Yaye ke zonke ezi zintla zingentla zivumeleke, ngokwenene, zininzi zeengxaki iintsana ezifikelela kunyaka, umntu unokukwazi ukujamelana nokunyamekela ngokufanelekileyo komntwana, kuquka nokuncelisa, ukulala kwezingane eziphilileyo, ukuhamba ngaphandle, ukuxilisa kunye neentsana ze-gymnastics. Iintsuku zokuqala ezingama-365 zobomi bomntwana azikho nto: oogqirha bezilwanyana bayabiza ubudala begolide, ngeli xesha ixesha lomntwana liyi "gutta-percha" ngokuqinisekileyo - ukuphendula ngokubonga kuzo zonke iinzame ezenzelwe ukuphucula impilo yakhe kunye nemeko yempilo.
Iindwendwe ezisemzini
Usana luzalwa, kwaye umama omncinane ulindele ukuqala ukumangaliswa: akafani ngokufanayo njengoko wayekulindele. Nangona ubumnandi nolonwabo, umntu akanakunceda kodwa uqaphele ukuba intsana ayibonakali njengomfanekiso wepopu e-pink-cheeked evela kwintengiso. Unentloko enkulu, xa kuthelekiswa nomzimba, ulusu luyakubomvu, lubomvu okanye luphuzi (ngenxa ye-jaundice yokuqala). Ingane ibonakala njengomfokazi okanye umfokazi ovela kumazwe akude. Musa ukoyika. Nika umntwana ixesha lokuba ahlale emhlabeni wethu. I-jaundice iya kudlulayo, ubomvu bugqithise, intloko iya kugqitywa ibe ngumzimba. Umntwana uya kuqala ukufumana ubunzima, ukumomotheka, agukat, ukufuduka ngenkuthalo kwaye kungekudala uzakufumana umfanekiso welo ngelosi ekhuphayo evela kwiphepha lephepha. Kwaye uncede kulo, kunjalo.
Ndithande, njengoko ndikuthandayo!
Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana athethe aze afunde ukubiza amagama, iilalbhiliki okanye ukubonakalisa nje impawu ezithandayo, indlela kuphela yokuthetha nehlabathi kuye iyakhala. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana usenza umama azi ukuba ufuna into ethile. Kodwa yintoni kanye, ayinakucaciswa. Okokuqala, i-crumb inokulamba. Ukukhala kungabangela ukukhathazeka ngokwenyama: kumanzi, ungakhathazeki, ukrakra ngokukrakra. Esinye isizathu sokubonga iintsana kukungabikho komama osondeleyo. Yaye apho uyenzayo, akucaci! Ngoko kufuneka ucele umnxeba wakhe. Ngexesha elide, uya kufunda ukuziva umntanakho, uqonde oko kulahlekileyo kulo mzuzwana. Oku kuthiwa ukukhonkxa-ukukhonkco okungabonakali phakathi koomama nomntwana, ukumvumela ukuba amqonde ukusuka kwisiqingatha-magama aze azive kukude. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufunde kangakanani kwaye uphakeme kwizinga lezenhlalakahle ungubani, kwilizwe lomntwana wakho umntwana, ungazixhatshazwa njengaloo mama ongenayo imfundo okanye izikhundla. Ndiza kuthetha ngakumbi, ngamanye amaxesha zonke ezi "ziganeko ezikhoyo" zancedo, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, zinqanda umama ukuba angene kumntwana wakhe.Kuqhelekile ukuba acinge ngengqiqo, kunzima ukuba "aphephe" ingqondo yakhe aze ahambe ngeengqondo zakhe. Kwaye ufuna nje oku. Ukhohlwe malunga "noonomhla" kwaye ubuyele kwilizwe elidala. Ookhokho bethu basemazulwini abazange bacinge ukuba ngaba bawabele abantwana, nokuba babeke abantwana babo ukuba balele, nokuba bawuthwale kwizandla zabo, bengabi ukwesaba ukuwucutha. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana uyazibona unina njengengxenye yakhe. Uzalelwa ukuba uya kubelelwa aze ahlale ephethe iingalo zakhe. Kucacile ukuba oku kungaphikisana neminqweno yakho. Akubona bonke abafuna ukunyusa, kungekhona wonke umntu onokufumana i-lactation, engathethi ukuba iqabane ngalinye ongabunyamezeliyo kwi zabo isilili somtshato, "lesithathu", nokuba uya kuba yindlamafa wakhe. Akukho mntu unokukunqanda ukuba wenze njengoko ubona kufanelekile. Yiphulaphula intliziyo yakho kwaye wenze njengoko ithetha. Kodwa yazi ukuba imvelo yendalo (ukuncelisa, ukulala kunye, ukugqoka ezandleni zakho) kuya kukunceda ukuphepha ubunzima obuninzi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba sihlobisa njani isikhalazo somntwana kunye ne-ruffles kunye ne-canopies, kwaye kufuphi noMama umntwana usalokhu ulala ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye ulala ngokulula. Kwaye inkcazo yale nto ilula. Umama osondele kufuphi, ukuvumba komzimba kamama, ukunqabisa intliziyo yakhe - konke kuyaqhelana naye, oku kuthetha ukuba konke kulungile, yonke into isendaweni, umntwana uyathula. Ukongeza, emva kokulamba, uqala ukububula ephupheni kwaye, xa ekuva oko, unina unika ngokukhawuleza ukuba uncelise ubisi, ngaphandle kokulinda ukuba akhale. Ngoxa ukulala ngokwahlukileyo kuya kufuneka kudibene, ukuze umama ave aze eze. Xa umama ehlala ekhona, kwaye umntwana uyonwabile ukuqiniseka ngothando lwakhe kunoma yimuphi umzuzwana, inkqubo yokulungelelanisa kwihlabathi lethu kunye namava okuxinwa kokuzalwa afunyanwa yiintsana zonke ezisanda kuzalwa zilula. Kukho inkolelo yokuba ukukhala komntwana, ongekho inyanga nesiqingatha, ayixhunyiwe kakhulu kunye nezizathu zomzimba njengokwesaba into entsha engaziwayo, into ebonakala ngathi ihlabathi lethu. "Iimbilini" zithintela yonke into, kwanomlinganiselo wokuphuhliswa komntwana kunye nokufumana ubunzima.
Mma ngaliso
Kwiinyanga ezili-9, umntwana wayesezindaweni eziqinileyo, kwaye malunga nesiqingatha salo xesha "washukuthela" khona encinci. "Ukungahambi kakuhle kunye nobuthakathaka bezihlunu kubangela ukuba iintsana ezininzi zihlushwa yi-hypertonic okanye hypotonic muscle." Uxinzelelo lweengalo kunye nemilenze ngumzekelo , xa ungeke ukwazi ukuvula intendana yesantya, isoloko ixinyiwe kwikham, kwaye iingalo kunye nemilenze i-half-bent.Hypotonus nayo ibonakala yimisipha yomzimba .Kongezelela, umntwana uzalwe ngokupheleleyo engaphelelanga ubomi ngaphandle kwesisu somama, kwaye ngokwenene kusondele Uneninzi yokufunda kwaye, ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, ukuba abe nomzimba wakhe, okokuqala, i-crumb iyakubamba intloko, ngoko uya kufunda ukuhlala, ukukhahlela, ukuguquka ukusuka emhlane ukuya emzimbeni, uhambe ... Imizimba yakhe kufuneka ibe namandla, kwaye baya kuncedwa ngokuxutywa kunye i-gymnastics, i-massage yamabele ingasebenzisa izinto ezimangalisayo.Siye sathetha malunga nokunyuka okanye ukunciphisa i-tone ye-muscle, kwaye oku unako ukongeza iingxaki ezifana ne-hypoplasia yezihlanganisi ze-hip (imeko eqhelekileyo kwiintsana) kunye ne-torticollis. I-massage ye-massage ye-massage kufuneka iqhube i-massage. Nini? Kuxhomekeke kwimbono yengcali yakho yezilwanyana, owaziyo malunga nophuhliso lomntwana wakho. Njengomthetho, ikhosi yokuqala yokuhlalisa isisu kuyenziwa xa umntwana eguqula inyanga eli-1 ubudala. Emva koko banokuphindwa rhoqo emva kweenyanga ezintathu. Xa umema i-masseuse okokuqala, mcele ukuba akufundise izinto ezilula eziza kuyenza nomntwana nsuku zonke: ukubetha, ukukhanya okulula kokubhala kunye nemilenze, umzekelo. Ukuba umntwana uzalwe nge-hypoplasia yezihlanganisi ze-hip, musa ukuchitha ixesha. Inyaniso yokuba kwiiveki zokuqala emva kokuzalwa komntwana inokusombululwa ngokuzilolonga nokuzihlaziya, ngoko kupheliswa ngendlela ephilileyo kakhulu-ngokusebenzisa ivili elilungisa imilenze ye-crumb kwindawo ethile.
Beka umntwana emva kwaye uzame ukuhlamba amadolo akhe eguqa ngamadolo. Ukuba "abavuli" ngokufana netafile eguqukayo, abayikuvulwa kuze kube sekupheleni, i-masseuse ngokuqinisekileyo iya kukucebisa ukuba usebenzise "i-Frog" (intshukumo yamadolo eguqa ngamadolo) okanye "I-Butterfly" xa uzama ukuguqa ngobumnene kwaye uhlaziye imilenze yamanqatha (afana namaphiko ibhabhathane), njengoko ivumela ukuba, kwaye ukuba uhamba kunye neeseshoni zokuxilisa okanye i-gymnastics ngeemvumi ezonwabileyo, oku kuya kuba ngumsebenzi wokwenene ophuhliso.
Masihambe sibhukude
Ngokukhawuleza xa ufika kunye nesibhedlele esibhedlele, uya kuba neyokuqala yokuhlamba. Kwixesha elizayo, uya kwenza le mini, ngokuphindaphindiweyo - ubusuku bonke, ngaphambi kokutya kokugqibela nobusuku bokulala. Kwaye akusiyo kuphela inkqubo yokucoceka. Njengoko ugogo wayesethetha ukuba, "Xa ubhukuda, iintsana zikhula." Akunakukwazi ukuba ngumzimba wakhe, umntwana ufumana i-catharsis yangempela ngexesha leenkqubo zamanzi - umzimba wakhe uphinde uhlambele, ulusu (kuze kube yilapho i-sweaty glands yintsana imiselwe ngokupheleleyo, isikhumba sithatha umsebenzi weyona nto iyasebenza ukuhlukana komzimba) kucacisiwe, kwaye ingqondo iyancipha. Ubhubhe lunceda umncinci omncinci ukulala ebusuku kwaye uguqule kwiimidlalo ezisebenzayo ukuya kwixesha lokuphumla elithulileyo. Ulungelelanise, ulungele ukudla kwaye uye kwiingalo ezinamandla zikaMorpheus.
Ukuhamba!
Umoya omtsha kakhulu inxalenye yendlela yokuphila enempilo njengondlo lwendalo kunye nobuthongo obuhle. Ukuhamba emoyeni omtsha ngunyaka wokuqala wobomi buya kuba lukhulu kwaye kaninzi. Yonke into iqala ukusuka kwi-10-15 imizuzu okokuqala. Kancinci ubude behamba buya kwanda, kufinyelela iiyure ezimbalwa 1-2 ngosuku. Abanye oomama abafuni ukuphuma nabantwana abatsha. Kwaye akukho bani uya kukugweba. Yenza njengoko ucinga ukuba kulungile kwaye kuba kuya kukhululeka ngakumbi wena kunye nosana lwakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukukhishwa kokungabikho emsebenzini okokuqala kubangelwa kukuba umzimba womama ufuna ukubuyisela ekuzalweni kwakhe, uvakalelwa kukuba akanakulungele okanye akaqinisekanga ngokunyanisekileyo kwindoda yakhe entsha njengomama, kwaye ukukhumbula okufutshane kumnceda ukuba abuye abuye abuye abuye abuye aphethwe ngokwengqondo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ungavumi ukubeka isithuthi somntwana kwi-balcony. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uhlambulula njani indlu, umoya omtsha usa "uphilile" - kungekhona njengothuli kwaye unomile njengoko kudla njalo kumakhaya ethu .Ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, ungahambi ngasemahlanjeni. , okanye uzame ukuyilungisa ngokukhawuleza njengoko kunokwenzeka.Kwokuqala ukusikwa kwesikhumba, umntwana unokucela isifuba ikhefu iyure okanye ngaphezulu. Ngoko ke, kufuneka anikezwe ukufikelela ngokusisigxina esifubeni. Ukuba awufuni ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke indlu, njalo ukhaba "umntwana ukuya ekhaya, fumana i-slime UThixo. Ndiyabulela kuye, i-crumb iya kuhlala isondele kuwe, nto leyo ithetha ukuba akukho nto ibangela ukuba uxhalabele. Ngaphandle koko, unako ukuthambela umntwana kwisifuba sakho, ehlanganiswe ngendwangu. Ingane iya kukhula ngokukrazula kunye nemida. Yaye iya kuba yindlela yokulala engaphantsi kweyona ndlela, kwaye unomdla ngakumbi kwihlabathi elikujikelezayo. Ngoko ukuhamba ukusuka kwisiganeko sezempilo kuya ekugqibeleni kuya kuba ngumsebenzi wophuhliso okanye isizathu sokuzonwabisa okuzonwabisa. Kukho izinto ezinomdla ezitratweni! Kwaye unyaka unako ixesha elininzi!