Yeka indlela embi ngayo! Andikwazi ukumnceda!
Olu luloyiko olubalulekileyo: lusikhuthaza ukuba sihlakulele, sifunde izinto ezintsha ukuze sichukumise ingcamango ye-MCH. Ukuphazamiseka kukungaqiniseki. Akukho nkwenkwe ethanda ukukuncenga: "Ewe, wena, yonke into yayinkulu!" Ukuba unqweneleka, kufuneka uthande ubulili kunye nawe. Ngoko musa ukubuza: "Ngaba uyayithanda?" Wandula, usolula ngokukhawuleza kwaye uhlaba isiponji: "Ndingayithanda kanjani ..." - kwaye uya kwenzeka nakwizulu lesixhenxe.
U-Megan Fox owayengumlingani we-sexy ...
The lekisa luncedo. Kwaye nangona ukuthelekiswa akukwenzeki, ungabesabi. Yintoni eyokuthintela ukuba ungene kwi nqanaba elifunayo uze wenze umfana onjalo, apho uya kuhamba ngeveki enomothekayo?
Ufuna kuphela ngesondo!
Kwaye wena, unesaba ukuba unawe kuphela ekubizweni kwe-physiology, ukulungiselela izikhundla zesondo, ukummangalela, wenqaba ukuzama kwaye uhlale ebuza ukuba uyakuthanda? Kwiirhafu ezinjalo, nakwabo abanako, kungekhona nje ngenxa yeengcingo zokubhinqa, ziya kufumana ukushisa okumhlophe. Zigwebe ngokwakho: ingaba uyatshitshisa kwaye uyisicwenge kangangokuthi akakwazi ukuzifumana, ukuba unqwenela, uhlobo oluthile lweentombazana ezithandekayo? Isiphelo: ukuba unayo, kukho kuwe into ekholisayo isithunzi sakhe kuphela, kodwa ubuchopho bakhe nomphefumlo.
Ndiya kuba ngumama kwiminyaka eyi-19!
Olu luloyiko olukhuseleke kakhulu, oluya kweso sihlandlo lusenza sigqoke iikhondom kunye namakhwenkwe ukuba athathe iipilisi. Ngendlela, i-cyprianophobia - ukwesaba izifo ze-venereal-nayo imfuneko kakhulu. Ukuba ukwesaba imiphumo yesondo kakhulu kangangokuthi ngokusemthethweni unqabile ukujongana nayo, okanye xa umfana ekhupha, unabantwana kunye nezibhedlele zebhedlele zidansa phambi kwamehlo akho - lesi sihlandlo sokuthetha nengcali yengqondo. Nguye kuphela onokukwazi ukubona izizathu eziphambili ze-phobia.
Ewe, ngexesha elizayo ngokuqinisekileyo ucela ucansi lomlomo ...
Ngaba ukhathazekile ukuba i-MCH iyakuthandazela into ongazizange uyiphuphe ngephupha elibi? Oku kuthetha ukuba awuthembeli kuye kwaye awakulungele ukuvula umzimba wakho kuye. Cinga nje: konke malunga nokungahambi kwamava okanye ukuba ezinye iinkolelo zesilisa ziyakukukhathaza ngokuziphatha nangokwenyama? Ukuba ngowokuqala, kungcono ukuba uthethe ngokuchanekileyo MCH, ukuba unentloni, kodwa ulungele ukuzama. Yaye ukuba isibini - khumbula: akumele uyenze nantoni na ongayithandiyo. Kodwa wenyuka "kwimenyu" izinto onokuyithatha indawo into enje (ukuhlamba ngesondo, ukutshatyalaliswa, ukudlala amathoyizi) ukuba loo mntu akayi kukhubekiswa.
Uya kucinga ukuba ndiyiphambuke!
Ukuba ufuna ukuba akubophe emthini, xelela ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa kungekhona ngetoni efana "nokwabelana nawe ngesondo kunzima, masifunde into entsha"! Nxumle indlebe yakhe ukuba unephupha malunga ne-oh-so-so-fantasy fantasy. Thetha imeko yonke ngokuvakalayo - umzekelo, yenza isondo ngefowuni: ngendlela ehlekisayo, ilizwi naluphi ububungqina kwaye ufunde impendulo ye-MCH. Mbuze into aphuphayo ngayo: "Ndiya kuthandana nantoni na!" Khangela ifilimu apho ifantasy ibonakaliswe - kungekhona imfesane: unokuvuyisa kunye neentlobo zokutshutshiswa kwiimifanekiso zomoya. Faka umdlalo odlala indima. Ekugqibeleni, yenza konke ngokwakho - uya kubandakanyeka. Ngokuqhelekileyo, yenza ngokucokisekileyo - ngokukodwa xa ukrokrela ukuba uMCH unokuba neophobia: ukwesaba i-novelty. Ngendlela, wena ngokwakho awukwazi ukulungela entsha, yingakho uyika ukwenza ingxelo malunga nomnqweno wakho wemfihlakalo - kodwa kuthekani ukuba uMCH uyavuma?
Mhlawumbi, ndiza kuba ne-orgasm, kuphela ndizalele abantwana abalishumi, iminyaka inkulungwane ...
Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ubumnandi obuthathaka obunokubona - oku kuluhlaza, musa ukuzibeka njengeqhwa lesini. Kungcono ukuqonda izizathu. Izinto ezinciphisa ububele, ubunzima: izidumbu zesisu aziqeqeshelwa, udiniwe, le nkwenkwe iyakhawuleza kwaye ayikuvuyi ngokukhawuleza ngaphambi kokulala, ukukhuseleka kubuthathaka kunye nokunye. Kakade, akufuneki ukuba uthi kumfana: "Awuzange ungivulele!" - ngaphandle koko, kuya kuba neurotic kwihlabathi. Fundisisa umzimba wakho, zama iindlela ezintsha zokuneliseka, amaxabiso ahlukeneyo kunye neendawo zokuthatha isenzo, ukuhlawula kwisondo - kunye ne-orgasm yokuqala iya kuba yinto enhle!
Yonke, ewe, iya kuba budenge kwaye ihlekise
Izandi, ukuthunga, isikhumba semvula, ubuso obunzulu, ucacisa kwiphepha kunye nezinye izinto ezinokuzikhusela. Ngaba abazali bakho bazama ukukufundisa kwi-chistyulyu enyanyekayo? Kwaye ungacingi ngendlela yokuhambisa nokuzonwabisa, kodwa malunga nokuba ungene njani kwisitya emva koko? Okokuqala zama ukuthululela kunye nomntu osuka kwiphubhu enye, sondla ngesipuni, uhlala uhlamba kunye, uhlale uhlamba kunye ne-wipe wancinci kunye nawe, ngenyameko unike isithandwa esithandekayo, cinga ngomzimba wakhe-ukuzisebenzisa. Ziqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba kwiluphu nolwimi lwabantu abaphilileyo akukho zintsholongwane ezibulalayo kwaye akukho ntoyikisayo
Kodwa oku kunenekisayo:
- I-Gynophobia - ukwesaba kwabasetyhini
- I-Homophobia ukwesaba abantu
- UFilem phobia - ukwesaba ukumanga
- U-Ntifallofobiya - ukwesaba isithunzi sesintu esasemva
- Merevomixofobnya - ukwesaba ukutyhila izitho zangasese kunye nokuchaphazela umzimba womlingane
- I-Disabillophobia - ukwesaba ukuphazamiseka (apha i-dysmorphophobia - ukwesaba kweempembelelo ezibonakalayo ezibonakalayo) Ukungabi namdla - ukwesaba imiphumo emibi (kodwa, njengoko besithi, amehlo ayesaba, kwaye izandla zenzeke) aziyi kwenzeka kuwe. Bese ucinge ngomntu onokuzibonakalisa ukuhlanzeka kuwe - enye inkwenkwezi efanelekileyo - kwaye uzame kuye iinkcukacha eziphathekayo eziphathekayo. Zonke ziwa phantsi kweemeko ezibuhlungu - kwaye zihlamba emithonjeni ye-serotonin.
Kwaye ngaba abafana babesaba
Bakha banda ngcamango yokuba:
• abayi kukwazi ukukholisa
• uvuyo kwindawo engafanelekanga
• okanye akhuliswa kwizona zifanelekileyo (i-medomalakufobiya - ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ukulungiswa - ngokuqhelekileyo kusekuhlaleni)
• uyintombi (njengoko yavela, amadoda angaphezu kwe-70% ayesaba ukuba ngowokuqala, izazi zeengqondo zaze zafuneka zifike ngegama elithi parthenophobia - ukwesaba iintombazana ezingenacala)
Ngendlela, i-parthenophobes iphindwe kathathu ngaphezu kwe-primizodofobov - amantombazana ayikayo ukusazela ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi bawo. Mhlawumbi, amadoda amaninzi anesifo esingapheliyo sogonyamelo - ukwesaba uxanduva)
• uya kuba namava kakhulu (abayi kukukholisa!)
• I-ex-sexier yakho yangaphambili kuneZac Efron (kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kuphinda uwafanise)
• Ucela ukuba eme phezu kwentloko yakhe kunye nenkqubo yezilingo ozakufumanisa ukuba akayena umgcini wesigxina ngesini sonke
• uvavanyo luza kubonisa imivimbo emibili, imivimbo emibili!
• wena, ujonge isidima sakhe, uya kucinga: "Intlawulo-kwaye-kwaye, yilokho!"
Njengoko ubona, phantsi kweengubo zamakhwenkwe namantombazana, phantse ukwesaba okufanayo kulindele. Ngoko ke, kuyonwaba ngakumbi ukuba uthathe inxaxheba ekuloleni kwaye luncedo ngakumbi kunomsebenzi weqela. Kwaye iyeza elincomekayo kunoma yiliphi uloyiko ngokwesondo ngokwawo ...