Asiyena wonke umntu onokuyonwabela ubomi. Ziziphi iintlobo zabantu abakwiimeko ezimeleyo, siya kufunda ngokufunda eli nqaku.
Ubuchule bokunandipha ubomi bubugcisa obuqulethe ukuziva "apha nangoku," kunye nokukwazi ukuthatha nantoni na isiganeko ebomini ngaphandle kwexabiso. Ihlabathi lihle, ngaphandle kokuba ...Ucinga ukuba inyaniso ayiyiphutha, abantu banamaphutha amaninzi kunoko, kwaye uthando alukho - kukho uxhomekeke kuphela okanye kubalwa. Ihlabathi elikujikelezile liyingxube yokungaqondani, kwaye abo baphila ngaphandle bazele ukungapheleli. Ukuba inkampani yabaselula ihleka ngokukhawuleza emva kwakho, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kugqiba: bayakuhlekisa. Umntu oye wakubona ngenyameko kwindlela engaphantsi komhlaba uya kuba "ngumgxeke" oceba into engenabubele.
Kodwa ihlabathi liyimifanekiso yesibuko semibono yakho. Uya kutyhafa kwaye uphumelele, oku kuthetha ukuba abantu abayi kuziphatha kakuhle, kodwa xa uyancwina, uya kufumana izizathu ezininzi zokuvuyela ngokubuyisela.
Uqwalaselwe ngokufanelekileyo ngesondo, kuba uxabisa intuthuzelo, ujabulele ubomi kunye nomzimba wakho, kodwa kuphela kwimida ethile. Into ehamba ngaphaya kwayo iyalahlwa kwaye ayinalo ilungelo lokuba khona. Ugxininisa: ubuhlobo bufanele bube bugqibeleleyo - wena, ekugqibeleni, utshatile uze udale intsapho. Kodwa into yokuba umtshato uyona ndlela ekhethekileyo yokuphuhliswa kweziganeko ayikho into. Mhlawumbi inyaniso ixhomekeke ngaphambili, emva kwexesha elizayo lokugqibela? Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ucebile kangakanani ukucinga kwakho, akunakucinga ukuba ezinye iziganeko zingenzeka njani. Thembela ihlabathi, ukhulule ukubamba, ufunde ukwamukela nokufumanisa: i-destiny yakho ifana nencwadi endala. Eyinqabileyo, eyinqabileyo kwaye engaqhelekanga. Akunjalo nonke nina niyicinga.
Ihlabathi iimeko ezimnandi ze-prilyubyh
Uwuhlobo lokuvuyela. Uyamkela nayiphi na isiganeko ngokulungela, kwimeko nganye ufumana umzuzu othe tye - oku kukwazi ukuzonwabisa ubomi kunokuthanda. Ngeendlela zokuhamba, ufumana ithuba lokufunda ulwimi lwangaphandle, kwaye ukusuka ekukhuliseni nomhlobo wakho awunakwenza intlekele yenkulungwane - uxelela isiphephelo esithi "siyabonga" ithuba elinqatshelwe ukufumana indoda yamaphupha akho. Umoya wakho uzimeleyo kwiimeko zangaphandle, kuba wena ngokwakho ungumvelisi wenjabulo. Yaye ukuba umntu ekwazi ukuthenga kuphela umzekelo omtsha kwithuba elithile, uye kwi-resort okanye kwindawo eneenkunzi ezibizayo, ngoko unako ukuzonwabisa ngebhayisikili, ukufunda okanye ukuhamba malunga nomzi.
Hlala ubomi obumnandi - kungenxa yakho, kuba akusiyo wonke umntu ohleka kangaka enokukhathazeka, kuphela unokukhala ngokukhawuleza, ukukholwa ngokunyanisekileyo nothando lwangempela alunikwe bonke abantu. Andizange ndilibale indlela yokubona ubomi imihla ngemihla emitsha, emangalisa kwaye inomdla, kwaye ngoko ke-ndonwabile.
Ihlabathi liya kuba lihle xa ...
Ubomi bakho buya kwisicwangciso esilula, kodwa sidumala kakhulu: "Umele ulinde kancane, kwaye yonke into iya kuguqulwa." Uthi ngokwakho: Uya kuvuya xa uthenge indlu, utshatile, ulahlekelwe isisindo, ukhule unwele, njl njl. Kodwa kutheni, xa ufinyelela injongo, Kutheni uzifumanisa kwakhona ungazivuyo? Yintoni efana nobunzima bokungakwazi ukuvuya? Abo bajikelezayo baphendula ngokuthi: "Yintoni enye into evuyayo?" Cinga ngomqala! "Xa ucinga ngako:" Ndiya kuphumla nini na? kuphuza "Ndiyasebenza!" - impendulo eqhelekileyo kwizicelo zeentsapho ukuba ubanike ingqalelo. Kodwa ngokudakisayo: Xa ukhe wuleza, ungaphantsi ulawulo. Kwaso kusihlwa ulala uvakalelwa kukuba ungekho ixesha. nokuba uyeke kwaye uphendule umbuzo othi: "Ngaba ndiya khona?" Ubomi bomntu obuthathakayo abubuvila, ukungakhathaleli kwiingxaki kunye nokungabi nokunyanzelwa komsebenzi osebenzayo.
Oku kufakwa kwinkqubo yakhe kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ithuba lokunandipha injabulo ngoku, ngaphandle kokulibazisa ngomso. Kuphi ukuqala ukuba "ubuhle" obuhle, obuhle "? Funda ukunandipha okuncinane: isidlo esimnandi, usuku olushushu, ilanga elidlulileyo kwisijikelezo sabahlobo.
Ihlabathi alikwazi ukuba lihle, kuba ...
Ukususela ebomini awulindele into enhle, kwaye akukho nto esele yenziwe ukuba ulungele ukulindela kwakho. Zonke iziganeko ezingathandekiyo zinqabileyo ukuqinisekisa ubungqina bawo obungathembekiyo. Kuthekani ukuba ukhangeleka ngokwenene kwi-angle ehlukile? Vumelanani: ukuphendula umbuzo othi "ndiyifunayo ntoni le?", Uya kuncedwa ngaphezu kokuba uhlushwa ekukhangekeni kweso siganeko. I-elevator ayinamathela ngenxa yokuba awuyikuphumelela, kodwa uwele ivela entloko yeofisi, "inetyala" ingxelo. Amathikithi kumafilimu aphelile kwangaphambi kokuba aphumelele ngenxa yokuba ubomi bekungaphumelelanga, kwaye ngoko, ukuba uhambahamba ngesixeko, udibana nomntu wamaphupha akho, ucinga ukuba ulonwabo lusekho apho, kude kwaye konke kunqongophala, awuboni ukuba kusondele, kufuneka ukholelwe kwaye unwebe isandla. Kuyibuwula ukucinga ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwikamva, akunangqiqo ukukhangela izizathu zeengxaki eziye zenzeka. Kuphela umzuzu wamanje ufanelwe ukumnika ingqalelo kunye namandla.