Imigaqo eyisiseko yokunxibelelana namadoda

Ukuze ndichazele kuwe, dadewethu, imithetho esemqoka yokunxibelelana namadoda, ndiya kukuxelela ibali malunga nesiqithi apho izizwe ezimbini zihlala khona. Owokuqala isizwe samaqhawe amahle ahamba ngesiqithi esiya kwisiqithi ukuba alethe ezintliziyweni zabantu abemi ukukhanya kothando, ukulunga nokukholwa.

Nangona kunjalo, amaqhawe afunyanwe kwisiqithi kuphela asisihlambulukanga kunye nesizwe esinomfutho wezinto ezizikhuselekileyo, iintliziyo zabo zaqhuba indlela enzima kakhulu. Le ndlela ngesizathu esithile yaphuma emlonyeni, yabuyela kwisisu, njengabanqabileyo abaqhekekileyo. Ubunzima bamaqhawe, indlela eya entliziyweni evela kwamehlo kunye neendlebe ngqo entliziyweni, yayihluke kakhulu kumthonyama.

Amagorha abizwa ngokuba ngamadoda, kuba ukudibanisana naye kubangela ubunzima obuninzi kwaye kwafuna isibindi esikhulu. Kwaye amadoda anamandla angamaqhawe abizwa ngokuba ngabafazi. Oko kwakuthetha ngolwimi lwabo lwe-barbar, amaqhawe anqumanga ukungalingani, kwaye aqala ukufunda iilwimi, imikhwa kunye nenkcubeko yabantu.

Emva kokubona abameli abaningana besizwe, abaqhawe baqulunqa ukungabikho kwenkcubeko. Emva koko, ekufumaneni ukuba amadoda aphelelane nemikhwa efanayo, abaqhawe baqoshwe ngelitye uluhlu olude lwale migaqo. Imimiselo eyimfuneko, umzekelo, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezandi eziveliswa ngexesha lokulala (ebizwa ngokuba yi-snoring), ngelixa udla (ukuxhamla), emva kokutya (uterine sound), ngenxa yobuncwane obungabhalwanga). Kwakukho nemikhwa emihle yokuphosa iibhokhwe, iiklabhu, i-stick-diggers kunye nezinye izinto ezisemgangathweni kwiinkampu zeentlanga, zilandelwa ngumkhwa wokunyuka ngokukhawuleza ekukhangekeni kwezinto ezikhankanyiweyo, ukunikezela ngabanye abantu izinto zokulwa kunye nokuzilwela nomnini. Umkhwa oqhelekileyo wamagorha waqatshelwa njengongenakudityaniswa. Kwakuyimpawu malunga nabo bonke abameli besizwe somthonyama, kwaye emva kwengcamango yabantu abaqinileyo banquma ukuba injongo yalo mkhwa yinto ephilileyo, engathandekiyo nephikelelayo, eyapapashwa ngabantu.

Njengoko kwafunyaniswa, ulwimi lwabantu basekhaya, ngaphezu kwegama lezinto zemihla ngemihla, liqukethe amagama amane okanye amahlanu ayisiseko, kunye neziphumo ezivela kubo. La magama ahlala esetyenziswa ngabantu basekhaya, kwaye mhlawumbi babengenanto ethile, kodwa bajoliswe ekuqiniseni intsingiselo yento eshiwo. Eli qela lamagama ngamaqhawe libhalwa ngokuchanekileyo kwiluhlu lwesibini ilitye kwaye libizwa ngokuba ngumlingane ngesandi segama elisoloko lisetyenziswe kumazwi anjalo.

Ukuqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhagamshelwano lwamadoda ngaphakathi kweenkomo kwakulula kakhulu kwaye kubilisiwe kwiindidi ezininzi zokuziphatha. Uhlobo lomhlobo - amadoda amaninzi ahleli ejikelezileyo, atywala umbane ococekileyo kwiqonga, kwaye aphandana emagxeni. Ukususela ngamaxesha omnye wabemi ubeka ibinzana ekuzalweni, emva koko ezinye ziqhutywe ngeentambo zeezwi ezifana nokukhala. Uhlobo oluxhatshazelisayo-abantu abahlala phambili kunye nabashintshintshana amabinzana aqulethwe ngamazwi eqela leemikethi, ngelixa besenza ukunyuka kwamatye ukuya kwintshaba. Njengoko kwaphawulwa ngamagorha amabhinqa, la magama ayetshenziselwa uhlobo lokunxibelelwano lomhlobo, kodwa bavakaliswa ngetoni enye. Uhlobo olubi kakhulu lwendlela yokuziphatha lwabonakaliswa ngokulwa kwimibandela eyodwa, inye-ininzi kunye nobuninzi.

Njengomphumo wesifundo, amaqhawe awamisela imithetho eyintloko, ekufuneka ilandelwe ngokuthe ngqo, idibanisa namadoda, kwaye ibhalwe phantsi kwelitye lesithathu:

Ngoku, ukuba uqhelana nemigaqo eqhelekileyo yokunxibelelana namadoda, uya kuqonda indlela yokubamba, ugqithise umzila, udibanise kwaye usetyenzise epulazini njengento enqabileyo njengendoda.

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