Ukhwele ngumhlobo othembekileyo wothando, u-squire wakhe, umkhuseli, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ungumonakalisi. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uyisebenzise ngokucophelela. Uvakalelo luyingozi. Ngamanye amaxesha inokuthi inganciphise ukujonga okanye ukuphosa abanye abantu. Emva koko uyaphula aze aphule yonke into ngendlela yakhe. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukutshatyalaliswa kunye nobuxoki ngokusoloko kutyeshelwe kwaye kushiywa ngaphandle kokuphendula.
Ukuba nomona kubasetyhini kubangelwa ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa inkxaso kwizinto zokuphila, umgcini wesondlo, umkhuseli. Amadoda nabo abafuni ukunika iqabane labo lesini ngokwesini. Uluhlu olunjalo kwi-genetic level lunegalelo ekubunjweni kwabesifazane ababizwa ngokuba yi-female intuition, ukukwazi ukuqonda ubuxoki, ubunqunu kunye
ngqiqo. Kubantu, ngoko, ukukwazi ukukhohlisa nokuguqulwa kuye kwaphuculwa kwiikholeji.
Ngamanye amaxesha amaqabane olwabelana ngesondo asebenzisa umona wobukhwele ukuvavanya amandla olwalamano lwabo okanye ukuvuselela ubuhlungu bentando. Isini ngasinye sineendlela. Siza kuqwalasela ngokusemthethweni. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokwenza umona ngendoda ethandekayo.
Ukudlala. Abasetyhini banamathuba amaninzi kunokuba amadoda athobe ngothando kunye nabameli bobulili obuhlukile, ngaloo ndlela babangela umona ngomntu othandekayo. Unako ukuya phi na yedwa, ngaloo ndlela uvumela iqabane lakhe ukuba liqonde oko kukufunayo kunye nokungaqwalaselwa komntu, okuyimpumelelo.
Indlela yesibini yokubangela umona, ukungaziboni njengokuba kubonakala ngathi, kukunyamekela ngokungathandabuzekiyo umthandayo. Ukugatya ukudibana, ngaphandle kokuphendula iifowuni, ukuphepha zonke iintlanganiso, umfazi angabangela isithwathwa somnqweno kumntu, apho uhlobo lwesimo somzingeli luvela kwimvelo. Umdlalo kwi "Cat kunye neMouse" kufuneka ube mncinci kwaye ucinge. Ngaphandle koko, indoda ethandekayo, eyaphumeleli, inokulibala malunga nexhoba layo kwaye itshintshele kwenye
Indlela yesithathu iyona ndlela iphumelele kakhulu, kuba ichaphazela intambo yesintu. Oku - ukunyanelana ngothando nomnye phambi kwintanda yakhe. Imidaniso, ukugcoba, ukuthandana nomntu ongaqhelekanga kubangela isithwathwa somnqweno entliziyweni yakho. Ubuqhetseba obuqilileyo kulo mbandela lunokuba ngumntu onqabileyo phezu komnye umntu ebusweni bakhe. Ukuhleka kuqondwa ngabantu besini ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo Xa umfazi ehleka, kubonakala kumntu ukuba ngale ndlela ubonisa umdla wakhe wesondo. Emva kokuva ukuhleka, umntu uyaqhaqhazela aze asebenze. Kule meko, le ntokazi ibangela ukuba abaqhubi beentambo badibanise phantsi komculo wakhe, odla ngokuphelela kwabo.
Kutheni abesetyhini bekulungele ukuhamba emngceleni welasha, bebangela umona kubantu? Njengoko uphando lubonisa, bambalwa abenza njalo ngaphandle kokuziphindezela, ngelixa abaninzi bezama ukuvavanya amandla kunye nokujongwa kweemvakalelo zabo, ukubonisa ukuba amanye amadoda anomdla kuye. Ngokukodwa umnqweno wokubangela umona kwintombazana ethandekayo kubonakala kubafazi abayeni babo bavuke ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba lezentlalo kwaye baqalise ukunyamekela abafazi babo.
Ukukhwabanisa ngomona kuphakamisa ukuzithemba komfazi, kumnceda ukuba azibambelele emehlweni akhe, nakwiqabane lakhe. Ukuba akahlali engathintekiyo, akaqapheli ukudlala ngothando, kwaye iimvakalelo zakhe zaphela. Ukuba unesiqhwithi sothando, ngoko. ibhinqa liyathandwa kwaye lifunwa.
Abasetyhini, njengokuba isiFrentshi sitsho, akwenzanga ukubaxolela abantu ngomona, kodwa abazange bamxolele ukungabikho kwakhe. Kodwa ke, ngaphambi kokuba ubangele umona wakho othandekayo, cinga malunga nokuba kuyimfuneko ukuba ulwalamano lwakho.