Siye saqwalasela ukuba kubantwana bakho umzekelo wakho ubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye ufumene indlela yokufundisa imigaqo yokhuseleko lomntwana. Kulo nxalenye yembali, siza kuqwalasela iimeko ezintathu zokuqala apho umntwana kufuneka aqalise khona.
Umntwana kwindlu
Unokuqala nini ukushiya umntwana kuphela kwindlu? Uneminyaka yobudala? Impendulo yalo mbuzo ayikwazi ukungaqondakali, kuba kukho iimeko ezininzi ezichaphazela oku: ubuninzi bomntwana ozimeleyo, uneminyaka emingakanani, unokuthembela kangakanani na. Kubalulekile ukushiya umntwana kuphela kwindlu.
Imigaqo ephambili emele ilandelwe ukuba umntwana ushiywe yedwa ekhaya:
- Qinisekisa ukushiya inombolo yakho yefowuni kwiimvuthu, apho unokukubiza khona nangaliphi ixesha, kunye nenani leenkonzo (i-ambulance, umsebenzi wakho, omelwane, ukhuseleko lomlilo, inombolo yomnxeba, amapolisa).
- Njalo ulungiselele iimviwo ezincinci kumntwana kwimigaqo yokhuseleko, kuphela ngale ndlela uza kukwazi ukuqonda indlela enamandla ngayo.
- Fihla zonke izinto anokuzilimaza.
- Ukuba indlu yakho ifumaneke kumgangatho wokuqala, iifestile zashtoryte, kwaye xa umntu ekhonkqoza, umntwana kufuneka akhamuluke ngokumemeza esithi: "Tata, woza apha!".
- I-Malyushyatelno kufuneka yazi ukuba ngubani igama lakhe, amagama abazali, ifowuni nedilesi yasekhaya.
- Njalo ube ngumzekelo kumntwana, ungaze ulawule imithetho yokukhusela.
- Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, khangela ukuba igesi kunye namanzi ayasuswa, kunye nezixhobo zombane.
- Khangela ukuba iifestile zivaliwe, vala umnyango wangaphambili kakuhle.
- Ukuba uhamba ngokuhlwa, ke kuzo zonke izigumbi, vula ukukhanya, ngoko inkwenkwe ayiyi kuyika kwaye abaxhamli abayi kunyuka endlwini.
- Xa ubuyela ekhaya, memela umntwana uze ummkise ukuba angesabi. Yaye xa ubiza umnyango, umntwana usenokuwuvula kuphela xa ubizwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ungubani nokuthi uza kubizwa njani.
- Iibhilebhe kunye neminye imichiza iya kude. Ukudibanisa, ukusika kunye nokugwaza izinto akufuneki ukulala kwindawo engendawo. Khumbula ukuba ukugcina izixhobo kunye nezixhobo kufuneka zibe semthethweni kwaye kufuneka ube nemvume efanelekileyo. Ngaphezu koko, izixhobo akufanele zibonwe nonke emehlweni omntwana, kuya kuba ngcono xa engazi ukuba kukho isikhali endlwini, kwaye ukuba uyazi, ke kuphela abantu abadala kufuneka bazi izihluthulelo kunye nekhowudi.
- Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuphathwa kakuhle kwentsimbi kunye neTV. Sitshele ukuba emva kokusebenzisa isinyithi kufuneka ucime, awukwazi ukunyuka kwiziseko, kwaye ubeke izinto ezingaphandle kuzo.
- Cacisa ukuba xa ehlala kwindlu, ke ukhuseleko lwakhe phantse kwipesenti, kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa evulela umnyango, unokukhawuleza kuba lixhoba lolwaphulo-mthetho, kuba nje kuba engalungiseleli ukuhlaselwa, oku kuthetha ukuba akakwazi ukwenza ngokukhawuleza aze athathe into.
Abantwana bahlala bezenza iimpazamo:
- Njengomthetho, abacingi ngemiphumo, ngoko bavula umnyango ngesibindi baze kumfokazi omi kwizitepsi.
- Xa bephuma kwindlu, abayikuyivala, bayigweba ngokubuyela ngokukhawuleza.
- Ngetekisi uthathe i-imeyile okanye uphonsa udoti xa umntu esondela ngasese emva.
- Bahamba kwi-elevator nabantu abangabaziyo.
Bazali, musa ukulibala ukuba umntwana akayena ukhaliphile, ngoko awukwazi ukuhlala uhlala kwaye ufanele wenze iimpawu zakho, ngoko ke mnike imiyalelo, ngeli xesha, gcina iliso elifutshane malunga nendlela eyenziwa ngumntwana, umzekelo:
- Ukuba ushiye indlu uze ubone abantu abangaziwayo, abantu abasolisayo, ngoko nangoko buyele endlwini.
- Ukuba uya kushiya indlu, ngokokuqala qwa lasela kwinqanaba xa kukho izihambi apho.
- Ukuba awuboni mntu, kodwa uva ilizwi, ulinde ixesha elide baze bashiye isayithi.
- Xa uvula umnyango uze ushiye indlu, soloko uvala umnyango emva kwakho uze uthathe isitshixo kunye nawe, ngoko uya kuqiniseka ukuba uza kubuya kwindawo ehlambulukileyo apho ungayi kukhangela khona isenzo sobugebengu.
- Ukuba umfokazi wabonakala ngokukhawuleza emva komva wakho, ngokukhawuleza ujonge kuye. Ukuba uqala ukuhlasela, zimela. Ungasebenzisa yonke into esondeleyo: isikhokhelo, izitshixo, inkunkuma, iinqwelo, ukhenketho olungundoqo kunye njalo. Zama ukubetha ngokukhawuleza umhlaseli, uze ugijime ukukhala: "Bhisa" okanye "Umlilo."
- Ungaze ukhangele i-imeyile kufuphi nebhokisi leposi, ungene kwigumbi, uze ucinge.
- Ukuba umntu ongaziwayo ubonisa ukuba uhamba naye kwinqwelo elifanayo, ungavumelani, uthi uya kulinda okanye uhlala kumgangatho wesibini, ngoko uya kuhamba.
- Ukuba ngokukhawuleza ulwaphulo-mthetho luzama ukukuvala i-rosette, zama ukumluma, kwaye ukuba uyakuxinezela ubuso bakhe ubuso, ubambe ngesibindi ngeempumlo.
Ukunxibelelana ngefowuni
Ngoku akukho mntu ongakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kweefowuni, ngoko ke akunakwenzeka ukuthetha ngolunye uhlobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ifowuni esikhundleni sendlela yokukhusela iya kuba "ikhonkco" yomenzi wesono. Ngoko ke, umntwana kufuneka akhumbule imithetho eyintloko yokusebenzisa ifowuni:
- Xa uthabatha ifowuni, ungabizi igama lomntu obizayo, kuba ungenza iphutha, ungatsho ukuba igama lakho liphi.
- Ungaze utshele mntu ukuba awukho ekhaya nabani na.
- Xa ukamema abangani okanye uqoke intlanganiso, khankanya ixesha apho abazali bakho beya ekhaya.
- Ukuba umntu ucela idilesi, ungabibizi, vele ucele umnxeba emva koko.
- Ukuba umntu ufuna ukukudonsa kwiintetho ezingcolileyo, faka ifowuni kwaye wuleze utshele uMama noTata ngoku.
- Beka ifowuni ekhaya kunye ne-automatic-fixer, ukwenzela ukuba abasebenzi beenkonzo ezizodwa xa kukho naziphi na izinto ezingamangalisi zinokumisela inani.
Uqhagamshelwano lomtshato
Ukuthembela kwabantwana kudla ngokusetyenziswa ngabaphuli-mthetho. Kodwa thina, nathi, sinokusola ngolu hlobo. Emva koko, abantwana babona indlela elula kwaye kulula ukuba sikwazi ukuthetha nabanye abantu abangaqhelekanga kwingqungquthela kunye neengxabano, kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke nakwezinye iindawo zoluntu, ngoko bahamba emva kwethu. Ngaloo ndlela, uyichazela njani umntwana ukuba kufuneka alumke? Okokuqala, xelela umntwana ukuba bonke abantu abangenazo izihlobo bangaphandle kuye, nokuba ngaba abantu bahlala beya kwindlu yakho.
Xa ushiya umntwana eneqhosha, ungayinamatheli kwibhande lakho okanye uxhomeke entanyeni yakho, kunokushiya kwiintsapho okanye ngabazalwana abasondela okanye uzame ukubeka kwi-pocket yangaphakathi.
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba awukwazi ukuthemba izitshixo kwigumbi labantu abacebileyo, nokuba ngaba bafana nabo. Umntwana akukho ndlela kufanele azise abantu bakwabantu ekhaya, kuphela xa ufumanisa lo mntu kwaye wamvumela ukuba umntwana amlethe.
Ukususela kwi-kindergarten okanye kwisikolo, umntwana makangashiyi abantu abangaqhelekanga, nokuba ngaba bathetha kuwe.
Ukuba awufumani namhlanje ukumthabatha esikolweni okanye kwi-kindergarten, qiniseka ukuba uya kumxelela lowo uza kuza kuye kwaye makaqiniseke ukuba ubonise lo mntu ukuba ubukeka njani kumntu okanye nokuba umntwana ngokwakhe makayazi lo mntu.
Qinisekisa ukuba ulumkise umnakekeli ukuba namhlanje umntwana akakuthatheli kwaye uyatsho ngubani oza kuyithatha.
Ukuba umntwana uthathwa ngabasemzini, ngoko utitshala kufuneka adibanise nabazali ngokukhawuleza, aze abize amapolisa.
Ukuba umntwana wakho unyanzelekile ukuba athabathe, kufuneka akhangele abanye abantu, ngelixa ekhwaza esithi: "Uncedo! Andibazi aba bantu! Aba abazali bam! "
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntwana ususwe kumapolisa, ngoko kufuneka ukuba uthethe igama lakhe, inombolo yefowuni yabazali kunye nedilesi yekhaya.