyithandi kwaye sihlala sifaka ukuba zonke iingxaki zabo - kuphela iphoso labo.
"Uvile ukuba uManet ohluphekile!" Bandixosha emsebenzini, bengabakhokheli iinyanga ezintathu. Kwakukho omnye onabantwana abathathu, kwaye wayenomvumba ogqutywe ngamathambo!
Emva koko sikhohlela, senze isikhombiso esifutshane, kwaye sitsho ngokucacileyo ukuba uManya ngokwakhe ubeka ityala, kuba uyavuma ukuba akusiyo iphoso lakhe ukuvuma ukuba kwenzeka nakubani na. Kodwa abantu abangenayo i-Unlucky enobumba obuninzi abaphendulwanga ngokupheleleyo kuzo zonke iingxaki zabo. Naluphina unxibelelwano nabantu abahluphekileyo kunye neentsilelo ezingonwabiyo azikho nto efanelekileyo. Imfuno yokuqala yokuxhaswa kunye noncedo kwaye iya kubakhokelela wonke umntu kwiindawo zakhe. Uncedo kunye nenkxaso abantu abanjalo ngokuqhelekileyo bathabatha njengento efanelekileyo. Kwaye sekuyisikhathi sokuyeka kwaye ushiye abantu bodwa abazicingayo. Ezi zilandelayo zifaka isandla kwisimo esibi sengqondo yethu.
I-Unlucky yangempela ayinobungozi kwaye inomnandi. Bona, bazisa inhlanhla. Le ngxaki i-uszunchiki, enengxaki yayo ingenakulungelelaniswa neengcinga. Abantu abanjalo bafana namaqhawe kaPeter Richard. Baya kuhlala bekhetha ngokungaqhelekanga isihlalo esinomlenze ongekho.
Abantu "amahleko angama-33" ayenomdla kakhulu, athokoza, unetalente kwaye egcweleyo, kwaye akabi nakonwaba kuyo yonke into.Izixinzelelo abanye abazenzayo kunye nokuba zibuhlungu kakhulu, zibonakala zixakeke kakhulu kubantu. ukuphonsa ezinye izingozi ezihlekisayo kumntu, ngexesha elifanayo ukukhetha abantu ngokungazenzisiyo, bangakwazi ukuphelisa iingxaki zabo ngolu lukhuni lweengxaki, kubakho ngokubanzi, ukuba basasazwa nathi.
Ukuba ulahlekelwe ngokupheleleyo ebomini, akukho nto kuwe kunye neengcebiso. Qaphela, thandaza, ukuba uqhutywe.