Umama wendlu unganqamle ukuthetha. Ingqungquthela yabangane bakhe kuncinci, nangona kunjalo, njengesangqa sesithandwa sakhe. Nangona umyeni edibana nabantu abatsha, ufunda amaqiniso anomdla, akhula, umfazi uxakeke kunye nendlu, umntwana kunye naye. Ngenxa yecandelo elithile elivela kwilizwe elijikelezile, umfazi angase aqale ukuhlaziya. Yaye indoda yakhe-ingalahlekelwa ngumdla kumfazi omncinci. Akunakwenzeka ukulinda imeko ebalulekileyo, sifanele senze ntoni?
Abafazi bezindlu ...
... zihluke ngokupheleleyo. Ngohlobo lokuqala, umgaqo oyintloko ngumyalelo kwindlu. Usuku ngalunye uhlamba phantsi, ucofa ngokucophelela isitya ngasinye kwaye uyasibekela ngokucacileyo umbhede. Mhlawumbi akayikunyamekela ingqalelo, kodwa ekuhlambulukeni kwendlu yakhe kunye nokukhanya.
Iintyatyambo zihlala zityiliswa kakuhle, kwaye izimbiza zilungiswe ngqo kumgca. Uhlobo lwesibini alukwazi nokuba ziphi izitya, yiyiphi i-bobbin kunye nendlela yokuwaphula isitya kwisitya. Kodwa ixhomekeka ngokufanelekileyo kuzo zonke izitolo zeefashthi kunye neendawo ezibuhlungu. Kuye, unako ixesha elihle: libiza kwaye lihle. Uhlobo lwesithathu lwabafazi basemakhaya alunomdla kwindlu okanye ukubonakala kwawo, kuba bonke ubomi bakhe ngumntwana wakhe. Unomama onomdla. Amawaka amabhinqa asebenzi kwaye ahlala ekhaya, kwaye ngalinye lala mawaka likhethekileyo, kunye nemilinganiselo yalo kunye neentlanzi. Kwaye wonke umntu ngaphandle kokungabikho mnye angakwazi ukuzalela umntu wakhe okanye angalahlekelwa ngumdla kuyo.
1. Phuma nge-monotony
Bored? Ngenxa yoko, engathandabuzekiyo, engabonakaliyo kwaye ecindezelekileyo. Yilapho indoda ivakalelwa ngayo yonke into, iqala ukucinga ngomnye umfazi. Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo lusindiso lwangempela. Kumele ukuba kukho konke. Kumele ukwazi ukuvela phambi kwendoda e-hypostases ehlukeneyo, umzekelo, intombi enomdla kunye novelwano, iqabane eliyingqondi, inkosikazi enomdla, umfazi wendlu, owaziwayo umdla, intombi eyintsipho. Kulula kakhulu ukucinga ngomfanekiso, kuba iiprototype zitholakala ebomini, kwiincwadi nakwiindidi. Kubalulekile ukutshintshe ngobuchule ukusuka kwelinye ilizwe ukuya kwelinye, ukuba ungabonakali ngexesha elibalulekileyo kwaye unzulu kakhulu phakathi kweeholide okanye ukuzonwabisa.
2. Ukuzonwabisa ngenxa yokuphazamiseka
Ukongezelela koqoqosho kunye nabantwana, kukho izinto ezizigidi eziza kuba nazo. Kuthe malunga nokuzonwabisa ezifana nemidlalo, ukudweba, ukucula, ukuthwebula izithombe, i-cinema, ukudansa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukutshintshisana kunye neentsapho kunye neentsapho kunye ne-discos kunye ne-kinoshki kunye namantombazana enoba kunjalo. Kodwa kusasa nangesemini, ngelixa umyeni esebenza, akudingekile ukubukela uchungechunge lwe-TV okanye amabali avela kwi-stellar life. Ngoko unesihloko esitsha kwintetho ngokuhlwa, okanye kwinto yokuzonwabisa. Kuya kuba mnandi ukuba i-hobby entsha ifake imali-utyalo-mali oluncinci lwezezimali kwiintsapho, ngaphandle kokubandlulula uqoqosho kunye nabantwana babo, loo mntu uya kuxabisa.
3. Icala loBuchule boBomi
Ukwabelana ngesondo - isona sibalulekileyo ebomini kubantu ababini. Xa kuphakama iingxaki kuyo, bahlala benomlinganiselo wendawo yonke kwaye isisombululo sabo sifanele sifike ngokukhawuleza. Ibhinqa kufuneka libe yinkosikazi enekhono, inqwenelekayo kwaye ingakhathali, imvelo, ihlale ilungele ukwenza uthando. Emva kwexesha, amaninzi amaninzi le nkqubo iya kwiindawo zokugqibela, ngelixa umnqweno womntu ungapheli iminyaka emininzi.
Bhalisela i-geisha yesikolo, ukuze ufunde izifundo ze-striptease, ukumangalisa umntu onomsebenzi othabisayo.
4. Musa ukukhuphela iingxaki zasekhaya
Kuba ngumama wendlu, ihlabathi lihlala lijikeleza ngeentambo zepuphu, iiplate kunye nabacoca i-vacuum cleaners. Le yinqwelo yakhe, apho epheka imihla ngemihla. Kwaye akaqapheli ukuba iingxaki zeentlobo ezinamafutha ezinqabileyo ezingenakuchukumisa kumlingane kwaye kunye neempompo ephukileyo kwindawo yokuhlamba ayimkhathazi, kuba kukho i-fitters engakwazi ukulungisa yonke into. Unentsebenziswano yeentloko kunye neemvumelwano, abathengi, iinkcukacha kunye nezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo zoshishino. Xa efika ekhaya, ufuna ukuphumula kuzo zonke iinkxalabo, eze kwindawo apho kungekho ziingxaki kwaye uhlala emkelekile.
Zama ukuthetha kuphela iindaba ezilungileyo kumlingane, kunye neengxaki zendlu ukuhlangabezana nawe-kodwa uxanduva lomyalelo kulo luhleli kuwe.
5. Funda ukuphulaphula
Enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo kwiqabane elimnandi kukukwazi ukuthula kunye nokuphulaphula. Ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukuba ngumlawuli kwaye unike umyalelo kumkhosi wakhe omncinci - yonke indlu. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba ufuna ukuthetha nje, ukuvakalisa ukunganeliseki kwakhe, ukulila kwisibambiso sakho, ubone ukumomotheka nokuqonda. Ngexesha elinjalo kufuneka ukuba - kufuneka umele! - njengesiqingatha sakhe sesibini sibe sisilumkiso, sinomusa kwaye sinesihawu.
Yonke le mithetho emihlanu ilula, njengabo bonke abanomsebenzi. Into ephambili ayikho nje ukuyazi, kodwa ukulandela.
Zama ukutshintsha ubomi bakho ubuncinane inyanga enye, uze ubukele iziphumo. Baya kukumangalisa!
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