Ubungqingili besifazane kunye nezizathu zayo

Kancinci uqale uqaphele ukuba ube ngumntu onesizungu, udabukile entliziyweni, akukho mntu unokuthetha naye kwaye wabelane ngemibono yakho. Kodwa yintoni umcimbi? Kutheni kwenzeka oku? Emva koko, bekubonakala ngathi yonke into yayihamba njengoko kufanelekile. Masihlanganisane kunye nezizathu ezinokwenzeka zokuzihlalisa kwakho. Hayi, abaninzi abafazi baqhelana nengxaki yedwa. Bengazange batshatile okanye baqhawule kwaye bavelise umntwana ngaphandle kobawo kwaye bafumananga ixesha lokudibana namadoda ... Ezi zinto zibuhlungu, njengowesifazane oye walahlwa yenkxaso kunye nesithandane somntu unobungozi ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ngokutsho kwimiba yezilwanyana zezilwanyana, abafazi abangenalo ubomi obusondelene nabo banenkathazo ye-hormonal, iindawo ezinobungozi okanye ezinobungozi kummandla wesini somzimba. Yaye malunga nokucaphukisa kunye nokuthetha akuyimfuneko, kubonakala kwindlela oziphatha ngayo - ukwesaba kunye neentlekele, utyhoxisa abantu kude nawe.

Kutheni kukho inani elikhulayo labasetyhini abangatshatanga ukuhlangabezana nomlingane wabo womntu? Abanye baciniseka ukuba amadoda amancinci, kunye nalawo angayifanelekanga ngenxa yemikhwa emibi. Ngoko kuvela ukuba ukhangele indoda efanelekileyo, ukuze ilungiselele isidlo sakusihlwa, kwaye idibene nomsebenzi, kwaye yanikezela iintyatyambo ngaphandle kwesizathu. Akudingeki ukuba ube neengxaki, uthathe iiglasi ezibomvu, ngokuba akukho bantu abafanelekileyo. Unokukhangela bonke ubomi bakho, kodwa awukwazi ukuyifumana, kwaye emva kokuguga uyazisola ngexesha elilahlekileyo.

Awuqondi isizathu sokuba yonke into ibe yinye, kwaye akukho nto enye, kuba unayo yonke into yakho: ubuhle, ubulumko, imfundo ephakamileyo, umsebenzi obalaseleyo, kodwa unayo inhlanhla kunye nabaqhubi? Kwaye ukhangele amanye a madoda, njengoko athi, "akukho ubuso, akukho sikhumba," akukho bulumko obukhethekileyo kunye nemali, kwaye isihlwele siphelile. "Kancinci kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, umona nokungaqondi kuya kuqala ukukugwinya:" Yintoni ephosakeleyo kum? "

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafazi abangatshatanga baninzi abaxhamli beentlanzi kunye neengqondo. Kodwa ukuba oko akuncedi? Yintoni ke, kufuneka yenziwe? Okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde izizathu zokuzihlalisa kwakho.

Isizathu sokuqala nesona sibalulekileyo kukuba uloyiko lowesifazane, luqine kakhulu kwaye luyaqonda ukuba luloyiko lobuhlobo obusondeleyo nomntu. Uloyiko olungenalwazi oluvela ebuntwaneni. Ukuba umama wakho waqhubeka ephindaphinda kuwe ukuba bonke abalimi bafana kwaye bavela kwiinkathazo kuphela, ngoko ebusheni bakhe intombazana leyo iya kukhwankqiswa yindoda, ngenxa yokuba inxulumene nokuba yingozi kwaye kungcono ukuhlala kude naye. Ngoko ke, lo mfazi wenza konke, kwaye akaqondi kakuhle, akayi kudibana nomntu, ukuphula yonke ubudlelwane naye aze ahlale yedwa. Emva kwakho konke, kubonakala kuwe kukuthi ...

Isizathu sesibini yimibono ephakamileyo yobomi bentsapho kunye neemfuno eziphezulu kakhulu kukhethiweyo wakho. Njengomthetho, olu hlobo luyinto eqhelekileyo phakathi kwabesetyhini abakhuliswa kwintsapho ngaphandle kobawo. Inguqu yabo efanelekileyo yowoda ivela kwiifilimu okanye kwiincwadi zothando ngothando. Yingakho umntu oqhelekileyo ebonwa ngumfazi njengendoda enesiphene. Abafazi abanjalo bangaziqhathanisi amadoda abo kumntu onobuxoki, kwaye ekugqibeleni badanike.

Kukho a mabhinqa, ngokuchasene noko, abukeka ngokwenene kwisiqingatha sabo sesibini, ukuthatha zonke iingenelo kunye nokungahambi. Bakhetha ngokukhethekileyo umntu onjalo, kodwa abafuni ukunikela into ethile ngenxa yentsapho yolonwabo. Kubo, ukuzimela, umsebenzi kunye nophumelelo lwemali kuqala.

Ukuhlalutya ngokucophelela ukusilela kwakho, qaphela zonke izizathu ezikhoyo kwaye uzama ukuziphepha. Sitshintsha isimo sakho sengqondo kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo - ungakhathazeki ngokulondeka kwakho, kodwa ujabulele! Zixelele: "Ewe, ndiza kube nini na ukukwazi ukwenza okufanayo njengamanje, nidlale kuze kube sebusuku kwi-nightclub, nawuphi na umzuzu ukuba ungene kumsebenzi woshishino othakazelisayo okanye ukuphumla kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ndizithobele yonke into?". Intsapho iya kubonakala kamva, kwaye ke uya kuba nezinto eziphambili kwizinto eziphambili ebomini, ngoko ngelixa ixesha elikude likunika ixesha elikhethekileyo lenkululeko - lizisebenzise ngokupheleleyo, uphile ngokuzeleyo. Kwaye uya kuvuya.