Ngamanye amaxesha ukucinga okubuhlungu, xa ufuna ukuba isipho esingalibalekiyo, mlethe indoda ibe yintliziyo. Ukunika ientyatyambo? Kuyinto emangalisayo, ewe, kwaye awuyi kuphinda wenze iphutha, ngakumbi ukuba uyazi izinto ezikhethwa ngumntu othandekayo kulo mba. Kodwa kuqikeleleka kwaye kuqhelekileyo. Iintyatyambo azange zikhanselwe, kwaye ziza kuba zikhona, kodwa ufuna ukubetha intanda yakho entliziyweni! Ukuvakalelwa kukuba unika lesi sipho kuye, kungekhona nje umntu ofuna ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe, kodwa umntu othethekileyo, onokumangalisayo, onobuqili, onobucayi, onobubele, onengqiqo, onobuqili, ngelizwi nje ngokuba wayephupha ukuhlangana kunye namaphupha akhe amnandi. Nantsi into!
Yaye yaqonda ukuba nguye kuphela-uyedwa kuphela okwazi ukuqonda nokuqonda kwakhe, kwaye uyamxabisa njengedayimani ekhethekileyo.
Umsebenzi ongathandekiyo kukuba uqikelele isipho esingalibalekiyo intombazana efuna ukumangaliswa kwaye iyavuya ngexesha elifanayo! Ukufezekisa le mpawu, kubalulekile ukwazi kakuhle izinto ezikhethiweyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba intombazana inomntu onamandla, unomdla kwimidlalo, uthanda ukuzizonwabisa ngokugqithiseleyo, mhlawumbi uya kuthanda ukuba urenta inqwelo yendiza kunye nomqhubi kwaye uhamba ngefrime. Emva kokuba ulandelele inkqubo kunye nokusebenza kweenombolo ze-aerobatics kwimoto enamaphiko, uya kunika ithuba lomntu othandekayo ukuba abe nemvakalelo engayibalekiyo yokuqhuma, ukukhawuleza, inkululeko kunye novuyo. Kwaye xa i-plane ihamba kunye nomnxibelelwano wenkonzo iya kubonisa iintlobo zeentyantyambo ezizithandayo egameni lakho, akayi kubhobhoza ibhotile ye-champagne aze athulule iiglasi, oku kuya kuba yinto esingakhohlwayo intombazana.
Ungadlala le ngxaki ngolunye uhlobo lothutho lomoya.
Khawucinge nje ukuba umhlobo wakho uya kumangaliswa njani, ukuba wena, ngaphandle kokumxelela igama malunga nalapho uqhuba khona, ngokukhawuleza ucela ukukhwela kwibhaluni kwaye uzive nje nge-aeronaut! Ukuhamba okuhamba kakuhle, ukukhanya okubanzi ngaphantsi, isibhakabhaka esibhakabhaka, imihlaba kunye nobuhle ngeke kushiye ukungabandakanyekanga kuphela kwimidlalo eyingozi, kodwa ngokubanzi, bambalwa! Okukhethiweyo okukhethileyo. Kuphela kufuneka ukhumbule ukunyamekela kwendiza kwindawo efanelekileyo yemozulu. Abasetyhini banobubele. Amava okuthandana akufanele aphethwe yimvakalelo engalunganga.
Kodwa amantombazana ahluke. Akuyena wonke umntu oya kufuna le miva.
Kukho amantombazana athambileyo, abathobekileyo nabasemakhaya. Ibhere elimnandi elivula umnyango kwindlu yakhe, kunye nomncedisi omomothekayo ufihla emva kwakhe, unokuba sisipho esiyifunayo. Uhlobo oluye lwaphupha ixesha elide. Kuqhelekileyo, kwinto yesintu ekuqalekeni, njengamathoyizi athambileyo atholakala kubathandekayo, kodwa leli bhere liya kuba yinto ekhethekileyo kunye neyona nto eyona nto yokuqala yinto enokwenzeka. Kungenxa yokuba nguye oya kuthi, uya kuqikelelwa aze azalisekiswe, njengesipho somlingo ovela kwintsimi yobuntwana.
Ukuba umntu othandekayo ufikelelekile kumhla, kodwa uhlala ekhangelekile, ubonisa ukuba uyakuthanda ukukhupha umzimba wakhe.
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Makube yinto yokubhaliselwa kwi-salon enobuhle kunye nokukhethwa kwenkqubo enokuzikhethela ngayo, kwaye ke esi sipho kwiintombazana ngokuqinisekileyo siza kuba sisinakulibaleka.
Iseshoni yangempela yesithombe kunye nomculi wezithombe zobungcali isipho esingalibalekiyo intombazana ephupha ukwenza umdlali wesenzo okanye umzekelo wemisebenzi!
Ewe, zonke ezi zinto zikumangalisekanga. Akuyena wonke umntu onokukwazi ukukwenza oku. Kwaye akuyimfuneko! Ingaba ibaluleke ukuba yeyiphi imali isipho?
Xa kukho ukuvakalelwa, umnqweno wokunika umntu onomthandayo uvuyo kunye nemizwa engayibalekiyo, umntu kufuneka afake ingcamango kwaye angazivumeli ukuba acinge ukuba akukho nto yokwenza isipho esingalibalekiyo. Ngenxa yokuba nayiphi na ibhinqa, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintsimi yakhe, ukuba inentliziyo, iya kuqonda ukuba umntu onothando uyamondla ngesidlo sothando esilungiselelwe ngezandla zakhe. Abafazi bayayithanda xa amadoda enyamekela, ebonisa iitalente zabo zokutya. Ukutya okuthandwayo ngamaRoma ngamakhandlela, ukutya okudliwayo okumnandi, kwaye, ukuba kungenjalo i-pie, ayiyi kushiya intliziyo yaluphi na ubuhle obungenanto. Yibani ngexesha elifanayo ngokukhawuleza, ukunyamekela, ukukhathalela iimvakalelo zakhe kunye neminqweno. Qaphela ukuba umculo omnandi uyandila, ukuba kukho iintyatyambo endlwini, ukwenzela ukuba lo mhla ungakhululekile ukuphumla, Ekuseni, kwakungekho mfuneko ukuba naliphi na ukuba usebenze ngokukhawuleza, okanye nakweminye imiba, kwaye unokuqiniseka ukuba oku kuya kuba yisipho esingenakulibaleka intombazana!
Unokusebenzisa ngokunenelela izipho eziphathekayo eziza kuzisa kwaye ziya kuba luncedo. Ngokomzekelo, i-sneakers funny soft softly
kunye neendlebe zeendlebe ngendlela engcono kakhulu ukuxelela intanda ukuba uyamkhathalela, ufuna ukusondeza kwaye uyayixabisa ingqondo yakhe. Isilivere segolide, amacici okanye i-ringlet iya kwamkelwa rhoqo kunye nokubulela.
Kwaye unako ukunika ibhasikidi ngesethi, apho izinto ezilungiselelwe zibonakala zingahambelani. Kodwa xa uya kuziqwalasela, uya kuqonda indlela kunye naluphi uthando, kunye nokunyamekela. Intombazana iya kufumana khona ityuwa kunye nendawo yokuhlambela i-foam, incwadi yombhali oyintandokazi, i-disc nomculo wokuphumula, i-oyile enomsizi ococekileyo, i-barre chocolate, ipakethi yekhofi ecolileyo okanye itiye. Isipho esinjalo sokuthetha siya kumvumela intombazana ukuba iyayiqonda indlela ayithandayo kwaye ayayiqonda ngayo! Kuyacaca kuye ukuba unqwenela ukuba ujabulele uhlobo oluthile lonwabo lokuzonwabisa, ngaphandle kokumisela uluntu lwakhe ngexesha elifanayo. Nangona kunjalo, unganqikazi, uphumule, uya kucinga ngokuxabisekileyo ngomniki wolu luleko.
Isipho esinjalo asifunanga iindleko ezinkulu, kodwa kuya kuba yinto engayibalekiyo kwaye iyingqayizivele!