Ukondla umntwana luxesha elibalulekileyo

Unokuhlangabezana njani neengxaki kwaye uzonwabe ngokutya? Ukutya umntwana kubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye kufuneka nje ulinde.

Andifuni kwaye andiyi kuthi, okanye kutheni umntwana enqabe ubisi?

Ngeenyanga ezi-2.5 wam unyana wamanqika ukuba athathe amabele. Kwafuneka ndinike ubisi kwibhotile, nangona kamva ndawunqaba. Ngoku umntwana uneminyaka engama-4 ubudala. Kunzima ukumondla, ebusuku uvuka rhoqo ngeyure aze adle ngokuzonwabisa, kwaye emva kwemini wenza i-sips esithile nje, ijika, ihamba, iphazamisekile. Ubunzima buphantsi kwemida eqhelekileyo, kodwa ndixhalabele kakhulu ngesondlo sakhe esingenasweleko emini, kunye nokuvuswa kwamandla ebusuku. Yintoni engalunganga?


Ubudala benyanga 3-4 iinyanga apho iintsana zinokuyilisa ingqalelo ngokungazinzi, ziphazamiseke yiyo yonke into ejikelezileyo. Kwimeko apho, akufanele uxhalabe. Ngokuqhelekileyo iintsana zidla ngcono ngaphambi kokulala, kwaye oku kutya kungathatha imizuzu engama-20-40. Kwaye zonke ezinye izinamathiselo, ukuba zihlala ezi-3-7 imizuzu, zizinto eziqhelekileyo.

Mhlawumbi imeko yakho ingabizwa ngokuthi "ukuxhamla kwangaphambili." Umntwana uzama ukukubonisa ukuba kukho into engalunganga ebomini bakhe, ngoko uhambelana nesifuba ngelixa esondla umntwana, ixesha elibalulekileyo, iinqonga. Ukuzincama kunokukhokelela ekuqaleni kokungaphumeleli, kufuneka kuhlanjululwe ngokucokisekileyo ebomini beemvumba, kwaye ufunde indlela yokunciphisa umntwana ngezinye iindlela, kuquka ukufaka isicelo esifubeni. Ukuze ibhotile uzame ukuyisebenzisa, lelinye intshaba enkulu yokuncelisa. Musa ukukhathala, ubeke umntwana ukuba alale phantsi kombhobho wakho, kwaye uzame ukuhlawula ngakumbi emini: yigqoke ezandleni zakho (kwisibetha), ulale phantsi kwelinye ilanga xa umntwana elele, vumela amabele akho alale ubusuku bonke. Ukuhlala phezu kwayo, nxulela umntwana, uze ubeke isifuba emlonyeni ngomnene, kodwa ungamphoqeleli umntwana ukuba adle ngamandla! Udinga ukulungiswa, ubonise iimvuthu ezondlayo, unqabile kwisifuba ngokulula, ngokuzithemba nangokuthembekileyo . Kancinci umntwana wakho uya kuqonda oku.


Kungekudala ukuphela

Intombi yam ngumnyaka nesiqingatha, ndingathanda ukugqiba ukuncelisa. Ndivile ngeziyobisi eziyeka ukuhlambalaza. Kodwa kungekudala, omnye wabo wasebenzisa umhlobo wam. Ubisi buphelile, kodwa emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa kwabonakala kwakhona, kwaye ngobuninzi obunjalo ngenxa yobushushu nentlungu ayenayo ukuya esibhedlele. Ndiya kunqanda inkqubo yokondla umntwana-ixesha elibalulekileyo lokudibanisa nekhefu, ukuze mna kunye nosana lwam sinokulibala. Indlela yokwenza okulungileyo?

Kukho izidakamizwa ezinciphisa izinga leprolactin emzimbeni wowesifazane, kwaye bahlala bephosakele ngeendlela zokumisa ukukhwabanisa. Kakade kwiinyanga ezi-6 zobomi bomntwana izinga leprolactin emzimbeni wowesifazane liyancitshiswa kumgangatho wokukhulelwa kwangaphambili, ngoko ngonyaka nangesiqingatha akufuneki ukunciphisa ngosizo lwamachiza. Kwaye zilapha ziphumo emva kokumkela kwazo, njengomhlobo wakho, umzekelo.


Indlela yokunciphisa i-lactation?

Ndifumana ubisi obuninzi ngezikhathi ezithile. Ndiyazi ukuba ukupompa kuphela ukwandisa inani labo, ngoko ke ndenza oko kuphela njengesigqibo sokugqibela. Ndizama ukungaphuzi kushushu ngaloo mihla. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukunciphisa i-lactation?

Ukuvakalisa ukwandisa inani lobisi, kwaye usebenza ngokufanelekileyo, ulungelelanisa kuphela kwiimeko ezinqabileyo kunye ncinane. Ukuze unciphise kancane uhlalutyo, unokuluququzelela inkqubo yokondla umntwana njengethuba elibalulekileyo ngale ndlela elandelayo.

Nika umntwana inkunzi efanayo kwiintsuku ezingama-2-3 ngokulandelana. Emva koko, okwesibini, "kwimodi yokulinda", into iya kuqala ukuveliswa eyanciphisa izinga lokuvelisa ubisi, oku kuthetha ukuba kuya kuba nobisi obuncinane, kodwa umzekelo, vumela ukuba enye ibhokhwe ibe "ngononophelo" iiyure ezimbini namhlanje, uze ungene "umlindo" wesibini.Kodwa ngosuku okanye ezimbini zenza ixesha lomsebenzi 2 iiyure ezili-15 imizuzu, ibe ngaphezulu-ukuya kwiiyure ezingama-3.


Ngeentsuku zomlambo, zama ukukhawulela inani lemali ngokwayo ukuya ku-1-1.5 ilitha ngosuku. Unokuzama ukusela ukunyuswa kwamanzi, ukucima i-lactation (ishidi le-walnut, i-wisdom), kodwa uqaphele-akukho ngaphezu kwe-1 ingilazi ngosuku kunye nexeshana (kungekho rhoqo). I-Peppermint ithathwa njengobuthakathaka kuthetha ukunciphisa i-lactation, ukusela itiye kunye nayo.

Idilesi kumntu we-homeopathist, ukuba wamise okanye wakhetha amalungiselelo ngamnye ekunciphiseni i-lactemia, ukuba yonke into ekhankanywe ngasentla ayinakunceda okanye incedise. Into ephambili ayikuphelelwa yithemba kwaye ube nomonde!


Ukusela okanye ukusela?

Ngaba ndifuna umntwana 4 iinyanga ukunika itiye okanye amanzi? INyana ekunceliseni, isisindo kunye nazo zonke ezinye izikhombisi ziqhelekileyo, kodwa yonke imimmy eyaziwayo kule minyaka sele ibenomntwana. Ngaba ndiyenza into efanelekileyo, ndizibambelele ubisi?

Ukufikelela kwiinyanga ezintandathu akukho siselo esongezelelweyo siyadingeka.

Umzekelo xa kukho izibonakaliso ezizodwa kulo. Xa umama enobisi obuninzi, umntwana uyadla ngokuphindaphindiweyo, iiyure ezithathu, kunye nekhefu elikhulu lokulala ebusuku alithinteli impilo okanye umntwana otywalayo, kulo mzekelo, zonke izilwanyana zondla i-milk time, amanzi afunekayo kumntwana. Emva kweenyanga ezi-6, qalisa i-dopaivat amacube amanzi ukusuka kwendebe (sebenzisa amanzi abakhethekileyo ngaphandle kwegesi). Ngokuphathelele itiye, ingafakwa ekudleni komntwana ukuya kwiinyanga ezili-9. Ukulahleka komninzi, ukuphakamisa ukuphuthuma kokusela.

Ukwenza unxana lomntwana lukhuphe ngokusebenza ngomzimba osebenzayo, iimpahla ezigqithisileyo, ishushumo sezulu. Ndiyaphinda, xa kunzima ukufumana isisindo somzimba kunye nokungabikho kwamanzi okutshatyalaliswa kwintsana, umbuzo wokubamba umntwana ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-6 akufanele uvele. Ukuba umntwana usempilweni, uvakalelwa kakuhle kwaye uyavuya ngayo yonke into, akukho mfuneko! Yonke into oyifunayo kubisi lonyoko.