Nguwuphi na amabinzana alungileyo ukuqala ukuthetha, ukubonisa ngothando?

Ikhono lokudlala ngothando lithinteka kuthi ngokwemvelo. Kodwa oku kulandelwa ngokungazenzisiyo kwezesondo omnye komnye kungafundiswa! Ngamaphi amantombazana aqala ukubeka iinwele zabo emva kweendlebe zabo okanye aziphose ngokunyakaza ngokukhululekileyo, ukumomotheka kumfana ongezantsi kuye kwidesksi yesikolo? Musa ukukhumbula! Kwaye kunjalo. Emva kwakho konke, thina ukususela ebuntwaneni bokuqala sibona ukuthanda ukungaxhatshazi ngesini esahlukileyo. Ukudlala ngothando, ukudlala ngothando iminyaka emihlanu, ngaphandle kokuyiqonda. Ukugquma, ukuchukumisa, ukumamatheka ... nokuba uhlala ekhaya okanye emsebenzini, ngaphandle kokudlala ngothando, akukho lusuku olulodwa ebomini kwanoma yimuphi umntu. Indlela okhokho bethu ababetha ngayo kunye nokukhohlisa, indlela yokuyenza ngayo namhlanje, kunye neendlela ezincinci, ubuchule kunye nobuchule-sagqiba ekubeni sihlolisise yonke into efihliweyo yalo msebenzi obunzima kodwa obalulekile. Nguwuphi na amabinzana alungileyo ukuqala ukuthetha, luhlobo luni lokudlala ngothando?

Imbali yohlobo

Ewe, igama elithi "ukudlala ngothando" kwasekuqaleni lithetha ngokufanelekileyo ukunika iintyatyambo. Kwavela phakathi kwee-courtesans eFransi phakathi kwekhulu le-17 le-18. Nangona imbali yokudlala ngothando idlulela kude kwiinkulungwane, ngokwemvelo, kwi-seductress edumileyo edlulileyo, eCleopatra. Yayiyindlovukazi yokugqibela yaseYiputa esuka kwintando yamaPtolema eyazisa impepho, ioli, kunye neeperiomones, ezazisetyenziselwa ukutsala ingqalelo ngesini esahlukileyo. Ngomhla wamhlanje, igama elithi "ukudlala ngothando" lwenziwa ngumlobi weNgesi uChesterfield. Wachaza enye yeendlela ezinkulu zikaDan Francis, apho wayesebenzisa ngobuchule ubuchule bokudlala ngothando ngomnxeba: wayivula, wayivala, wafihla ubuso bonke, ngoko kuphela amehlo akhe. Wenza ngokucacileyo ukuba indoda eyathetha naye ngokukrakra yenza ingcaciso yokunyelisa ukuziphatha, yathi wayeziqhayisa, kwaye le nto yayibizwa ngokuba yothando. Ukususela ngoko, olu hlobo lokutya luye lwaba yiklasi.

Ubuqhetseba bokudlala ngothando

Kwaye ezinye iimpahla, izicathulo, iintambo ze-styles, izesekeli, iziqholo-zonke zaba ziimpawu ezingenakunqwenelekayo zobugcisa besilingo kunye nokutya.

Ngokuxhomekeke kubani osebenzisa ukuzithokozisa, indoda okanye ibhinqa, ulwahlulwe kwisilingo okanye ngokulandelelana ngokulandelanayo.

Isetyenziswe kwisilingo

Amadoda kwininzi esasebenzisa ubugcisa besilingo, amadoda okwenene ayinomdla kulo mdlalo ngenxa yomdlalo ngokwawo, ngokungafani nabasetyhini. Iqumba elidumileyo likaDon Juan noCasanova lalinomthelela ongavamile, umbane onamandla kuphela kumabhinqa. Sisiphi isizathu? Konke malunga neendlela.

1) Ukufunda, ukufunda kuyabonakala isixhobo esiyinhloko somntu ngokudlala ngothando, kufuneka ukuba ahlale ekhuselekileyo kwaye eneenkalipho. Ngokujonga okunjalo umntu ubonisa umdla kunye nendawo ekhethiweyo.

2) Ukunyamezela, ukunyamezela, ukuxhamla-ngoko indoda ibonisa amandla, ukuzithemba nokubaluleka kwayo. Ibhinqa, nokuba uyayifunayo okanye ayifuni, iya kuhlala isabelana ngamakhulu eminye.

3) Smile - isikhali senombolo 1 kwi-arsenal yesilingo kokubhinqa kunye namadoda. Ukumomotheka komntu akunakuchukumisa, kodwa, kunoko, ukuvuma, kubonisa ukuba kukukhangele ukujonga kuwe.

4) Ukunyakaza okungabonakaliyo kubaluleke kakhulu kumadoda ngexesha lokudlala ngothando. Benza ngokungazi, yonke into eyenzeka ngokwayo: ukuthinteka lula kwisitram sakho, njengokungathi ukhangele ubukho be-brick shack, zizenzele ngokuzenzekelayo kwi-chin okanye uzilungiselele ityayi - ukuba loo nto yenza konke, qiniseka ukuba uyamthanda kakhulu - kwaye akusikho enye, njengokudlala ngothando.

5) Uncedo - unike ijeketi okanye iingubo okanye i-ambulera, vula umnyango - ayikho imithetho efanelekileyo yokunakekelwa okanye uphawu lokuba umntu uyayikhathalela ngempilo yakho - oku kudlalwa ngothando olunezityalo ezibekwa kubameli bezesondo ezinamandla. Echoes ezikhethekileyo ze-troubadours ezazihlabelela ii-serenade zithandwa zabo phantsi kweefestile okanye zithumela iintyatyambo ngeenkcukacha eziyimfihlo. Ngendlela, i-temper idumile iCasanova isetyenzisile ezi zinto ezifanayo zothando, ngaphandle kokuqulunqa amaqhinga. Isixhobo sakhe esona sikhulu sinokuzithemba nothando oluqinileyo kwabasetyhini.

Amaqhinga omdlalo wothando

Ukuqhathaniswa ngumfana kunzima kakhulu, kunokwakheka, kunobuncwane. Abasetyhini bethandana ngokungabandakanyekanga kwaye ngokukodwa, ngenxa yokutya, ukuze bafezekise iinjongo zabo. Ngabameli bezesondo ezifanelekileyo, ngaba ngabaqalayo bokudlala ngothando, owokuqala ukukhwelisa umntu, umdonse emdlalweni wakhe.

1) Umbono wowesifazane awukho konke umntu ovulekileyo kunye osondelene naye, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo - umntu ongenalwazi, ongazinzileyo. Iingcali ze-genre - ukubonakala okukhawuleza, ukukhwabanisa, ukutshiza kwe-eyelashes kunye nokujonga phantsi, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukulahla kwe-eyelashes ngomzuzu. Le mbono ayiyi kushiya umntu ongafuniyo.

2) Gcoba - kungekhona imilomo, kuba ukukhanya okukhawulezayo kwamehlo kuyinto enommothekayo kwaye uya kumnika umdla kubo.

3) Ulwimi lwezandla - kulula ukusilahla iinwele, njengokungathi ziphosa entanyeni, kulula ukugubungela isicathulo, ukuphosa umlenze omnye kwelinye - indoda, nokuba iyayifuna okanye ayiyi, iyakuba ngumdla inxaxheba kumdlalo wakho.

4) Izwi-elithulile, elithambileyo. Amadoda ngokukhawuleza ayahlula kumakhulu abanye, kwaye ukuhleka kusasazeka, ujabule, konke oku kwenzayo ngokuxhomekeke kubo. Into ebalulekileyo yinto oyithethayo: izihloko ezingathandekiyo, amabinzana angabonakaliyo - kunye nokudlala ngothando kuzakufumana into ekhangayo.

5) Thintela isixhobo sokugqibela nesona sikhulu kwi-arsenal yakho, enquma injongo yezenzo zakho. Ngokudlala ngothando, izazi zengqondo zicebisa ukunciphisa umnxeba ukuya kutsho, kungenjalo umdlalo ungahamba ngaphaya kweenjongo zakho. Khumbula: "indawo yentlalo" - 1.2 m, "ubuntu" - 70 cm kunye "obusondeleyo" - 45 cm. Gqiba kwiinjongo uze uwele imida evumelekileyo ngokubhekiselele kubo. Ukudlala ngothando kukugqwesileyo esingapheliyo kwesini sesini, imfihlelo yabo kunye nomdla. Yisebenzise ngobuchule, yenza ubomi bucebile kwaye bumnandi. Yintoni eya kunceda ukuba ibe yinto enhle, enempilo, ejabulisayo kwaye engenamibhoqo imihla ngemihla? Imfihlelo kukubonakaliswa kwothando kwansuku zonke! Ubusuku obuneminyaka engamashumi amabini anesibini ebusayo bungenza ukuba nomoya onjalo uhlale unyaka-isiphetho esenziwe ngabafundi beengqondo kwiYunivesithi yaseBerlin, ekhokelwa nguLars Hagen. Ubungakanani bokuba u-kiss ococekileyo uthathwa njengemizuzu engama-3, izazinzulu zithi, ngubani oqhubekele ukuqwalasela iipali ezilikhulu zeeminyaka ezahlukeneyo. Ukongezelela, bonke abo batyathethwana emva kwalolu hlobo lwenkqubo ekhangelekileyo babukele ubomi babo ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ukumanga okude kunokumisa ukuhlaselwa kwe-vegetative dystonia ngenxa yokuqhelaniswa kwemvelaphi yabantu.