Iingcebiso: indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo kwingxoxo-ndlebe

Ngamnye wethu ngokukhawuleza kufuneka aguqule okanye afune umsebenzi. Omnye wenza okokuqala ngqa kwaye akazazi zonke iindlela zobungqina beengqondo kunye nobuqili obunokusetyenziswa. Omnye ulahlekelwe ngumsebenzi wakhe xa eguqulela imisebenzi, umntu akakwazi ukuphepha iingxabano emsebenzini. Ukubanceda aba bantu, siya kukunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuziphatha kakuhle ngexesha ludliwano-ndlebe.

Udliwano-ndlebe yinyathelo elinoxanduva, apho ikusasa lakho elizayo lixhomekeke kulo, kwaye lixhalabisa umsebenzi wakho. Kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwimiphumo yodliwano-ndlebe, kwaye awuyi kukubetha njani ubuso bakho edakeni? Apha, yonke into encinci ingadlala ngokuchasene okanye kuwe. Umzekelo, umqeshi unokulungiselela ukuba uhlolisise izinga lokulungiselela ukuxhatshazwa okanye uhlole ikhono lakho.

Kakade, akunakwenzeka ukulungiselela zonke iziganeko, ukuba zonke iziganeko ziya kuphuhliswa, umntu akanakukwazi ukubona yonke into. Ngokwemvelo, into ayiyi kuhamba ngokwezicwangciso. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ukwazi ukubona ezinye iinkalo zobunjani, indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo ngodliwano-ndlebe.

Iingcebiso malunga nokuba uziphathe njani nodliwano-ndlebe
1. Ungalokothi ubaleke, zama ukushiya indlu kwangaphambili kunye nexesha lokugcina. Ukulibala kwintlanganiso yokuqala ayiyi kuba yakho.

2. Kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba le nkampani yenza ntoni. Ngaphambi kokuba udliwano-ndlebe, thatha ixesha lokufumana le ngcaciso, ngoko udibene nodliwano-ndlebe uziva ukhululekile.

3. Uqeshwe kwaye kufuneka ugqoke, njengoko kufuneka. Okokuqala, ukucoceka nokuchaneka kubaluleke kakhulu kubonakala bakho.

4. Ifowuni yefowuni kufuneka ikhutshwe. Kwixesha elizayo elisondeleyo, umgomo wakho kukugqithisa udliwano-ndlebe kwaye ufumane umsebenzi, kwaye kulolu dliwano-ndlebe akufanele uphazamiseke.

5. Iintloni zakho aziyi kuhlanganiswa. Kumele ubonise amandla kunye nomdla, ukulungele ukuqhuba ngokukhawuleza emsebenzini, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo uhlale unengqiqo ngendlela enokwenzeka ngayo. Ngamanye amaxesha, bonisa umdla kumsebenzi, zama ukuthabatha isinyathelo ezandleni zabo. Kodwa ungahambi kakhulu, ungabi ngcolileyo okanye uzikhukhumeze.

6. Tshela amacala akho aqinileyo kunye nobuthathaka ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo. Umele umele ukuba yeyiphi indawo ofaka isicelo, kwaye ngoko, ngokuhambelana nalo, kufuneka ukhethe isicwangciso sokuziphatha kwakho.

7. Ungalokothi ukhulume kakubi ngamagosa angaphambili. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba zeziphi iingxelo ezinokubakhokelela.

8. Akukho mfuneko yokulala ngodliwano-ndlebe, kuba kungekudala okanye emva koko uza kutyhila, kodwa kuya kuba yinto engathandekiyo.

9. Kwi-intanethi yokuqala, kusekuqaleni ukubuza malunga nenkqubo yentlalo kunye nemali yomvuzo. Uya kuba nelinye ithuba lokuxoxa ngale mibabala, ukuba udlula udliwano-ndlebe.

Ngoku siyazi ukuba, ngoncedo lwezi ngcebiso, ukuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo ngodliwano-ndlebe. Landela la macebiso alula. Ngamandla akho ukuguqula naluphi na udliwano-ndlebe kumdlalo othakazelisayo, onokuphuma kuwo ophumeleleyo.