Ukukhuthazwa njengesizathu sokudumisa umntwana ngokuchanekileyo

Ukudumisa umntwana kuyimfuneko - umzali ngamnye wanamhlanje uyazi oku. Ngaba zonke iindumiso ezinengqiqo? Amabinzana aqhelekileyo asebenzisa imvume yokungavumelekanga kunye namadigri aphezulu angenza umntwana acinge ukuba ngaba umama noyise bathetha inyaniso. Abantwana baziva bengenangqiqo, bengenakulinganisela kumancinci abo, kodwa ukufezekiswa okubalulekileyo kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu kunokuba ugxeke. Indlela yokuphuma ekhuthazwa ngabantwana bezengqondo zengqondo yindlela yokuchaza "indumiso". Isitshixo sisilula - akudingekanga nje ukubonisa ukunyaniseka, kodwa nokucacisa kumntwana oko kubangele. Umzekelo, xa uchukumiswa ngumdwebo womculi osemtsha, kukufanelekile ukufaka izinto ezimbalwa ngokunyamekela, imigca elula kwaye imibala ekhethiweyo. Udumo lwegumbi lungaquka ukubulela ekuncedeni umama nokuncoma ukuzimela.

Le ndlela yokuvunywa inezinzuzo ezininzi: ayixhomekeke ekuthelekisweni, igwema "ukugqithisa" kunye nohanahaniso, yenza umntwana akwazi ukuhlonela imizamo yakhe. Kodwa into ephambili kukuba "indumiso" idumisa umntwana ukuba aqhubeke nokufezekisa, ukumnika inkxaso efanelekileyo yokuziphatha.