Okokuqala malunga nokokuba, ngokubanzi, ufuna iinjongo kunye nokuba ziphi. Injongo ingaba yinto engabonakaliyo okanye ebonakalayo, kodwa okwangoku ingaqondakali. Ubonakaliswe kukuba uyifunayo kwaye uyayidinga, ngoko kukunyathela kwizenzo ezithile. Kule ndlela kulandela ukuba injongo yinto eyaziwayo okanye engaziwayo yento, umphumo apho inkqubo ijoliswe khona. Ukuba umgomo wakho ukufikelela entabeni yentaba, uya kuba khona ixesha elide kwaye kunzima ukunyuka uze ufikelele kuyo. Isiphumo kukuba uza kuba phezulu, uya kufumana iimvakalelo ngenxa yalo-oku bekuyinjongo, ngenxa yesenzo esithile. Yintoni esinayo kule nkcazo? Elula kakhulu kwaye, ngexesha elifanayo, ukubaluleka kokubaluleka: ukufezekisa injongo ekufuneka uyibe ungenzi lutho.
Ukuba uthemba ukuba ukuba uyakholelwa ngokusisigqibo, uza kuza kuwe, ngoko ulahlekile. Inkosazana ayiyi kuhlangabeza inkosana ngaphandle kokuba iphume kwinqaba yayo, okanye ithumele iincwadi kuzo zonke iindawo malunga nesicelo sokukhululwa, ukwenzela ukuba abantu bengazi ukuba ukhona. Akukho nendawo yonke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yomelele kangakanani, ayiyi kushukumisela intaba kuwe ngamandla ocinga kunye nokholo lwakho. Ukholo lusinceda siphumelele injongo, sinqobe ubunzima. Kodwa, njengoko iBhayibhile ithi, ukholo ngaphandle kokusebenza lufile. Thatha inqaku.
Ngelo xesha, umntu akafanele akhohlwe ngokuzithemba nokukholelwa kumandla kunye neminqweno yakhe. Oku kuya kuba ngumgaqo wesibini. Unengxaki ezininzi kwaye ivela ngenxa yokungabi nalukholo kokholo okanye amandla. Ukususela ekuqaleni kufuneka uqikelele ukuba le yinjongo yakho, kwaye uya kufezekisa, ukuba uyakwazi ukuchaphazela iphupha elimiselweyo, kwaye uya kulwela kuze kube yilapho iphelileyo. Udinga ukukhuthazwa, udinga umnqweno. Ukuba ungenamandla okwaneleyo - zicinge ukuba sele usondele kufuphi nomnqweno ophunyeziweyo, ngoko, uyonwabela njani umphumo. Ezi ngcamango zinokukunika amandla ngexesha lakho lomzabalazo. Umzekelo, ukuba ungekho ekhaya kwaye awusekho amandla okufikelela kumda, ungathandabuzeki ukuba ungasinda, khumbula ngubani okulindeleyo, kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa ubuya, ubuso bakho obathandayo. Kwaye ke, ukucinga okulungileyo - ukuya kokugqibela.
Nangona ngokuqhelekileyo ukuhlangabezana neminqweno yabo, ukusekela iinjongo kunye nokufezekisa oko kungancinci. Kungekudala ungaziva kwakhona ukuba ulahlekelwa into ethile. Okanye ungathandabuzeki ukuba ngokwenene wawufuna. Kwaye ukucinga okunjalo malunga nokufezekiswa kwayo akunako ukucebisa into eyenzekayo kwaye yonke into ingaba yinto eyahlukileyo kwizinto ozilindele. Ngoko cingisisa ngemiphumo, malunga nokuba ungayifuni ngokwenene. Musa ukudibanisa iphupha kunye nenjongo kunye nokugqithisa. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uphukisiwe ngaphambili, musa ukuziphindiselela namhlanje, mhlawumbi bahlukeneyo abantu kunokuba babeselula. Okanye unokuba nephupha lobutsha kunye nobuntwaneni obengumfana omhle kwindawo ohlala kuyo. Kodwa ukuba sele sele esenomdla, cinga ukuba kungafanelekile ukutshabalalisa ubomi bomnye umntu ngenxa yokunyaniseka? Ngaba le njongo iya kukuvuyisa? Ingqiqo? Ngoko ke, umgaqo wesithathu kukuba iithagethi kufuneka zikhethwe ngobulumko.
Umgaqo wesine yindlela yokufezekisa injongo. Kufuneka iqwalaselwe ngenyameko, ingaba yintloko kwiimpumelelo. Xa uchaza ngokucacileyo injongo, qalisa ukucinga malunga nokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ufezekise, ukuba kunjalo, kwindlela. Ziziphi izakhono zakho ezinokusetyenziswa kulo mzekelo, into oyifunayo kule nto, unayo yonke into oyifunayo, ukuba akunjalo, ukuba ungayifumana njani. Cinga ngazo zonke iinkcukacha, cinga kakuhle ngesicwangciso sonke. Oku kucacile ngakumbi, bhetele, kodwa kufuneka kwakhona kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba ezinye zexesha azikwazi ukuqikelela, cinga kakuhle kunye nezinye iindlela. Kukho icatshulwa esihle kule sihloko - ukunqoba kudinga ukulungiswa. Kwaye kwimeko kunye nenjongo, kuyinyaniso. Cinga kakuhle malunga nendlela onokuyenza ngayo kwaye yintoni efanelekileyo kakhulu kuwe. Ukuphelisa zonke iindlela ezinobungangamsha, kunye nezinto ezenza umntu ahlupheke. Musa ukuzibeka engozini, okanye ubeke ubomi bakho okanye abathandekayo bakho engozini. Akukho njongo yale nto ifanelekile.
Ungesabi nantoni na - akukho bunzima obuya kuvela. Ukuba ukholelwa kuwe ekuqaleni kwendlela, akukho sizathu sokungabaza. Musa ukungathandabuzeki nangona kubonakala ngathi uhamba ukusuka ekujoliswe kuyo, kwaye ixesha liphela. Ngexesha lakho lonke. Into ephambili - yenza konke ukwenza ukuba injongo ifezeke. Khangela iindlela ezintsha zokuphumelela.
Enye iqhinga lokuthakazelisa - ungalibali ukuzikhuthaza endleleni eya kwinjongo. Ukuba ususondele kufuphi naye, ufumene indlela entsha, wunqoba ngempumelelo isithintelo esikhulu - uzenze isipho, wenze into engavumelekanga ngaphambili okanye ingenanto. Ukhuthazo luyakunceda uhlale unomdla kunye nomdla, kuba kudla ukuba kwenzeka ukuba injongo izaliseke, nangona asifuni. Ngoko ke, ungazichukumisi, sebenzela inzuzo yinjongo - kodwa ngokumodareyitha. Khumbula ukuba akukho zizathu ezifanele impilo yakho.