Iingxaki zikhusela ukuba siphila-oku akunakucatshulwa. Kodwa njani ukuhlangabezana nabo? Kwaye kufuneka uqale ukubheka ingcambu yengxaki ukuze ukwazi ukujongana nemiphumo yakhe. Ngoko, zeziphi iingxaki zendoda ezihambelana nesondo?
1. "Andifumani imali eyaneleyo"
Ngelishwa, namhlanje i-solvency yindoda ibalwa ngokufumaneka kwemali. Leli thuba lokufumana imoto enqabileyo okanye uthando lomfazi, okanye ngamakhadi athile ekhredithi, okanye i-estate estate eYurophu njalo njalo. Nangona kunjalo, kunqabile indoda ibuza yona umbuzo: "Yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini, ndiza kuchitha imali xa beza?".
Impendulo yalo ayikho into elula, kodwa ukucinga okucingayo kungadangalisa. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu uyalibala ukuba abantu abazungezile abamthandi imali kuphela. Baye baxabise ububele, ukukhathalela, ukuqala, ukuhlekisa - konke anokukwazi ukukwenza ngokubanzi. Indoda kufuneka yazi kakuhle amandla akhe, kwaye ngenxa yoko uyathandwa. Emva koko akayi kunzima ngenxa yokulahleka okwangoku.
2. "Andiyena uCasanova kwaye kungekhona uDon Juan, andinakuba ngamaxesha angama-25 ebusuku." Ngoko ndingenamandla? "
Kungaba budenge ukucinga ukuba ukungabi namandla kungenxa yokokuba sidla kakubi okanye siphila eduze kwesityalo esiyingozi. Ukungabi namandla - ukuphindaphinda kwisigaba sesandulela ngesondo, xa umntu ehlala nonina. Enye inani elikhulu leendoda ezinxulumene nobulili besilisa: "Ndine-penis encinci, andinakuba ngamaxesha angama-25 ebusuku." Ezi ngcamango zikhokelela ekubeni abo abangenakuphindwa ngama-25 ngamaxesha ebusuku baya kuzibona bengenamandla: "Ukuba andinakukwenza oku, ngoko andiyiyo yonke into, ngoko ndiphosakele." Ngoko, andinjengomntu wonke. Kuthetha, abayi kundithanda. " Ngaphezu koko, ukuba umntu uyaziqonda ngesondo bonke ubomi bakhe, egcina ngokugqithiseleyo idumela lomdlali, ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva uwela ngaphantsi kolunye uloyiko: "Xa ndiba mdala, andinakulala ngesondo, ndiya kuphelisa ukuba ndibe ngumfuneko" Lo ngumgqatswa oyintloko wokungabikho kwengqondo kwengqondo - yokuqala ukuhluleka okufanayo kumbhede kwenza loo mdlali odlala umdlale ongenamandla.
3. "Ndiyakwazi ukuthandwa"
Ibhinqa elinesimo esithile esinokuphuhliswa kweemvelo sinokukunceda ngokucebisa, ukuphulaphula, ukuxelela, ukuxhaswa. Kodwa izinto ezinjengokuthi "Indoda ayilili, inomsindo," "indoda ayifanele ivakalise iimvakalelo zakhe," yenza unxibelelwano lungenakwenzeka. Umntu oyi-Smart uza kufumana indlela yokufumana iingcebiso zomfazi wakhe, oyisidenge-uya kuba neentlanzi "ezixutywe".
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho abafazi abanjengowesilisa "abanesigxina" (kunye nabo, njengomthetho, indoda enamathelekileyo) - kodwa le nto sele isenyana "nonina," kwaye ibukeka ngokufanayo, ngokulandelanayo. Kodwa ukuba sithetha ngobuntu obufanayo, malunga nobuhlobo "bomyeni-mfazi," umfazi uya kuphulaphula umyeni wakhe aze amncede ajamelane neengxaki ezininzi.
Indlela engcono yokuyicombulula "ingxaki ye-podkabluchnoy" - ungayithobeli imbono yoluntu. Indoda kufuneka ikhethe kuphela: "Ngaba ndihlala ubomi bam okanye ubomi bentlalo."
Enyanisweni, kunzima ukuba singaphenduli kwezinye iimvavanyo kunye neengcamango zabanye abantu, kodwa umsebenzi kulo mzekelo awuyikufa "kwimbono yoluntu kwaye ungayithobeli phantsi ubomi bakho, kodwa ukucinga nokuhlola:" Kutheni kwaye yintoni na loo nto yayiyintoni na loo mbono? "U Umntu usenokuzicingela.
4. "Ndinokuphakama okuncinci, kwaye ngenxa yoko, ilungu elincinci"
Indoda ihlala ikhononda ngokukhubazeka ngokomzimba. Kodwa enye yalezi zinkimbinkimbi zonakalisa ubomi obunobuthi, kwaye abanye baba ngabantu abanobuxoki ngenxa yoko (kwanele ukukhumbula uNapoleon).
Siyakhula ngenxa yokuba sineengxabano zangaphakathi. Umntu uhlala ekhetha. Abanye bakhela imisebenzi yabo kwimilwelwe yabo, abanye baqala ukusela, bazibandakanya ngeendleko zabanye, njalo njalo. Ukuqonda ukuba ukuphambuka komzimba kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo akuyiyo into ecacileyo kulwalamano bubungqina bokukhula komntu ngamnye. Izakhono kunye nokufunda nokubhala ekusondelene kakhulu, ubulumko behlabathi kunye nokuqonda kwabantu kuvela phambili.
5. "Ndiyatshitshiswa, ndiyindoda engaziwayo"
Kwintliziyo yesifo esiyinkimbinkimbi yokungaphumeleli - nayo ilele ukungaqiniseki, inzala. E-Rashiya, le ngxaki iyinto eqhelekileyo, kuba indoda yethu ayisebenzisi ukuthobela umphathi. KwaMerika, umzekelo, oku akuze kwenzeke, akuvele kwenzeke kubo ukuvavanya imiyalelo yabaphathi babo. Ukuba unqatshelwe emsebenzini, isisombululo esilula ukuguqula indawo yomsebenzi kunye nomphathi. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo umntu akayi kutshintsha imisebenzi. Uya kufumanisa ubuhlobo kunye nobunkokeli bakhe, azicinge njengengqondo engaziwayo, exhomekeke kwingxaki njengomntwana.