Ukuqala oko kuyimfuneko ukufunda ukugxotha
Okokuqala kwaye phambili, abantwana, njengomthetho, bafunde ukuba bangabhinxi impahla. Kakade ngonyaka kunye nesiqingatha banokususa amasokisi kunye nentsimbi ngaphandle koncedo, kwaye akukho nangoko bakususa i sweta kunye neengxowa ngaphandle kweengxaki. Nangona kunjalo, inkqubo yokugqoka kunye nokugqoka idibaniswe ngokupheleleyo, ngoko akuyimfuneko ukunciphisa umntwana. Kuya kuba ngcono xa ejwayele ukwenza yonke into ngokwakhe. Ungakulibali ukumdumisa umntwana ukuba wayiphumelele ngempumelelo iimpahla zakhe. Oku kuya kumnika inkuthazo yokuyibeka kwakhona.
Nangona kunjalo, abantu abadala baya kufuna ukufumana amandla kunye nomonde ngeli xesha, kuba umntwana uya kuba ncotshe kakhulu ukuba anxibe ngeengubo. Kuya kuba ne nqwenela, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukubeka ibhatyi kunye nezicathulo kuyo, kunokuba umbukele ehlupheka ngenxa yemizuzu embalwa. Musa ukwenza oku. Umntwana kufuneka afunde ukuzimela kwaye kwiimeko ezinzima zithembele kuye kuphela. Uncedo lwabazali luyadingeka ekuqaleni, umzekelo, ukuguqula iisokisi ebusweni obusaphambili okanye ukungazifumani izilwanyana ezinqabileyo.
Ukufundisa umntwana ukuba anakekele
Musa ukukhusela umnqweno womntwana weqhinga. Ukuba uzama nzima ukugqoka iimpahla, musa ukumkhathaza. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba afune ukuba uhlale egqoke, akafanelekanga. Umsebenzi owenzelwe ngabazali kukukhuthaza intliziyo yengane kunye nokukhokela imisebenzi yakhe ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ngoko ke, yiba nesineke uze uzinze.
Ungazami ukugxeka umntwana, akeke uhleke kunye nezenzo ukuba akakwazi ukuhlangabezana nempahla. Ukuba uneesokisi ezingenazo izakhono ezenziwe ngezicathulo, kwaye ingxowa ayinxibe, musa ukumkhathaza. Umlobi ngokwakhe wazama, kwaye oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Ndihlala ndidumisa izenzo zakhe.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali abanako ukunyamezela ixesha elide, ngakumbi xa beziva bephuzile. Baqala ngokukhawuleza ukugqoka umntwana, bengamvumeli ithuba lokukhokela inkqubo. Ukuze ugweme iimeko ezinjalo, kufuneka udibanise kwangaphambili. Nika ixesha lakho ngendlela enokuthi uqhubeke nokuqeqesha umntwana ngokufanelekileyo. Zama ukuphakamisa isiqingatha seyure ngaphambi kwentsasa, ukuze ungagqithisi umntwana.
Ukuba umntwana wenqaba ukugqoka ngokuzimeleyo, uncede. Unokwenza isiqingatha ubeke amasokisi akhe kwaye umcele ukuba awabeke kuze kube sekupheleni.
Vumela umntwana wakho anxibe kuphela loo mpahla elula ukuyithatha. Emva kwexeshana, iimpahla zasebusika ziya kuba sehlombe lakhe.
Naziphi na izakhono, ezifana nokukwazi ukugqoka nokugxininisa, azifaki ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye uza kwenza umsebenzi omhle kumntwana, ukuba unobtrusively imihla ngemihla uya kumnika "izifundo" ezincinci: umzekelo, cela intombazana ukuba ibeke izandla zakhe kwimikhono yengubo yakhe, yilungise ingubo, yambethe yonke indlela. Ungalungiselela uhlobo lokhuphiswano, u-naprmimer, ugqoke ngokukhawuleza, ngoko unyanzele umntwana ukuba akwenze ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Qaphela ukuba kufuneka uthenge umntwana odlala amathoyizi afanelekileyo okuya kumnceda ukuba aqonde ubugcisa bokugqoka ngokukhawuleza. Kulo idodoli, ongayigqoba kunye nokuyikhupha. Ukongeza, ungathenga izixhobo zophuhliso, ezifana nokudlala imidlalo kunye nayo yonke into engakwazi ukukhutshwa kwaye iqhosha. Ngaphezulu, ingaba ityshini ezithambileyo kunye namaqhosha okanye i-velcro. Iimidlalo ezinjalo ziya kunceda ukuphuhlisa izakhono zezandla zezandla, emva koko umntwana uya kukwazi ukujamelana nomsebenzi ngokufanelekileyo.
Musa ukulibala ukudlala nomntwana kwimidlalo eya kukhawuleza amandla akhe. Mcebisa lo khetho: vumela imilenze yakhe ibe yinqanawa, iAshtanins i-tunnel, apho kufuneka ibize khona. Uya kuvuyisa. Amantombazana kukho enye indlela - ukulungiselela umboniso wefashoni.
Okona kubaluleke kakhulu - kufuneka ube nomdla kumntwana, ukwenzela ukuba le nkqubo inomdla kuye. Ngaphandle koko, awuyi kufeza nantoni na. Yithi ufuna umntwana ukukhwela ibhayisekile ukuba wenza yonke into eyedwa. Bonisa ukuzithemba kwinto eyenziwa ngumntwana. Mdumise kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndimncede. Into ephambili - qhubekani, kodwa musani kakhulu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana uziva uthando kuye.
Abantwana bathanda ukuxelisa abadala. Yenza izinto zakho nezinto zezingane ngomqolo omnye kwaye uqale ugqoke ngexesha elifanayo. Ukunikela ukukhuphisana - ngubani oyakuba ngowokuqala ukugqoka. Ekuqaleni umntwana uya kufuna uncedo lwakho, kuba akayi kukwazi ukuhlala kunye nawe. Zama ukukhubekisa umntwana kwaye ungavumeli iinyembezi zakhe. Buyisela kumdlalo kuya kuba yingxaki. Ngokukhawuleza xa ubona ukuba umntwana wenze ukhangeleliso olwenziwe kakubi - utshintshe isicwangciso.
Ukuba unenkani yenkwenkwezi kunye nokukrokra, hamba udibaniso. Makhe umntwana ngokwakhe akhethe iimpahla afuna ukuzambatha. Ngaphambi koko, nikeza ezimbalwa iindlela zokugqoka.
Tshela umntwanakho ukuba ufuna ukugqoka iimpahla. Kubalulekile ukufundisa oku kusuka ebuntwaneni kangangokuthi akanalo iingxaki kwikamva. Abantwana abaninzi bakuthola kunzima ukukhumbula umyalelo wokugqoka. Unokukunceda-uthenge iphosta apho indawo nganye yokugqoka izambatho iya kuboniswa kwaye ixhomeke kwigumbi labantwana okanye kwiholo. Kukho enye indlela echanekileyo yokufikelela - ukudweba iphosta kunye nomntwana. Fumana amaphephancwadi uze unqume imifanekiso efanelekileyo efanekisela ukugqoka okufanelekileyo. Beka kwi-Whatman ngokufanelekileyo. Ngoko umntwana uya kuba lula ukukhumbula inkqubo. Ukuba umntwana akadibanisi phi na ngaphambili, kwaye phi emva, aqoke iipokethi kwiingubo, ezikwazi ukuziqhelanisa ngokuchanekileyo. Ukuba wenza konke ngokuchanekileyo, qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukhawuleza abe ngumntu ozimele, umntu omdala.