Yintoni ongayithengi intsha

Bonke abazali bafuna ukunika umntwana wabo ubushushu, uthando nokunyamekela. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukukhathazeka kukhula kum megalomania, ngokokuba umntwana wakhe unakho konke okufunekayo nangakumbi. Abazali bexesha elizayo baqala ukuthenga yonke ivenkile ngempahla yomntwana. Ngenxa yoko, izinto ezininzi zihlala zingekaze zisebenzise. Makhe sibone oko akufanele kuthengiweyo kusana olutsha kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, luya kulungelelanisa.
Masiqale nge mvulophu yokuqala. Wonke umntu uyaqiniseka ukuba kuyimfuneko nje, kodwa akunjalo. Kuze uqiniseke, awuyi kuqiniseka. Ukuba umntwana ubonakala ehlotyeni, ngoko unokwenza ngengubo enhle yokukhanya. Ukuba umntwana wazalwa ebusika, kukho izikhuphelo ezivuthayo. Baya kuba luncedo ixesha elide, inkunzi iya kugqoka i-jumpsuit kwixesha elibandayo ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu. Ngexabiso alifani naliphi na imvulophu evamile. Uya kuphumelela kuphela. Lo ngowokuqala.

Okwesibini yi-diapers. Apha bafuna uninzi, kuba inyane lihlala liphosa kwaye likhwehlela. Akayi kugula yonke imini kwi-diaper, kubo kuphela ingozi, isikhumba sikhupha, sibomvu, umntwana uyabuhlungu kwaye akhala, kwaye ucinga ukuba kuya kwenzeka kuye. Ngoko ungazitshutshisi okanye usana lwakho, sithengise kwiindawo zokukhala.

Okwesithathu iinqununu. Bafuna ubuncinci abathathu. Kubalulekile ukuthenga okunjalo ukuba zivaliwe zivaliwe, ngaphandle koko umntwana oza kuzalwa uya kuzihlola. Nangona unesiqinisekiso sokuthi unqumle ama-marigolds, uya kufumana indlela yokukhangela ubuso bakhe. Kuloo zhenogti zikhula njengemvubelo. Umntwana kunyaka wokuqala wobomi uya kukhula ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba uthengela i-raspashonok eninzi, ungabi naso ixesha lokuba u-rassnadet nabo sele bebancinane. Ukuchitha imali.

Akuyimfuneko ukuthenga amayeza amaninzi kwi-pharmacy. Eyona nto isisiseko: ukusuka kwi-colic kwisisu, i-otemperatury, i-powder-powder ukuze igcobe isikhumba esikhanyayo. Ukucoca impumlo kulungile ukusebenzisa i-aquamaris. Ukwaziswa ngabo bonke abantwana besifo sezingane. Iimpawu ze-Nasal zisencinci kakhulu, zivalelwa ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ziyacocwa ngeengxaki. Le ngxube ingcwatywe kwikhosi nganye. Emva kwemizuzu eyi-10, impumlo iyacinywa. Elula kakhulu.

Ukuhlamba kuhlamba, akudingeki ukuba uthabathe i-shampoos, i-gels nezinye izinto ezingenangqondo. Kungcono ukuthatha izityalo ezinqabileyo kwiifama. Umzekelo, i-mint, i-chamomile, i-wisdom. Yongeza kubo kwibhedi. Umntwana uya kuzincama kwaye ulungele ukulala.

Ibhebha yokuhlamba ibhetele ukuthenga. Kunoko, kungcono umntwana ukuba athenge isangqa entanyeni yakhe. Usana luya kuba lunomdla ngakumbi, kodwa lukhuselekile ngakumbi. Unokuthi uhlale usondele kwaye ulawule, kungekhona ukugcina kwaye uloyike, njengokungathi umntwana akachitheli amanzi ezindlebeni.

Awudingi ukuthenga ummangaliso wakho kumathoyizi amaninzi. Akakuqondi oko. Usenabo kunye nokuba bangaphi babo. Ngexa umntwana ephuhliswa kakuhle, akayi kudlala, amathoyizi akayi kutsala ingqalelo. Kodwa njengoko ukhula, unomdla kwizinto ezikhanyayo kunye ezintsha. Ngalesi sikhathi, amaqhosha afanelekileyo kwaye ayimfuneko. Kodwa konke ukumodareyitha, ungathengi iziqwenga eziyi-100. Elingene 2-3. Umntwana ukhula ngokukhawuleza, awuyi kuqaphela indlela eli xesha sele lidlula ngayo, isinyathelo esilandelayo sesifikile.

Ezi zipasiso ezincinci ababaninzi abaselula nabangenalwazi abazenzayo. Ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba ngoncedo lwezibambiso, kodwa ngokungazimeli, umama ugijimela kwisitoretheni ukuze athethe izicathulo, ngokuqhelekileyo athatha ubukhulu obukhulu. Kwaye xa umntwana ehamba yedwa, izicathulo zibaluleke kakhulu. Ihlazo, inkunkuma yemali.

Eli nqaku lijoliswe ekukhuseleni abazali bexesha elizayo kwiimpazamo, nangona kunjalo, kodwa ubuncinane. Yonke into iza namava.

Vumela abantwana baqine, banempilo kwaye banwabile!