Kutheni kwaye kutheni abantu abafanele babe sisondelelene komnye bahlala bexabana? Uphi ukungaqondi kakuhle kuqala? Emva koko, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba ulandela amathiphu athile, iingxaki zengxabano kwiintsapho ziya kuba ngaphantsi. Ngokwezibalo, malunga neepesenti ezingama-70 zemitshato yamhlanje e-Rashiya iyahlukana ngokuthe ngqo ngenxa yezinto ezahlukileyo "ezingafaniyo". Kodwa kudla ngokwaneleyo ukuwaphepha, ukwazi iiresiphi zentsapho yolonwabo.
Kaninzi kakhulu - kakhulu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi bachitha ixesha elide kunye kunye. Kodwa njengoko sikwaziyo, naluphi na uphando lwezithako ezincedo, luyakwazi ukutshabalalisa isitya esona sihle. Kwakhona izinto ziqhubeka nomtshato. Emva kokuba sisetyenziselwe ukuchitha lonke ixesha lethu lokukhulula kunye nabathandekayo bethu, kuya kuba nzima ukuba siyeke. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sinciphisa ngokupheleleyo isangqa sothungelwano lwethu. Ngaloo ndlela, ekugqibeleni, umntu ophela oza kuba kufuphi nathi ngumlingane. Kakade, kunye naye kwakuya kuba yiparadesi kwindawo enye. Ewe, kuphela ukucaphukisa kunye nemvakalelo oye wachazela ngayo abahlobo bakho okanye uphuthunyiswe ngaphandle kwimeko yokuzivocavoca, xa kungekho mntu owaziwayo ebona, qalisa ukuqokelela njengebhola lebhola. Emva kwithuba elithile, kwenzeka into efanayo kumadoda. Ekugqibeleni, uwela emgodini omnye komnye, ungenalo ithuba lokutshintsha kwenye into, eyakho.
Yintoni endiyenzayo?
Ukupheka kwentlalo kunje. Nangona ebusweni bomntu othandekayo, akufanele nanamlibale ukuba umntu kufuneka anike ixesha lokuzimela. Ixesha kufuneka linikezelwe kumthandekayo. Emva kwakho konke, amadoda afuna ukuhlaselwa kweemvakalelo eziphazamisayo kunye namava. Kungaba nantoni na - ukususela ekulobeni indoda, kude kube ngeCawa ibonisa nabangani bakho. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, wonke umntu osentsapho kufuneka abe nenxalenye yakhe yobomi, eya kuba yedwa kuye. Akukho mntu wenza ukuba ufuna ukufihla. Emva koko, incoko iya kuba ngaphezulu xa wena kunye nesiqingatha sakho sesibini uchitha ixesha elilodwa. Ngethuba elifanayo, ngezinye izinto zakho ezingabonakaliyo kumsebenzi ozithandayo ziya kunceda ukujonga ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
Funda ukufumana ingcamango.
Ewe, ukunyaniseka ngenye yezona nkalo ezinzima kunxulumano. Namhlanje usoloko unokuva: "Ewe, uphosakele!" Iphosakeleyo - kunye nenqaku. Enyanisweni, phantse zonke iingcali zeengqondo zivuma ukuba xa kuvela ingxabano, kubonakala nje ukungqubuzana kwemibono emibini, akunangqiqo ukubiza enye into okanye eyiyo. Kodwa nangona naluphi na ukuphikisana, kufuneka ukhumbule-ukuba, mhlawumbi, umntu omthandayo akahluphekanga ngaphantsi kwakho. Sithanda kakhulu ukuqhubeka nokuthatha iingxabano nangemva kokuphela kwengxoxo. Inwabe yentsapho ayinakwakhiwa ngaloo ndlela. Hamba uze kunye namadoda. Kungenxa yoko, ngenxa yokuqhubeka kwangaphakathi kwempikiswano, siyakwazi ukuqhubeka sulk omnye nomnye iintsuku ekupheleni. Kodwa yintoni inqaku, ukuba ungaya kwi-compromise. Kwaye oku kusindisa ixesha, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - iisensi zeentsimbi ziya kuhlala zihambelana.
Yintoni endiyenzayo?
Kuzo zonke iimeko, khusela iifomathi zoluhlobo-ewe, ngokuqhelekileyo ulungile. Ngokubanzi, nayiphi na isitatimenti esingaqondwa njengento yokumangalelwa kufuneka ikhutshwe kulolu hlobo lothethwano. Emva kwakho konke, ngamanye amaxesha awuthethi nhlobo. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo umntu uqala ukucinga ukuba le yityholo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uzibeka ngokungafanelekanga.
Okwesibini, soloko ukhangele ithuba apho iimfuno zakho kunye neminqweno yothandekayo wakho iya kudibaniswa. Emva koko, akukho mntu ufuna ngokwenene ukuzingca kwaye uphukise esinye isiqingatha. Kodwa ezi zikhetho zifanelekile ukuxoxa. Ukuba awukwaneliseki ngokuya kwi-autoshop yeenxalenye zokuzikhusela kwi-seagull yakhe - xelele ngokuthe ngqo ukuba uya kuba mnandi ngakumbi kwaye ukhululekile ngaphandle kwakho.
Gcina ingoma yegama lakho, ungagqithisi kwaye ungaphakamisi amazwi akho, kuba kuya kuba lula ukuphumeza ulonwabo lwentsapho kunye nokuqonda okufanayo. Okokuqala, oku akuyi kwenza umlingani wakho abe nexhala, kwaye okwesibini, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukulawula inkambo yencoko kwaye ungayifaki kwi-hysteria ukususela ekuqaleni, akayi kuvumela i-dinosaur ukuba ibhabhise kwi-fly.
Jikelele - udibanisa.
Ukuba kwimeko yokuqala sathetha ngento yokuba kufuneka ufumane ithuba lomdla ngamnye, ngoku kulungile ukuthetha ngezinto eziqhelekileyo. Kwaye oku akufanelekanga kuphela kwimiba yansuku zonke yobomi bakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho nto inxulumana nokuthenga iTV entsha okanye ukulungisa indlu, kodwa ngaphandle kwendawo ephilileyo yobomi bentsapho kufuneka kube nokuzilibazisa kunye nezenzo zokuzilibazisa eziza kuvelisa intsapho yakho. Ingaba ngamadaniso adibeneyo - iiklasi zolu hlobo zibonelelwa ngamaziko okufumana impilo zanamhlanje kunye nootitshala bobuqu. Mhlawumbi uya kuzifumana endleleni yemidlalo yasekhaya. Mema abahlobo kunye nekomityi yeeyi okanye iglasi yewayini ngombutho omkhulu kunye nobungane kwi "Crocodile" okanye "Mafia". I-Adrenaline, ephuhliswe ngexesha lokuzivocavoca, iya kukhuthaza iimvakalelo zakho, kukunceda ukhangele okhethiweyo wakho ngaphesheya. Kwaye mhlawumbi nabahlobo bakho komnye nomnye. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko - musa ukuvumela imihla ngemihla ibambelele ngokupheleleyo intsapho yakho.
Ekugqibeleni, kufuneka kuthiwe, ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba akukho ndlela ekhoyo yokufumana ulonwabo lwentsapho. Unokusebenzisa kuphela iindlela ezininzi ezinokukunceda ukuba ungaxabani kunye neziqhelo kwaye ufumane umdla oqhelekileyo. Into yodwa, ewe, kubalulekile kuyo yonke intsapho, ngaphandle kokungenakwenzeka ukuyilawula - lo lulo thando abanikezana ngalo. Intsapho ayikho ikhekhe okanye i-pie, enokupheka kwincwadi yokupheka. Konke kuxhomekeke kwimveliso, izimo zokupheka kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi. Into efana neyolo lwentlalo kunye nenxalenye yetshukumo yokucoca yileyo, ngendlela efanelekileyo kunye nomnqweno omkhulu, konke kuhamba njengoko kuboniswa kumfanekiso okanye kuboniswe kumabonwakude.