Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba emsebenzini ujikelezwe kuphela ngabantu basekuhlaleni. Ewe, akuyilo elo elophuphayo lomfazi - ngaba kukho umntu onokugqoka, kunye nobani ukudlala ngothando kunye no-pokryat? Kodwa ngelishwa, kunzima ukuba ibhinqa eliseqeleni lamadoda liphephe ingqwalaselo eyongeziweyo kuye kwaye ingathembeli ngamathuba angcali. Ukuba uya kufumana umsebenzi kwindawo enjalo, lungele udlala ngokuchasene nemithetho.
Ngoko ke, uqale ukusebenza kwindawo entsha kwaye ngosuku lokuqala uqaphela ukuba oogxa bakho bajonga ngentshisekelo kwindlela yakho, kwaye bazama ukunikela uncedo lwabo. Ekuqaleni, ingqalelo ingqalelo, kodwa emva kwexesha elithile, iqala ukuthukuthela kwaye ifikelele. Siza kuthetha kanye, kwedwa, abafuna iqabane lomntu, le mijelo ayisebenzisi. Kodwa ukuba ungowesininzi sabasetyhini abasenabo abathandanayo okanye abanomdla, ukugqithiseleka okunjalo kwabasebenzi kunye nabo kungekudala kuba ngumthwalo, ngakumbi xa abasebenzi abaningana beqala ngokuzenzekelayo baze bafune indawo yakho. Ukuba umsebenzi awukho ixesha, ngenxa yokuba uhlala uphazamiseka ngcokola, okungahlawuliyo ngezihloko ezithambileyo. Kwaye oko kwenzeka njalo nangona oogxa bakho banamakhosikazi okanye iingubo ezingunaphakade kwaye akukho nto iya kutshintsha kwiimeko zabo zobomi. Ngokulula, bona ngokwabo, phantse ngaphandle kokuthanda kwabo, baba ngamaxhoba kwimeko yangoku. Akunandaba nokuba ungumfazi omhle, u-coquette okanye umfazi onamahloni, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, nguwe kuphela umfazi kwiqela.
Amadoda amaninzi akholelwa ukuba umfazi akakwazi ukuba yinkwenkwezi ephakamileyo kunye nokwenza izigqibo ezinoxanduva. Yaye ungamangaliswa ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba iiprojekthi ezithakazelisayo zisuka ezandleni zakho, uhlala unikwe imisebenzi yesikolo, ezibalulekileyo iintlanganiso zizama ukubamba ngaphandle kwakho. Kubuhlungu, kodwa inyaniso - kwiqela lomntu, ibhinqa kufuneka libonakalise ubuchule bayo yonke imizuzu. Ngoko kufuneka ulungiselele umzabalazo omkhulu wokusinda, kaninzi ngaphandle kwemithetho. Ukuphumelela kwakho kobugcisa kuya kuthukuthela amadoda kwaye kulimaze umqondo wabo wokuxhomekeka. Isiqingatha sethu esithandekayo sithandeka kakhulu ukudibanisa kunye nokuphakama komnye umntu kunokuba sitshathwe "ngumfazi oyintlekele". Ngoko ke, abaninzi abasetyhini, kanye kanye kwiqela la madoda, baqala ukuvakalelwa njengomntu onjenge-spy, bephonswe kwintsimi yintshaba. Musa ukuyithatha loo nto ngokugqithiseleyo, kwaye ke ezinye izilumkiso aziyi kuba zingekho.
Musa ukuqhuba iingxoxo ezide kunye nabahlobo bakho kumsebenzi wefowuni, udibanisa intlanganiso yezolo okanye uxabane nomyeni wakhe. Qaphela ukuba amadoda awanamacandelo angakumbi kunabesifazana, kwaye nje kufana nokuhleba. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kungcono ukugcina ubomi bakho bobuqu kunye neempawu ezisixhenxe. Kwaye nangona kunjalo, musa ukuxoxa, nangemfihlelo, kunye nabanye ootitshala kunye neenzuzo kunye nokuphazamiseka kwabanye: ubudlelwane besilisa buya kusasaza, kwaye amagama akho aya kuhanjiswa ngokukhawuleza kunye nekholeji, kwaye, mhlawumbi, ngendlela ephosakeleyo.
Ekulweni nokuxhatshazwa ngokukhawuleza, zama ukungahambi ngokugqithiseleyo-ukuba ube ngumhlobo "wekwenkwenkwe yakho": amadoda angalingani awakwaziyo, ngoko awuyi kuhlonishwa ngale ndlela. Zive ukhululekile ukugxininisa ubufazi bakho kunye nobuthakathaka xa uthi, kufuneka udlulise itafile okanye uvule i-transam edibeneyo. Kodwa ukulungisa ukuzenzela phambi komntu wonke okanye ukubhekisela kwimpilo ephosakeleyo ngexesha "ezinzima iintsuku" akuvumelekanga. Akuyimfuneko ukubuza rhoqo. Oogxa bakho banokukhathala ixesha elide.
Izambatho ezinonophelo, ukwakheka okubalulekileyo okuphambili Njengempahla yokusebenza yansuku zonke, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukukhethwa kufuneka kunikwe iseshishini esomeleleyo. Ukukhishwa ngokwemigangatho ngamagqoke anxibile kunye neengqayi, iingubo ezimfutshane, nto leyo leyo igxininisa ubulili bakho. Kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe ngoku ucocekile kunye nokuchaneka: izinwele ezicocekileyo, ukwakheka kakuhle, kumbala we-pastel, ukuvumba okomnandi kodwa kungenamandla.
Gcina indawo yakho yokusebenzela icocekile kwaye ihlambuluke.