Abafundi bezengqondo zeBulgaria emva kokufunda ixesha elide ngezizathu zokubola kweentsapho baqulunqa imigaqo elandelayo yabasetyhini abafuna ukuba neentsapho ezintle:
1. Musa ukucinga ukuba uqeqesho, umsebenzi kunye nentlalo yoluntu iya kutshintsha intsapho yakho kunye nabantwana . Njengoko kunzima, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokudibanisa. Futhi ungakulibali ukuba ibhinqa kufuneka lihlawule ingqwalaselo ebalulekileyo kwimbonakalo yakhe, iimpahla kunye nazo zonke ezinye iimpawu ezibonakalayo nezingabonakali zobuntombi.
2. Intsapho enhle ayiwa phantsi esibhakabhakeni, ayiyi kukhulula , ayifaki ngokwayo. Oko, njengalowo nantoni na umntu, kudinga iinzame ezinkulu, ingqwalasela kunye nekhono. Ngaphezu koko, okungakumbi ukusuka kumfazi kunokuba yindoda.
3. Xa kukho imbambano, ingxabano, ingxabano, ifuna ityala kuqala kuqala, kwaye kuphela emva kwendoda . Ezinye iintsilelo zabantu zihlala zibonakala ngaphezu kwazo ... Kungakhathaliseki ukuba zithukuthele kangakanani okanye zithukuthele ngesenzo somyeni wakho, musa ukukhawuleza ukusabela, uphawule izikhalazo zakho. Lindela, zama ukunciphisa. Yaye yenze kuphela.
4. Zama ukufumana iziganeko ezintle kwimeko kunye nokubonakala komyeni kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, mxelele ngabo. Ukuva malunga nobuhle bakhe, uya kuzama ukuphucula. Ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokuthetha ngendlela enhle ngayo naye. Ukudumisa ukuzithemba kukuqinisa ukuxhamla kwakhe. Ngelo xesha, ukuvuma okunjalo kuyashukumisa, kuyomeleza. Qonda ukuba nakwiindawo ezithandanayo, naphezu kwamaphupha okuthandana omntu opheleleyo, kuxhomekeke kuwe.
5. Musa ukucaphukisa , utyhafile , ungadli , nangona kukho isizathu salokhu. Umfazi onomdaka ngokukhawuleza ubetha umyeni wakhe . Kholelwa ukuba umyeni wakhe unenkxalabo enkulu kunye neengxaki zakhe zesintu. Kungcono ukukhumbula indlela izolo owazama ngayo ukunqoba, wamkhetha phakathi kwazo zonke ezinye iifestile, kwaye ukuba ufanelekile kakhulu.
6. Ukuba wena (into eyenzekayo) ngokukhawuleza ivele kunye nomntu osebenza naye okanye omnye umntu udlala ngothando , ungamvumeli ukuba akhule abe ngumdla onzulu. Oku kuya kubangela ukubandezeleka okungadingekile kwaye kuveze ukwethuka kwintsapho. Into entsha ayinakwenzeka ukuba ibe ngcono kwaye iphelele ngakumbi. Kuyakwazi ukumazi kangcono, mhlawumbi ungayifumana imiphumo engakumbi kunomyeni wakhe, oye wajwayele ...
7. Zama ukubakhuthaza abantwana ngothando kunye nenhlonipho ngoyise. Musa ukukhuphisana naye, uzuze uthando lwabo . Yiba nesisa. Hlonipha abazali bakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba baneempawu okanye iimpawu zabo. Uyabona, nangona engabonakali, ukunyamezela kwakho kunye nozuko.
8. Musa ukuthatha izigqibo ezibalulekileyo ezibaluleke kakhulu kwintsapho. Xoxa nabo nomyeni wakho, kwaye nangona, mhlawumbi ekugqibeleni, isiphakamiso sakho siya kwamkelwa, uya kuziva ukuba uthathe inxaxheba kwisigqibo oxabisa ngayo imbono yakhe. Nangona ubunkokeli bamadoda kuluntu ngokupheleleyo, kwintsapho indoda ihlala ilukhuni kunomfazi ...
9. Musa ukuvumela intando yomona , kodwa ungahambi kumbindi ogqithisileyo, ungabonakali.
10. Zonke ezi zinto zikhankanyileyo akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ube yintsapho yentsapho , cima isidima sakho kwaye ushiye umbono obalulekileyo ngezinto. Hayi, kungekho nayiphi na indlela. Batshengise, bafune into efanayo kumyeni wakhe, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi benengqiqo, benomlinganiselo wendlela kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, banothando olukhulu.