Ukuhlaselwa phantsi njengendlela entsha yokuzimelela kwabaphathi

Unokwakheka ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngengqondo yakho yobuntwaneni: "Yintoni eyenzekayo ukuba ndiphumelele kwisikolo somculo?" Mhlawumbi kuluphawu lokuba uqale ukwenza oko ufunayo, kungekhona abanye abantu abafuna kuwe? Kule meko, kufuneka usebenzise into entsha. Umzekelo, ukuhlaselwa phantsi, njengendlela entsha yokuzimelela kwamagosa, kuya kuhambelana nabani na umntu, uthembele kuye ngokwakhe nangomkhosi wakhe.

Kukhangeleka ukuba kwintlalo yanamhlanje, izibonakaliso zobomi obuyimpumelelo, ngumvuzo omkhulu kunye nomsebenzi ophezulu. Okwangoku, abanye abaphathi banqabile ngenjongo yokukhupha umgangatho wemisebenzi. Ukunciphisa ubunzima bentsapho obulinganisiweyo kunye nosuku olusebenzayo olufutshane, nangona kulahlekelwa ngumvuzo. Kuyintoni-ukukhathala, ukungabi nantoni? Akunjalo! Namhlanje, le nto iyintlekele yentlalo, ebizwa ngokuba yi-downshifting.


Ngoko yintoni na?

"Ukuhlahlela" kwiinguqulelo zesiNgesi kuthetha "ukutshintsha." Ilizwi liboleke kwisigama sabathathi-mafutha: oko kuthiwa iigesi ziguqulela kwisantya esezantsi. Eli gama linikezwa intsingiselo emitsha emva kwenkqutyana epapashwe kwiWashington Post ngoDisemba 31, 1991, yayibizwa ngokuba yiBomi kwi-Downshift: Ukuhlaselwa kweNtshukumo kunye nokuKhangeleka kweNtuthuko kwiminyaka eyi-90. Ijongene neengxaki ze-yagsha ye-classic-i-collar "emhlophe emhlophe" eneenjongo zokubaluleka kuyo iinjongo eziphambili kubunkokeli, inzuzo ephakamileyo kunye nesimo sezentlalo ephakamileyo. Ezi zithethe zihambelana ngokuthe ngqo: imivuzo eqinileyo ivumela ukugcina umfanekiso kumgangatho ofanelekileyo, oko kukukhuthaza ukuqhubela phambili.

Ekugqibeleni, wonke umntu ophumelelayo wokuba ngumqeqeshi uya kuba ngumninimzi kwiimeko zakhe, uchitha inxaxheba yengonyama yengeniso yokufumana izinto ezenza umfanekiso. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba ipeniti yakho isayina iikontraka ezingabizi ngaphaya kweedola ezingama-50, awukwazi ukujonga emehlweni oogxa kunye nabaxumi ngaphandle kokuhlazeka. I-yuppie ehluphekileyo inyanzelekile ukuba iphelise intsapho kunye nolonwabo kulutsha. Uninzi lwabafundi luya kutshatyalaliswa emsebenzini: iindleko zabaxolisi kunye nokutyelela kwi-psychoanalyst zibe enye yezinto ezibalulekileyo zenkcitho.


Kukholelwa ukuba i-downshifting, njengoluhlobo olutsha lokuzimelela kwamagosa, linikezela kwiinkampani ezinkulu zolawulo, apho umqeshwa ngamnye engekho isikhokelo sendlela enkulu esebenzayo kwisakhelo esinzima semithetho yenkampani. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, akukho nto eyenziwa ngumntu okanye ubugcisa obuhlala kumntu, kubonakala ngathi uyazilahleka aze azibuze yena: "Kutheni ndiphila?" Ukususwa kwe-Downshifting yindlela enhle yokuphula isicangca esichukumisayo, ujabulele ubomi njengobutsha, apha nakwangoku, kwaye ungayishiyi konke okusemandleni kamva.


Ingcamango ye-downshifting ayizalwanga ngo-1990, ngaphambili. Kwiminyaka yama-1960 kunye neye-1970, le mvakalelo yayisondelelene neengcamango zama-hippies, umzabalazo woxolo kunye ne-ecology. Ngowe-1980, i-American Dune Elgin yazisa igama elithi "ukulula ngokuzithandela" - indlela yokuphila apho umntu enokuzinza ngokwaneleyo kwemali ukuze anelise iimfuno zokomoya. Ukuba ukunyanzelwa kobuhlwempu kunqanda umntu, ngoko "ukulula ngokuzithandela" kumnika inkululeko yokuzikhethela. Ukuhlaselwa kwezinto eziphantsi komhlaba kubandakanya ukutshintshela kwi-regime "yokwanela" kunye nokuqonda ukuba ukuba unoyolo aludingi imali eninzi, ama-cottages, imoto. Ngamafutshane, asinanto into eyongezelelweyo.


Imfihlo yabathandi beGoa

Akukho sikhokelo sokuhlaselwa phantsi. Abanye baphuma emsebenzini wokukrakra baze bahambe behlala kwidolophana, abanye batshintsha indawo yabo yomsebenzi, bangena emsebenzini kwimibutho yoluntu kunye nesezincedo, ngelixa abanye behamba kwisiqithi esincinci se-tropical kwaye baba ngabahlanguli.


Kunokwenzeka ukulandelela iimpawu zesizwe zokuhlaselwa phantsi njengendlela entsha yokuzimelela abaphathi. Ngoko, eNgilani inemibala ekhanyayo, kwaye kugxininiswa kukusetyenziswa okanye ukulima kwemveliso ye-organic, ukuqhutyelwa kwerhasi, ukugcinwa kwamandla. E-Australia, "kugxininiswa" kutshintshela ekutshintsheni indawo yokuhlala - abaphathi bayishiya indawo ephoqelekileyo, esecaleni.


E-Ukraine, i-fashion for downshifting yafika malunga neshumi kwiminyaka kamva kuneyona nkqantosi yaseNtshona-mhlawumbi ngenxa yezizathu zoqoqosho. Lo mzekelo, njengamanye amaninzi angaphandle, abahlali bethu baqonda kwaye bathetha ngendlela yabo. Sinobo banqwenela ukubandakanya ishishini elincinci kunokuba "basebenzele umalume", kunye nabaqhubi be-freelancers abaqhelekileyo abanemfundo efanelekileyo nekhono, kodwa abafuni ukuhlala eofisini imihla ngemihla ukususela ngo-9: 00 ukuya ku-18: 00. , nangona abangenayo impawu ebalulekileyo! Emva kwakho konke, i-downshifting yintsimi ephakamileyo kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, kwaye ukuze uhla, kufuneka uqale ukuphakama kakhulu.


Kukho, nangona kunjalo, sinabo basekuqaleni abasuka kwilizwe laseNdiya lakwaGoa kwaye bahlala khona, kwingeniso abayifumanayo ekuqeshweni kwezindlu zedolophu. Ngaba ucinga ukuba isizathu sokubalekela emazweni atshisayo ngenxa yokufunwa kwama-exotic? Akunjalo. Ubuncinane bokuhlala kwiidolophu ezinkulu kunzima kangangokuba kunzima kakhulu ukugcina intsapho njenge-downshift. Nalokhu kuyimfuneko ukushiya kwiindawo ezikude zaseIndiya apho ubomi kumaxesha angabizi.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuzitholela, akudingeki ukuba uphule umsebenzi wakho kwaye ube yinto yokuxhamla. Abaninzi ababengumsebenzi wokusebenza baye bakwazi ukufumana iindlela ezintle zokunciphisa i-downshifting: abaphulaphuli isangqa soqhagamshelwano, abayeki ukuphela kwehlabathi. Bahamba nje kwindawo efana kwenye kwenye inkampani, apho kukho umvuzo omncinci, kodwa sele isiqendu semisebenzi. Abasetyhini bahlala behlala emsebenzini wabo, batshintshe kwimisebenzi yesikhathi esithile okanye bavumelane ngeshedyuli eguquguqukayo.


Nangona kunjalo, izazi zengqondo zilandelelana ngokubaluleka okubalulekileyo: ixesha elide umntu ehlala "kungekhona kunye" nobomi bakhe, ekuzaleni iinjongo ezibekwe nguye umntu, ngokugqithiseleyo utshintsha imigaqo yokuba khona kwakhe.

Amava daunshifters ancebisa umntu ukuba acinge ngento ayenayo ngokwenene, ukukhumbula amaphupha abantwana kunye nabaselula kunye nokufaka ididi entsha, apho ungaqala ... ukuvuka kwakhona.


Umzobo we-Downshifter

Ukuhlaselwa phantsi kukubonakalisa amandla okanye ubuthathaka? Yintoni abaphathi abavame ukutshintsha ubomi babo? Iingcali zengqondo kunye neenzululwazi zihlukanisa amaqela amathathu.

Ookuqala uquka abaphathi abaye baba ngamaxhoba okufakela kwabazali. Yithi, intombazana, ukuthobela umama noyise, yangena kwisikolo somthetho ukuba ibe "ngumcebisi ofunayo" okanye nje umphathi oqhelekileyo, ufumane umsebenzi angayithandiyo, kodwa wenza ngokholo oluhle, apho ehlala efumana ukunyuswa kunye nokwanda kwimivuzo. Yena emva kwayo yonke into yokugqibelela: abazali, isikolo, isikhungo, intloko-bonke bamfundisa ukuba bafeze imisebenzi kuphela kakuhle. Kwaye bafundisa ... Kodwa ngokukhawuleza uyaqonda ukuba akahlali, akayi kusebenza, akukho msebenzi, kwaye akongezeli umvuzo, aze atshate ... abe ngumfazi wendlu, kwaye ngoko ke uwela ekuxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kumlingane!


Iindawo zokungcebeleka kweqela lesibini ukuya kwi-downshifting, kuba ayikwazi ukuhlangabezana noxinzelelo lwengqondo nangokwengqondo. Ukufumana imihla ngemihla ngeendlela zokuhamba ngeemoto kwiiyure ezimbini ukusuka ekhaya ukuya emsebenzini, kwaye emva koko uze unelisekile kanye ngonyaka kunye neeholide ezimbini zeveki, ufuna ngokwenene ukuba ube nempilo ephawulekayo.


Udidi lwesithathu lwabalandeli be-downshifters lubandakanye nalabo sele bebethe iindibano ezibukhali ezizeleyo, iimoto kwaye bagqiba ukuba imali eyaneleyo iya kuba yanele ngokwanele nabazukulu bexesha elizayo kwaye lixesha lokwenza okuthile ngomphefumlo. Abantu abanjalo bashiya ishishini lobugcisa, inceba okanye ukucebisa.


Ngokuqhelekileyo isigqibo malunga ne-downshifting sihambelana neengxaki zeminyaka ephakathi. Vala abantu abahlala bexhasa ifilosofi yezobugcisa kwaye bacinge ngeentlungu zakhe zengqondo njengento enkrakra nobudenge. Nangona kunjalo, umnqweno wokunciphisa umthwalo osindayo wokusebenza kunye nokutshintsha ugxininiso ekuthandeni uphuhliso lwangaphakathi okanye impilo kukubonakalisa nje isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ebomini bomntu! Kodwa ukuzincama kwintlalo-ntlalontle efuna ukuba into ebonakaliswe rhoqo kubanye iyinto efanayo.


Ngoobani abahlala behlelwa phantsi - amadoda okanye abafazi? Akukho nkcukacha echanekileyo. Kubonakala ngathi esi sicwangciso sihambisana nesondo esilungileyo: ukushiya umsebenzi ngenxa yentsapho kunye nabantwana. Esinye isizathu "sesibhinqa" sokuthi i-downshifting kukuba abafazi abanothando abafuni ukufumana okungaphezu kwamadoda abo. Nangona, ngakolunye uhlangothi, amadoda aphakanyiswe "njengabavukuzi" ngokukhawuleza ajoyina ukhuphiswano kwisihloko esithi "Umnikazi wezimoto ezininzi kakhulu" kwaye ekugqibeleni ... hamba kude ukusuka ekukhathala.


Nangona kunjalo, namhlanje, i-downshifting ibe yindlela yokwenza imfashini, kwaye, mhlawumbi, abanye abaqeqeshiweyo baya kulandela nje ngokuba kuyimfashini.


Yilungiselele ...

Yintoni oyifunayo ukuba uyazi malunga nomntu oceba ukuba phantsi? Okokuqala, kufuneka azenzele isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukuhlala phantsi okanye izicwangciso zokubuyela. Emva kwakho konke, ithemba elibonakalayo elibukhali kunye nexesha lingafi ... Okanye kuya kuba nezinto ezintsha zenkcitho: kuya kubakho ukuhlawula imfundo yabantwana, apho kuyakufuneka ukuba iphinde iqale kwibala lomsebenzi.


Gcinani engqondweni: abaninzi abaqeshi bayakrokrela abahlaseli be-downshifters. Ukuba umntu ulahlekile umsebenzi, uphi isiqinisekiso sokuthi akayi kuphinda aguqule ixabiso lenkampani? Kungcono ukwenza yonke imizamo yokugcina udumo lobugcisa kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukuguqula i-zigzag emsebenzini wakhe. Izizathu ezihloniphekileyo zizifo okanye iintsapho.


Awukwazi ukwenza ngokugqithiseleyo isigqibo malunga ne-downshifting kwimvelaphi yoxinzelelo lwentlungu okanye ukukhathala okukhulu. Kungcono ukuthatha iholide kwaye uqikelele ngokucophelela i-pros and cons. Kuya kuba mnandi ukwenza itafile ngokubhalisa iingeniso kunye neengxaki zomsebenzi wangoku kunye nocetywayo kwiigrafu ezahlukeneyo. Esikhundleni semibandela eqhelekileyo kufuneka usebenzise ulwimi oluthile, umzekelo isivakalisi esithi: "Ndiza kuba nexesha elikhululekileyo" lithatha indawo enye indawo: "Nsuku zonke ndiya kuba neeyure ezithandathu zexesha lokukhulula." Ukuvavanya amathemba amatsha amatyala, kunceda ukuzixhobisa nge-calculator kwaye ulungelelanise umgangatho wemvuzo olindelekileyo kunye neendleko ezinokwenzeka.


Kodwa into ebalulekileyo kukuba uphulaphule ilizwi langaphakathi kwaye uqonde iimfuno zakho zokwenene, uphendule umbuzo othi: "Ndibona njani ubomi obonwabileyo?" Ngoko kubalulekile ukukholelwa kuwe kwaye unqobe ukwesaba okungaziwa. Amawaka abantu asebenza kwishishini elingathandekiyo, umzekelo, ulawulo, ngenxa yokuba abaqinisekanga ukuba baya kuphumelela kwaye bayavuya, benze oko baphuphayo malunga nobomi babo bonke! Awufuni ukujoyina amaqela abo? Ukucingela, zama ukuzicingela ngekamva, xa i-state efunwayo iya kufezwa.


Kwaye, ke, zilungele imiphumo engalindelekanga. Ngokomzekelo, ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi kubahlobo kunye nosapho, uya kufumana ngokukhawuleza ukuba oku akunakwenzeka. Kuba xa ukhululekile, wonke umntu ... uxakekile.