Yintoni enye into eyenziwa yinkwenkwe?
Uphuhliso olusebenzayo luya kubonakaliswa kwizenzo ezilandelayo, kungekhona kubantwana benye indala:
- Ingane izama ukukopisha intetho yabantu abadala kwaye ivakalise amagama amaninzi, nangona yindlela yakhe
- Ukuba uhleka naye, uya kuhleka
- Abantwana balesi sizukulwana bafaka ngokufanelekileyo into enkulu ibe yincinci okanye bafune umgodi ofanelekileyo kwisimo kwizinto ezandleni zabo
- Bayakwazi ukudlala ngezinto ezincinci, bazifake kwisiqwenga okanye bazisetyenziselwe injongo yazo. Oku kusebenza nakwiimidlalo ezinkulu. Ingane iqhubela ibhola ngamabhola okanye idlala ngomatshini wokubhala
- Kule minyaka, abantwana bahlakulela kakhulu inxaxheba, ngoko banomdla kwabanye abantwana kwaye bazame ukudlala nabo
- Xa isicelo sikamama sinokwenza izinto ezilula :lala phantsi, uhlale phantsi okanye uthathe isipuni. Ukongezelela, banomdla kakhulu ekugqokeni okanye ukuzithiba, ukudansa okanye ukufumana amathoyizi afanelekileyo
- Unxibelelwano ludlala indima ephambili ekuphuhliseni. Xa uqhubeka uthetha nomntwana, ngokukhawuleza kuya kufumana izinga eliphezulu lokuphuhliswa kwengqondo. Ngoko ke, musa ukumxelela nje ngoko kwenzekayo, kodwa uqhube nencoko.
Izinto zokunyamekela, ukondla kunye nemidlalo
Ekubeni umntwana unomdla kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo kuye, zama ukwenza ezinye iimeko eziqhelekileyo ezinomdla.
- Ukuhlamba kunye nokuhlamba imihla ngemihla kuya kuba ngumdlalo, ukuxelela iingqungquthela zengane okanye ukucula iingoma.
- Ukususela ebuthongweni bemini kuseyona nto ebalulekileyo kwimihla ngemihla, zama ukuqiniseka ukuba umntwana uhlala ngokusemandleni akho ngeli xesha kwaye akukho nxushunxuswane ephazamisayo.
- Qala ukufundisa umntwana ukuba enze umyalelo endlwini. Emva kokudlala neemoto zakho ezizithandayo okanye iibhola, mfundisa ukuba abeke kwindawo ethile. Enyanisweni, okokuqala kufuneka uyenze ngokwakho, ukunika nje ithuba lokugcina izenzo zakho. Kamva unokucelwa uncedo aze akholelwe, uya kuvuma ukuba avume ukwenza ezi zinto ezitsha kuye.
- Ngokuphathelele isondlo, umntwana usoloko unqunywe kwiinyanga ezili-10 ubudala, kodwa ukuba wayedla ukufumana iifom zebisi, angasindiswa njengesidlo esinye okanye ezimbini. Nangona kunjalo, ininzi yesondlo iya kuba neengqolowa, imifuno ebilisiwe, inyama kunye neziqhamo.
- Ukulala ubusuku kuya kuba khona. Kwabanye, kunele ukulala ngosuku kuphela, ukushiya lonke ixesha lokudlala kunye nophuhliso. Abanye bangakwazi ukuhamba kabini. Nangona kunjalo, urhulumente wolu suku kufuneka luyilwe ngendlela enokuthi ichithe umntwana kwisitrato ubuncinane kwieyure ezimbini.
- Ngexa uhlalisa umntwana, zama ukushiya yodwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokudlala yedwa kwibala lemidlalo, kodwa ekuphuculeni kusengcono ukumbandakanya ekudlala umdlalo nonina. Okumangalisayo kukuba, nokuba ucoceko lwangaphambili lungabonwabalala kakhulu umntwana kwaye uncede unina.