Ukuba umntu uqala ngokwenene ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, ngoko indlu iya kuhlambuluka kwaye ihlambuluke, amagumbi aya kuzaliswa ngenduduzo kunye noxakeke ... Imoya iya kuzincama, ubuhlobo kunye neetafile zokutya ziya kudla ngokutya kunye nezitya ezihlwaya.
Enyanisweni, indoda eyinyani eqondayo ifama ayikwazi ukubuyisela umyalelo kuphela endlwini, kodwa iphinde uyixhase rhoqo. Oku kunjalo, nokuba ebuntwaneni zonke izinto azibeka unina. Ubuvila bendoda, obunikwe yona ngokwemvelo, abuyi kuvumela umntu ukuba ahlakaze ekupheleni kobomi bakhe, ukuphakamisa izinto ezifanayo yonke imini kunye ne-apopt.
Ewe, emva kokuba umntu elungisa umyalelo, uya kufuna ukuba amanye amalungu entsapho amxhase. Ukongezelela, akuyi kuba yisicelo, umyalelo "wokumisela" onyanzelekile, ubundlobongela, ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi kuba. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungamthobeli, ngoko unokuzigxeka!
Njengomthetho, kwintsapho apho umntu ethanda ukulandelwa kunye nococeko, ngelixa ezama ukulondoloza, abantwana bakhula ukuhlanzeka okufanayo. Abantwana boobawo abanako ukucinga ngokuphila kwintlupheko kunye neengxabano, kuba ukususela ebuntwaneni uyise wayejwayele ukuchaneka. Mhlawumbi kunjalo ngale ndlela iintsapho zinezithethe ezilungileyo.
Amadoda athande kakhulu ucoceko. Abakwazi ukuma xa kungcolile endlwini, xa iingubo zingcolile kwaye izicathulo zihlambulukanga, aziyithandi xa umntu engayikhokhanga ngokwaneleyo ukucoceka kwayo, kwaye kukho ukuvumba okungahambikiyo kwigumbi. Iphunga elilodwa kuphela elifanele ukuba lisefesini livumba lecoceko!
Izandla zamadoda zisebenza kakhulu kwaye ziyakwazi ukuhlangabezana ngokukhawuleza nayiphi na inkunkuma kwimpahla yabantwana. I-Pustyakovymoni icinga kwaye ihlamba ngezandla inani elincinane lezinto zezingane. Kodwa ke uthenge umatshini wokuhlamba ohle endlwini yakhe-kufuneka yenziwe ngumninikhaya. Bakujonga ukuba yinto encinci yokuthenga kakuhle iifowuni zokuhlamba, izicwangciso zokuhlamba kunye nokukhusela umatshini wokuhlamba.
Abantwana kwintsapho enjalo baya kufunda ngokukhawuleza ukugcina ubunyameko endlwini ngenxa yokuba uyise ungumninimzi oyinyaniso. Emva koko, indalo ngokwayo yamnika ubuchule. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza i-zateetremont, iya kufana nekhaya lokuyila. Ukuthambekela kokudala kwabantwana kunokukhawuleza kubandakanyeke ebomini, kuba bonke baya kukwazi ukuzama ukwenza. Bahlala njalo kwaye bonke baya kuthi: "Ndifana nobaba!" ... Nawuphi na umntu uya kuvuya.
Wonke amalungu entsapho abulela umntu onjalo wokutya uya kuba nako ukuxabisa ngokwenene zonke iingenelo zentuthuzelo - ngokuqinisekileyo abayi kwamkela kuphela, kodwa bayavuya kukuba upapa uthenge izinto ezahlukeneyo ezenza ubomi bube mnandi kwaye bube mnandi. Kwindlu apho ubaba olawulayo wezoqoqosho, akuyi kuze kubekho isimo sengqondo sokuqala nesingcwalisekanga kwiintlobo eziphuhliswayo. Abantwana beselula baya kubona ukuba bangaphi abantu abasebenzayo kunye neziphumo zabo zokusebenza.
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba inxalenye enkulu yamadoda ingabonakaliyo kwaye ilambile, kodwa ezi zimbono kuphela ezahlukileyo, aziqinisekanga ngokupheleleyo ubomi. Amadoda anentlonelo kwaye anomdla. Kwaye abagadi bendlu banamacala amabini afihlakeleyo. Bawuthanda kakhulu intsapho yabo, kwaye onke amakhaya ayengaphandle.
Indoda yinyani kuphela inokudala indlu enomdla okwenene wobuhlobo kunye nokuqonda. Kule meko, unokwenza umzobo nomkhosi. Ngubani onokuvuselela nokudibanisa abantu abahluke ngokupheleleyo kwimimoya kunye nomntu wabantu abanzima? Ewe, ewe! Nguyena mlawuli wendalo. Ngaphezu koko, lo ngumlawuli wamabutho okulwa: "Yenze njengoko ndenzayo!"
Umninimzi nomzekelo wakhe ubonisa indlela kunye nokwenza ntoni. Kwaye amadoda afikayo ahambayo angabonisa kuphela, onke amaxesha athi: "Yenza njengoko ndithethayo! Kukho umehluko, akunjalo? Emva koko, wonk 'ubani unokuthi, kodwa ukufundisa nokubonisa umzekelo umzekelo ngokucacileyo - le yintsimi yalomntu, kungekhona umnxibelelwano.
Izitya ezifanelekileyo kunye ezihlwayekileyo kwietafile zokutya? Ngomntu - kuyinto yolonwabo. Amadoda athanda kakhulu ukutya okunomsoco, bayazi kakhulu ngokutya, ngoko ke nangona umama engekho, akukho mntu uya kuhlala elambile endlwini. Kubantwana, umntu onjalo uyamkhathalela ngokukhethekileyo. UPapa uya kukwazi ukunondla umntwana ngaphandle kokumelwa, okufuneka abonise umama okhathele umntwana aphelile. Nangona kunjalo, esi sidlo sinokufana nesidlo esivela kwikicini yasendle, esondliwa kumajoni ehleli emanzini okanye epharadini, ejoliswe kubaqhubi bomsakazo kunye nabaxhasi ...
Uninimzi ngumsebenzi wendoda yangempela. Kodwa! Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo kuyavakala, abafazi abaninzi bayayidelela loo madoda kwaye bazama ukuwaphika, becinga ukuba esikhundleni sabantu besilisa "bacinezelekile" ukucinga kwabantu besifazane. Abafazi bafuna ukuba bangaboni nje kuphela, kodwa nabaninimzi ngexesha lakhe elithile.
Kuya kuba ngaphezu kweentsapho ezicinga ngokuhlukileyo: ukuba umfazi ufumana ngaphezulu, ngoko umyeni kufuneka abe ngumnini wendlu. Akukho nto kule nto ihlazo! Kule nto kunengqiqo, kunye nokuqonda, kunye nererezon!