Makhe sithethe ngamathuba abantu ukuba baxolele umfazi wabo othandekayo. Yonke into incike kwisimo sakhe kunye nothando. Indoda inokuvala amehlo akhe kakhulu. Omnye ufungayo, ukuba umfazi wakhe-ucosa isobho, kwaye umntu unokulibala ngokungcatsha. Yonke into incike kuloo mntu okanye loo mntu. Kodwa ukuba uphatha umntu ngokuhleka, uhlaziye isimo sakhe sengqondo ebomini kunye nomfazi, unokwazi ukubona ezinye izinto abanokuzixolela ngaso sonke isikhathi ngenxa yobundlala obuthathaka. Unikezelwe ukuba uthanda.
1. Ukuba ibhinqa lichitha imali. Nanku kuninzi kuxhomekeke ekubeni kukho imithombo yengeniso kumntu othandekayo, ubuninzi bomntu obuthabathayo, kwaye kaninzi kangakanani inkunkuma yemali. Amadoda amaninzi afana nendlela isiqingatha sabo esingasindisa ngayo nokulawula uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali ngendlela efanelekileyo. Kwaye umntu onomdla ujonge uthembekileyo wakhe, okhupha kwiziko lokuthenga iipakethi ezininzi ngeengubo. Kodwa okokuqala kuqala. Ungalibali ngoku. Uhlobo luni lomntu oyithandayo, ukuba uchithe zonke iintsapho zakho.
2. Xa umfazi engathandi umyalelo. Kukho amadoda amaninzi ahambelana ngokuzenzekelayo kwiindawo ezikuzo. Kwaye, bethetha ngokunyanisekileyo, abanandaba nokuba yintoni umbala owenziwe kwi-shirt yabo, ingaba kukho uthuli kumashalofu. Kungcono ukuba kwakungekho amabala, kwaye indlu yayibuswa ngokulandelelana kunye nococeko, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba le ntokazi ayinayo ixesha elaneleyo le nto yonke. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntu akayiyo ingulube ehlambulukileyo kwaye uyamthanda umfazi, uya kumxolela umyalezo omncinane. Amadoda amaninzi asebenza kakuhle emisebenzini yasendlwini kwaye anokuzikhupha, ahlambe izitya zawo, elindele ukuba umfazi asebenze. Kwaye, unokholo, ngenxa yabo ngeke kubonakale njengobumnandi obukhulu.
3. Ukuba ibhinqa lipheka kakuhle. Sekuphelelwe yisikhathi sisitatimende esithi "indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu ilele esiswini sayo." Ngokwemvelo, amadoda amaninzi athande iinqebengwane ezenziweyo kunye ne-borsch, kodwa, ngenhlanhla, abaninzi babo baya kuphendukela kwinto yokuba umfazi akwazi ukupheka i-jellyfish ngaphandle kwento. Baya kuhamba naye kwi-cafe okanye kwindawo yokutyela. Kwaye kunokwenziwa nawuphi na umzi. Namhlanje, abapheki abakhulu emhlabeni babizwa ngokuba ngabantu. Ukuba umntu uyamthanda umfazi, uya kudla ngokutya ukutya okutshiswayo aze amxolele umfazi wakhe ngenxa yesiphumo sakhe esingathandekiyo.
4. Xa umfazi engathandi ukudibana nomyeni wakhe kunye nabahlobo kwindawo yokuhlambela, ngelixa uloba. Indoda inokumxolela umfazi ngenxa yokuba ayiyithandi iminqweno yakhe enomsindo, kuba engathandi ukuqokelela abahlobo bakhe abathembekileyo. Amadoda amaninzi ayaqaphela ukuba iveki yentsapho inomdla ngakumbi kunama-liters ayi-bhiya, utywala kunye nabahlobo ngokuloba.
5. Ukuba umfazi uthanda ukutyelela i-salon beauty. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuthanda kwakhe umzobo kunye nemaski kungaphula isithuba esikhulu kwisabelomali, kodwa ngenxa yesimo esihle somyeni wakhe nobuhle bakhe, abaninzi abantu babala umfazi wayo imali. Ngethamsanqa, amadoda sele sele eqonda ukuba ibhinqa elilungele kakuhle ngumfazi omhle. Yaye yile nto abafuna ukuyibona umfazi wayo othandekayo.
6. Xa ibhinqa lijonga ulandelelwano lonke uchungechunge. Ngokwemvelo, ukuba umyeni wakho ungumfundisi we-philology, ngoko uya kuphazamisa ukuchitha ixesha lakho phambi kweTV. Uya kuphupha ukuphulaphula iinkqubo ezinengqiqo kunye neencwadi zokufunda. Kodwa ukuba indoda yakho iyindoda ephakathi, iya kukuxolela amava akho. Ngokukodwa ukuba emva kokubonakalisa ukumenza isidlo sakusihlwa kakhulu, uze ubeke into enomdla ebhedeni.
7. Ukuba ibhinqa kunye nabahlobo bakhe babelana ngeemfihlelo ezincinci. Ayikho imfihlakalo abantu abathanda ukuthetha ngayo ngokunqoba kwabo neengxaki. Kodwa xa befumanisa ukuba umfazi utshela bakhe abahlobo yonke into, yonke into, yonke into, ingaba nzima kakhulu. Kodwa ngethamsanqa, bayaqonda ukuba lohlobo lobuhlobo kunye nomfazi akunakunceda ukuthetha nabangani bakhe. Ngako oko, amadoda akulungele ukuxolela umlingane wakhe ngenxa yokunyaniseka kwakhe, into ephambili kukuba le nto ayikukhathalelanga ukungaphumeleli kwabo kwibhedlele yomtshato.
Ewe, kukho izinto ezininzi ezinjalo. Ngoku siyazi ukuba amadoda angabathethelela abafazi. Yonke into incike kwisixa sokuxolelwa kunye nesixa sothando esithandwayo. Kodwa ungacingi ukuba ukuba uya kukunyamezela, ngoko yonke into inokunyamezela. Musa ukuzama umonde wakhe. Unako ukuxolela, ukuxolela ezimbini, uze ucaphuke.