Ngokwamanyathelo amaninzi ayamkelekileyo, amaninzi amadoda ayingqondi xa kuziwa kwiimvakalelo. Ngokungafani nabasetyhini abanokuchitha iiyure baxubusha ngamathemba abo, amaphupha kunye neemvakalelo, amadoda athetha ngokungaqhelekanga ngezihloko ezinjalo. Ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo zomntu kubangelwa ukuvuma ubuthathaka. Ukuthathaka kwabasetyhini kuyinto evamile yezinto, ngelixa amadoda, ubuthathaka, njengokuba kubonakalisa iimvakalelo, kuthathwa njengento ehlazo.
Ukufumana ithemba lakhe - vula amakhadi akho
Ukufunda ukuthembela othandekayo akulula. Uthemba olunjalo luyakhelwe iminyaka kwaye luyakwazi ukuwa phantsi kwimizuzwana. Ukuthembela kokunye kuthetha ukuba wena, kwaye kufuneka ukuba unyanisekile, ungadlala "indima", ibe nguwe kanye. Ukuba ufuna indoda yakho ikuthembele ngakumbi, yenze ukhululeke, kwaye unokukwazi ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza nakwizinto ezifihlakeleyo. Yeka ukudlala imidlalo kunye neengcungcuthe. Ngoko ukuthembela komntu othandekayo akunako ukufumana.
Makhe akhulume
Kubalulekile ukuba aqonde ukuba uyamphulaphula ngokwenene. Mamela kwaye uve - ngokunyanisekileyo nangenene. Amadoda anzima ukuvula imiphefumlo yabo, ngoko yibani nengqiqo nokuqonda. Makugqibe isigwebo, ungaphazamisi okanye umphazamise. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungaphazamisi inkambo yeengcamango zakhe. Indoda yakho iya kukuxabisa oku.
Qinisekisa ukuba "indawo ebuthathaka" yothandekayo yakho ayinzima. Ukuba oko kukuthi impilo yakhe isebenza okanye intsapho, okanye enye into, yabelane naye ngeengcinga kunye neengcebiso malunga nesi sihloko. Ukuba wenza iphosakelo, ungalokothi uthi "kakuhle, ndakuxwayisa". Oku akunjalo xa ufuna ukubonisa ingqiqo yakho kunye nokuqonda kakuhle. Yilungele ukuxhasa umhlobo wakho nayiphi na imeko kunye nayo nayiphi na isigqibo. Mxelele ukuba akaye yedwa kwingxaki yakhe. Ungabi yintombi yakhe kuphela, kodwa kunye nomhlobo osondeleyo. Kuphela ke uya kuba nako ukuthembela ngokupheleleyo kuwe. Njengoko bethetha, yiba naye ekubukeni nasekuvuyiseni.
Unokwenza ukuba uthembele kuphela xa uthembela ngeemfihlelo zakho kwaye ulungele ukumkela njengoko yena. Ngayo yonke i-minuses yayo kunye ne-pluses, ngaphandle kokugxeka kwaye ungazami ukuyibuyisela.
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