Musa ukunyamezela.
Akunjalo, unako ukuxolela yonke into kude kube ngumonde. Khawukhumbule nje: ukugwinya zonke izikhalazo nokunganeliseki, unobungozi ngolunye usuku ukuphula nokuphonsa yonke into kumthandayo. Ebushushu, uyamkhumbula nangona minyaka emibini edlulileyo wahamba phezu komsila wenkonti, kwaye inkabi yahamba idabukile iintsuku ezimbini. Abantu abambalwa kule meko baya kuhlala bathule-kwaye kule nqaku ulwalamano lwakho luya kugqitywa. Ukumxolela yonke into ehlabathini, wena ngokwakho umququzelele kwinqwenelo kwisitayela esithi: "Yintoni eya kwenzeka xa ndiyenza le nto?" - ke ungamangalisi ukuba uyasula iinyawo zakho. Kufuneka kubekho imithintelo. Kwaye into eyona nto ingcono ukuyibeka ngaphambili: yintoni na ongenakuyixolela? Iingcali zengqondo zithi zichasene kulwalamano. Kungenxa yokuba xa umntu ehlupheka (okhathazekayo), okwesibini naye akufanele abe mnandi. Kwaye kutheni uqhubeka ulwalamano?
Unokuxolela:
Akuthandana. Akunakukunika iintyatyambo. Musa ukudibana kwi-limousine emva kweklasi. Musa ukuzenza ngathi intombi yakho. Kwaye, incomo evela kuye ayikwazi ukulinda. Xa uwedwa, ayikho enye ngothando xa uhamba. Yaye xa usendaweni yesitalato, akayi kuthatha isandla sakho. Oku akunakuxolelwa, ukuba udinga uthando ukwenzela ukuba bonke bangabonakali. Ukuba ufuna ukuphonsa uthuli emehlweni akho. Ngaba iya kuba yinto kuphela? Okanye ukuba, ngoku, sele ukhona kwaye unokuxolela ukungapheleli?
Amanga okanye into enjalo. Wakubiza ngeyure kamva kunokuba wathenjisiwe, wathi uya ku-gym, kwaye wayelele ngasekhaya phambi kweTV. Kwaye ucinga ukuba loo mntu akayigcinanga ilizwi lakhe, ukuba awukwazi ukuthembela kuye, kwaye ngokubanzi imeko enjalo ayinakuxolelwa. Kubonakala ukuba uzama 'ukwakha' wakho umthandayo. Ncipha phantsi, ngoko uya kuba ngowokuqala ukukhala kwaye uthi ukhathele ukuba uqeqeshe kwaye udibanise emahlombe akho.
Ubuhlobo obunzima buya kuxolelwa. Uhlala uphikisana naye kwizinto ezinqabileyo, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo imbambano iya kuba yintlankqalazo, ebonakala kuwe, awukwazi ukuxolela. Into ephambili kukuba ufunde kungento. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba uhlala ephethe isandla sakho ngaso sonke ixesha, ukuchukumisa ngamehlo akho kunye nokumanga iinyawo zakho, mhlawumbi, uya kululela.