Ulwalamano olubhekiselele kwicala, okwenza ngamanye amaxesha litsalane amadoda kakhulu, liyingxenye encinci yezinto zonke ezenzekayo ebomini bakhe. Ngako oko, ngokuqhelekileyo ekukhethweni "umfazi ogulayo okanye inkosikazi enempilo" unqoba ngqo umfazi.
Isibini esisisigxina sinamandla kuneyona engafanelekanga - esi sidima sithandwa ngabantu bonke. Kodwa kula mabhinqa asemthethweni akulula ...
Ixesha eliyingozi
Abaninzi abasetyhini bayaqaphela, amadoda atshintsha amaxesha. Ngokungafani nathi, abasetyhini, amadoda angakwazi ukujamelana ngokulula "kumabini amabini." Ekugqibeleni, bona, ngokungafani nathi, abazihlambululi amadoda amabini, kwaye iimfuno zesondo, njengomthetho, zanele bobabini abasetyhini.
Bathi amadoda ayatshintsha kuphela umzimba, kunye nabasetyhini ngomphefumlo, kwaye ukusuka kulo mbandela onobugwenxa kuthathwa njengento engenakunqwenela. Ngengozi! Amadoda isithembu, oku kuthetha ukuba bayabathanda ngobubele abesibini abafazi. Kwaye kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba uthando olutsha, okokuqala, kungekhona ngonaphakade, kwaye okwesibini, akuthethi ukuba lo mntu uyeka ukuthanda. Mhlawumbi unako ukushiya umfazi wakhe, ukuba uya kugula ixesha elide kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo. Kodwa ukuba iimvakalelo zinyanisekileyo, le "bastard kunye nesidlo" sinokufumana induduzo kwintombi yakhe kwaye ngexesha elifanayo lixhasa umfazi wakhe womthetho.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, izinto zokuzilibazisa zabantu zivela kwixesha. Oku kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumnotho, usongelo lokudandatheka kunye nokuhamba kwizinto eziyinyani, okanye ngokuphambene nenye-indlela yokubhenela, ukubonisa phambi komfazi ongaziwayo. Umfazi uyazi indlela anikwe ngayo impumelelo kwaye kufuneka kwenziwe umgudu omkhulu ukufezekisa. "Umbonisi wesithathu", oba yinkosikazi-ithuba elihle kakhulu lokubambelela ngaphandle kwesondo sesifuba kunye ne-pokakarekat yonke inkukhu yenkukhu.
- Ozelwe kuqala
Ngokuqinisekileyo eyona nto iyingozi kwaye isigaba sokuqala, xa indoda ichithwa phakathi komfazi "ogulayo" okanye inkosikazi enempilo, ukhulelwe kunye nokubeletha. Inyibiliko yokuqala kwisisu, umfazi uba ngumntu ongenamdla ... Uqala ukuqonda ukuba akayi kuhamba naphi na, kwaye emva kweenyanga-ubusuku bokulala nobomi. I-Bytovuha intonga, ihlala kumacala onke. Ndingathanda ukubuyela ekhaya ndize ndikhulule-ke, hayi, kukhwaza i-monster encinci, apho inkosikazi inika yonke ingqalelo nayo yonke amandla ...
Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntu waphupha kangakanani, waphazamisa uxolo kunye nokuthuthuzela, ukunyamekela kunye nokubonakalisa okungaqhelekanga "ubudlelwane" obunqamlekileyo, usemkhwelisa ekhaya, kwindlalifa ...
- Siyazi kakuhle ngentliziyo
Ixesha elilukhuni elilandelayo, xa umntu engakwazi ukukhetha ukuba ngubani ozokhethayo - umfazi ogulayo okanye inkosikazi enempilo, uneminyaka yobudala. Izindlu ziye zodwa kwaye zifana, kwaye ", zasendle" - Yena. Unempilo, unomdla, uhlala ujabule ukumbona, kwaye uhlala utyhafile ngesifiso sesini (njengoko kubonakala kuye).
Yintoni egcina amadoda ajikeleze abafazi bawo abagulayo, okanye inkosikazi enempilo-akuyiyo yonke into ayifunayo? Mhlawumbi uhlamba iisokisi okanye i-borscht, abantwana, izindlalifa okanye "uluvo loluntu"? Ngaphandle. Umzi? Ngoko imikhwa kulula ukuyitshintsha.
Buza indoda - kodwa ingcono umyeni wakho. Thetha nabanye abahamba ngeendlela ezingaqhelekanga okanye abahlobo abadala. Ngokuqinisekileyo baya kukwazi ukuthabatha izalathisi ezifanelekileyo kwaye bachaze indlela ivela ngayo-iya "ngakwesobunxele", ubuya njenge-boomerang, ehlala ekhaya.
Ubudlelwane bavavanyelwa ngamandla
Ukuba uthembeke ngokupheleleyo kuwe, enyanisweni, nokuba umfazi ogulayo kakhulu ungcono kunomthandi ophilileyo. Olu lwalamano luye lwavavanywa ngexesha. Unombulelo. Ungunina wabantwana bakhe. Bonke bafumana ubunzima kunye namaxesha anzima. Ngaba ngaba "omnye" umfazi uya kuma, nangona ayenomdla kwaye ethandekayo, athile? Ngaba akayi kumngcatsha ngexesha elibaluleke kakhulu?
Kwaye nokuba ngaba bobabini busa ngokuvisisana ngokugqithiseleyo - bathi, bafunda njengencwadi evulekile-oku kungaba sisizathu sokuya ngakwesobunxele. Kodwa ukuqhubela phambili ubudlelwane bomntu uya kuba kunye nalowo othembele ngekhulu leepesenti. Yaye ngubani na, kodwa engenguye umfazi? Ngenxa yakhe, wazama ukwenza isenzo esibi kakhulu - wabeka isitampu kwipasipoti yakhe, ngokusemthethweni ubuhlobo.
Ukukhangela omnye ngonaphakade
Kwiyiphi na ibini, nangona yena kunye neentlondi zabo "phambi kohlaza okwesibhakabhaka emehlweni," abantu banelisa iimfuno zabo zengqondo. Kuyinkosikazi unokuza ufikelele okanye ulandelelanise, nadraennym ukukhanya. Ngaloo mfuneko ukuba ube yinto encinci ngayo yonke ixesha - kwaye iyakhathaza.
Ewe, umfazi ogula ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukunyamekelwa, oweva ilizwi elisinikwa ebusheni bakhe, kwaye ugweme ukusetyenziswa kweekhabhinethi zomzimba njengomlilo (yonke into ibiza kakhulu!) Ngaba iprose of life. Ndifuna izibongo, kodwa awuyi kuyidla.
Ngoko kuvela ukuba bakhetha indawo apho kulula ukuyisebenzisa khona, apho unokukhululeka khona. Ukuhamba ekhaya ngokuzilolonga, kwaye ngeveki ukuphuza ubhiya phambi kweTV. Kule nto ibaluleke kakhulu ukuba inkosikazi kungekudala okanye ihlala "i-overboard".