Okokuqala, kukuhle ukuqonda oko ufuna ukutshintsha kuwe. Ziziphi iimpawu onayo malunga nokuba ziphi zona. Kutheni ufuna iimpawu zobuntu? Khetha enye ofuna ukuyitshintsha kakhulu. Emva koko, ukuzama ukutshintsha ngokwakho ngumsebenzi ongenakwenzeka ngokupheleleyo. Qala ngompawu omnye okanye umkhwa. Kancinci ukukhupha ingqondo yakho ukutshintsha, ezinye iimpawu ungatshintsha ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula.
Umnqweno wokutshintsha usele inyathelo elikhulu ekuphumeleleni. Cinga ngesizathu sokuba ufuna ukutshintsha, yintoni engakufanelanga kangako ebomini bakho? Ekuqaleni, kuya kufuneka ulawule le nkqubo. Ngoxa amatsha amanyathelo akayi kuba ngumkhwa, kwaye kamva abe yinto yomlingiswa. Inkqubo yenguqu ichaza ukuqonda ngezenzo, iimvakalelo kunye neengcamango.
Ngamnye wethu usenza isigqibo sokuba uya kuba njani, indlela abanye abaya kumphatha ngayo, nokuba njani ubomi bakhe. Thatha uxanduva lwakho kubomi bakho. Kuphela ke ungatshintsha. Zixelele ukuba ufuna ukuba njani.
Qaphela izinto ozenzayo phantsi kwefuthe lomntu ofuna ukutshintsha. Ziziphi iimvakalelo ozivakalelwayo, zeziphi iingcamango ezivusa le mvakalelo. Fumana ingcambu yokuziphatha engakufanelanga. Ngokuqhelekileyo kunokwaneleyo ukubona apho iingxaki zikhula ukuze zilahlwe.
Nquma ukuba uza kutshintsha njani ubomi bakho. Nazi zixhobo ezimbalwa zokukunceda.
1. Isizathu (ingqiqo).
Ininzi yexesha esiphila ngayo njenge-biorobots, ngokwemigaqo ebekiwe. Sebenza kwindlu, sebenze kwakhona. Asikho apha kwaye ngoku. Asinakuyinyani le nto de kube yinto eyenzekayo ekhuphayo. Vuka kwaye ubomi bakho buya kuqala ukutshintsha.
Ukuze 'uvuke' rhoqo uzibuze imibuzo: Iyintoni intsingiselo yobomi? Yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu kum apha kwaye ngoku? Ziziphi iimfuno zam? Sonke sahluke. Wonke umntu unenjongo yakhe kunye nephupha. Omnye ubalulekile intsapho okanye uthando, umntu-umsebenzi okanye ukuziqonda.
Emva koko cinga ngezenzo eziza kukukhokelela ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho. Uqale usebenze. Izenzo kuphela eziza kukukhokelela kwisiphumo.
Beka iinjongo zakho. Ixesha elifutshane kunye nexesha elide. Isicwangciso esicacileyo sinokukunceda uqhubeke phambili. Fumana idayari yezifezekiso. Yibhale phantsi iinjongo zomhla, inyanga, unyaka. Uninzi lwabantu alucingi ukuba bahamba phi. Ukuba ubhala phantsi iinjongo zakho, yenza isicwangciso sokuphumelela. Ungatshintsha ubomi kunye nawe. Emva koko, ngoku unendawo yokuya kuyo.
Ukuba ulungele ukuphuma kwimodi "yokuzenzekelayo", ngoko ndicebisa ukufunda incwadi ethi "Ukufezekisa ubuninzi" nguBrian Tracy.
2. Ukuxolela.
Into ebalulekileyo ekuziphuculeni ulwaphulo. Le mthwalo kufuneka ikhutshwe ngaphandle. Nangona uchitha amandla kwizikhalazo, akusayi kuba namandla okutshintsha. Cinga ngabo bonke abaxhaphazayo. Vumela ukuba ubabathethelele. Yithi ngelizwi elikhulu: "Ndiyakuxolela (igama lomenzi wakho owenzayo) ngenxa yoko ..." Makuqalekise. Emva kwakho konke, yiloo nto uhlushwayo. Kwaye umxhaphazi wakho akhathaleli konke okhubekileyo ngaye.
3. Uthando.
Nabani na umntu ofuna ukuthandwa. Sinesidingo sokwamkela nokunika uthando. Okokuqala, kufuneka uzithande. Kuphela umntu ozithandayo ngokwakhe unokwabelana ngothando lwakhe ngentliziyo yakhe yonke. Fumana uhlangothi oluhle, khumbula izenzo zakho ezilungileyo. Rekhoda zakho impumelelo. Unento yokuzithandayo. Uhlukile kwaye awunakwenzeka. Khumbula oku. Funda ukubonisa uthando lwakho. Xelela wena nabathandekayo bakho ukuba uyabathanda kangakanani. Kwaye baya kukubuyisela.
Ukuba ufuna uthando oluthe xaxa ebomini bakho, ndikucebisa ukuba ufunde "Iimfihlakalo Ezilishumi Zothando" ngo-Adam Jackson kunye ne "Iilwimi Zathando Ezihlanu" nguGary Chapman.
4. Ukunxibelelana.
Ngamnye wethu ufuna ukuqondwa. Sonke sifuna inkxaso kunye nokuvunywa kwizihlobo kunye nabahlobo. Ngoko ke, fundisa ukuthetha, vula njengabantwana. Yaye uya kuthandwa, uya kutsalwa kuwe.
Fumana abantu abanomdla. Ngoku kulula. Yakha iqela kumnxeba. Mema wonke umntu osondelene nawe ngomoya nangomdla.
5. U bulumko no komoya.
Ihlabathi alinamcimbi omnye. Ulonwabo alukwazi ukugqiba ngaphandle koxolo lwengqondo noxolo. Ukuze ufunde oko kuya kukunceda ufunde imithetho yokomoya. Ngokulandela imithetho yendalo yonke, uya kutshintsha kwaye utshintshe ihlabathi elikujikelezayo.
6. Umculo.
Khetha umculo ogqibeleleyo oya kukunceda ukhululeke kunye nomzimba wakho nomphefumlo. Zithathele umgaqo yonke imihla ukuba uchithe kule mculo. Danisa kwaye ucule. Bonisa iimvakalelo zakho ngomzimba. Oku kuya kunceda ukulahla ukugqithisa okungaphezulu kunye nokukhathala.
Ndikwacebisa ukuba uphulaphule imisebenzi yeklasikhi. Ndincoma kakhulu ukuphulaphula, kwaye kungcono ukudansa, i-waltz.
7. Uvuyo.
Jabulela ubomi. Vumela ukuba ujabule. Fumana kwintsuku nganye into enhle kwaye ijabule. Qalisa ekuseni ngokuzitywina. Yiza kwisibuko, zityumzele kwaye unqwenela ukusa.
Udelele ixesha elingakanani? Ukuhleka, ukuhleka kwandisa ubomi kwaye kwenza kube kuhle. Yabelana nawe uvuyo nabanye, baya kukuphendula okufanayo.
8. Izipho.
Yenza izipho wena nabathandekayo bakho. Musa ukunika into ebiza. Zithenge iziqhamo zeentyatyambo zentlambo okanye uye kwii-movie. Thenga ibhaluni uze uyikhulule esibhakabhakeni. Vumela ukuba ube ngumntwana omncinci. Nika intsapho yakho into enhle.
Ungesabi ukutshintsha. Lo ngumsebenzi onomdla kakhulu. Khumbula, ubomi buhle! Kuphela kufuneka uphendule. Khangela kuzo zonke iinkalo ezintle.
Futhi uphonsa umenzi we zombie. Musa ukujonga iindaba kunye neengxelo zezobugebengu. Khangela bhetele kwi-movie yeentsapho ezilungileyo. Ndiyacebisa bonke abangabonanga ukuba babukele i-movie "Imfihlelo".
Ndikunqwenela ukuba utshintsho olulungileyo kwaye olukhawulezayo, kuba ngoku uyazi ukuba ungatshintsha njani ngokukhawuleza kwindlela efanelekileyo.