Indlela yokusabela ngayo xa uhlekwa usulu kunye namagama omnxeba

Ukukwazi ukuhleka ngokwakho kudla ngokukunceda ebomini nasemphakathini. Ngaba wenze into engalunganga, wangena kwiimeko ezibonakala zihlekisayo kwabanye, kwaye uloyiko? Ungakuphepha njani ukugculelwa?
Sonke sithanda, ihlaya - ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo nangaphezu kwanoma ubani. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza ekufikeni kwakho, ngesizathu esithile asiyi kuvuya. Ngelishwa, abaninzi abantu baya kumntu wabo ngokubaluleke kakhulu.
Ngaba bayakuhlekisa ngawe? Akukho nto ebi ngaphezu kokugwenxa nokukhupha. Ngaba kulula ukuhleka impendulo - kungekhona ngaphezu komchasi-phezu kwakho. Ukuzijonga kum ngecala ngoluvo lukhono oluncedo. Unceda lula ukuhlala kwiimeko ezingamangalisi kwaye uphume kubo ngokuhlonipha, kungekhona ngokubonakala kwintshontsho ekhutshiwe. Ikuvumela ukuba uhambe ebomini ngekhanda lakho kwaye ukhangela emehlweni abanye umntu ofanelekileyo, onokukwazi ukuziphatheka ngokuhlekisa.

Imeko. Ngentsasa ngebhasi ndakwazi ukudiliza iisitokisi zam? Inhlekelele! Ukugijima kwivenkile kuthetha ukukhawuleza emsebenzini, kwaye oku akuvumelekanga. Kodwa ingavela njani emehlweni abo osebenza nabo kule fomu? Bahlekisa! Phuma! Ngaba umntu okhohlakeleyo ongenakulungele ukuhamba kunye ne "arrow"?

Ukuhleka: "Yonke into endiyithandayo - iyatshisa kakhulu: wangithatha ngqo emnyango, kwaye andizange ndibonise ukuba ngokuthanda kwakhe wenza oku!" Iimbono azizange zihlekise, kodwa unomona? Mkhulu! Kwaye kukuhle ukuba abantu bajonge iinyawo zakho yonke imini! Kukho inxalenye yesithathu. Ukuba uya kwivenkile yeesitokisini ngexesha lesidlo sasemini, awuyi kuba nexesha lokutya. Thenga ityesi ye-cottage - zenzele usuku. Kwangexesha elide ndaya ku.
Uyabona, akukho ntlungu. Ihlazo elincinci - kwaye wakwazi ukuphucula indlela ovakalelwa ngayo kunye nokuphakamisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Kubalulekile: ukuzihleka ngendlela efanelekileyo, ukuba ungazithethi, ungaziva unetyala okanye ungathandeki ngokungahambi kwakho. Kwaye, ukuba, ulindele ukuhlekwa usulu, ukufihla imilenze phantsi kwetafile, udibaniso olwesabayo ukuhamba kunye neekorori, ngoko uya kubonakala ngathi intombazana encinci - kwaye ungayilunganga njani into enjalo!
Imeko. Utitshala uyakhathalela, uphonononga uvavanyo. Kwaye usuyithiyile isifundo sakhe kunye nokuxhalabisa ulindela ihlazo elilandelayo ebhodini. Phuma. Zama ukucinga indlela ophendula ngayo. Ngezwi elithuthumelayo, ngaba uyazibamba into engeyona nto? Yeka ukucinga ngokutshatyalaliswa okungenakukugwema. Khuphula intloko yakho, usasaze amahlombe akho, uthethe ngokucacileyo, ukhangela amehlo ootitshala. Ubuzwa umbuzo okhohlakeleyo? Andiyazi impendulo - musa ukucima, ukuhleka! Masihleke kunye nawe.

Mhlawumbi oku akuyi kuphucula uvavanyo lwakho, kodwa luya kunciphisa imeko. Utitshala uya kuqalisa ukuqonda ukuba awunalo uqobo, ongenakukwazi ukuqonda isifundo sakhe, kodwa njengomfundi ozibhokoxa, eyazi iziphoso zakhe.
Imeko. Uqhelana lwawa phantsi linikeza amajelo okuhlambalaza, ehlekisa ngawe? Phuma. Musa ukudibana, mhlawumbi konke oku kuya kubangela ubutha obungapheliyo. Uthi unxibe kakhulu? "Hayi, ulungile, kwaye ingubo yinto ephuma kwindawo yokuthengisa." Ngoko uthenge iimpahla ezintle! " Ngaba ulahlekelwe ngumsindo? Omnye ukulwa kuphumelele! Ubiza u-pampushka? "Ewe, ndiyingozi, kwaye kunzima ukunciphisa umzimba." Ngaba uya kunika ukutya okulungileyo? " Kwaye ngoku sele anike icebiso, wabelane ngamava akhe ... Cinga umhlobo. Akusekho utshaba!

Le ngcebiso isoloko inikwa abantu abaye bacaphuka. Kwaye, njani, ukuba amagama angamnandi aphume ekhanda lakho, ingakumbi xa kukho uvakalelo lokuba kukho inyaniso kubo? Bhala phantsi! Oku kuya kukunceda ukubuyela emva kwaye uphendule iinkumbulo eziphazamisayo zibe zizinto zokufunda kunye nezigqibo. Khangela oko kuye kwathethwa ngaphandle, hlalutya kwaye ufumane isisombululo!
UJacc Nicholson uyazihlaziya. "Akukho namnye osikrolileyo kwaye wamemeza, kwaye xa ndabuya ekhaya ndicinga ngento engavumelani nayo, ndizibukela kwisibuko ndize ndithi:" Unqabile, Jack! Abahlakaniphileyo baxelele oku ngamanye amazwi, babe ngumhlengikazi kunye nawe, kwaye, ukuba ne zazvezdivshis, awuzange uphendule! "