Abanye bathambekele ekukholweni, bathi, kutheni umntu enomqondo wesitayela, kuba ukhangeleka kakuhle, ukwanele nje ukuba ugqoke kakuhle, uhlambuluke kwaye ugubuke kwizicathulo ezenziwe zihlangu. Kodwa umntu, njengowesifazane, ngumntu oqaqambileyo, ongekho mvelaphi kumbono wehlabathi, ukunambitha kunye nesimo sengqondo sakhe somntu. Yingakho loo mibono engabonakaliyo njengendoda kunye nesitayela yaba yintsikelelo ebalulekileyo kwindoda yindoda.
Ukuvakalelwa ngabanye
Okokuqala, ku funeka kuqatshelwe ukuba umntu wesimo sengqondo asigcini ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokucacileyo angabonisa izinto eziphambili ngokubhekiselele kumaphethini ezembatho, kodwa nokubonisa ihlabathi langaphakathi lomntu. Emva kokukhetha isitayela sakhe, indoda ayiyikuyiva nje kuphela, kodwa iphinda ihlalutye ngokwayo, ubuso, umbala weenwele kunye njalo. Kusekelwe kuphela kule data, ukhetha indlela yakhe kunye neyodwa, eya kuba yikhadi layo loshishino kuyo yonke into. Ikwaphawula kwakhona izinga lokuphendula ngohlobo lomsebenzi - umntu usebenza eofisini, kucacile ukuba akayi kubonakala ngomsebenzi kwiTekhthi kunye neemputshane. Ngoko, ukuphendula umbuzo: kutheni amadoda evakalelwa ngesimo sendlela, singaphendula ngokukhuselekileyo-ubuncinci ukuze singabonakali kwiimeko ezithile. Ewe, ngokungathí sina, ngamnye umntu ufanele abe nesimo sakhe, apho uya kugxininisa khona umntu, ubonise ubunzulu bakhe nobuchule.
Ubuninzi besitayela ekukhetheni iimpahla
Indoda enomdla obalaseleyo, soloko unake ingqalelo kwiimodeli zanamhlanje zembatho ezinomnqophiso ococekileyo kunye nombala. Xa ukhetha iingubo, kuhlale kukufanele ukuqwalasela iimpawu zomfanekiso, kwaye akusiyo i-squeak yokugqibela yefashoni. Ngoko ke, ukuba nombono wentleko, kulula kakhulu ukuba amadoda agxininise isidima sabo ngeengubo kwaye azifihle zonke iimpazamo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unethamsanqa kulabo abanengcamango yongcamango kunye nesitayela esingenasisiseko, kuba abanakho ubunzima kwimigqalwa embalwa ukuba baziphendulele kwisitayela sangempela. Kodwa ukuba le ntliziyo ayikho, iyakwazi ukuphuhliswa ngenxa yemigudu ende kunye nokusebenza kwakho. Into ephambili apha ngumnqweno womntu, kuba inyaniso ithi umntu unokufunda yonke into.
Kubaluleke kakhulu xa ukhetha uhlobo lwakho lwezambatho, khumbula ngeemvakalelo ezingundoqo ezifana nomoya wokuvumba, ukubona, ukuva, ukunambitheka kunye neengqondo. Ukukhokelwa yile mvakalelo, unokwenza umgudu ukudala umfanekiso wakho kwaye uphucule lo mqondo wesitayela.
Ukongezelela ekukhetheni iimpahla, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zihle kwaye zifake imfashini, umntu onomqondo ophuculwe kakuhle wesitayela angaqheleka lula kwiindawo ezikhethiweyo. Izixhobo ezikhethiweyo ezikhethekileyo, ngakumbi izicathulo, kufuneka zidale umntu wesimboli somntu okhuseleyo kunye onempumelelo. Ikhethwe ngokukhethekileyo izinto ezikhethekileyo-esi sibonakaliso esiphezulu sokuchuma nokuzithemba. Kodwa izixhobo ezifana neehokethi, iifotyi zentamo, izibopheko, izikhwila, iiglavu, isikhwama, ibhande, ukubuka kunye nokunye, kwisitayela esifanelekileyo samadoda rhoqo sigxininisa iprotrate kunye nokucocwa, ngaphandle kobuchule obungaphezulu.
Ukuvakalelwa kwesitayela kuyimfuneko kumntu nangona ukhetha amanzi angasese. Kumele kube yinto epholileyo, ingabethwa, iyabiza, ingabi yintlone kwaye ilahlwe. Kwakhona, umqondo wesitayela uquka umlinganiselo wenani, osebenza ngokuthe ngqo ekusebenziseni i-perfume. Kukho amadoda, ukusuka entloko ukuya enyaweni, afana nokuzithululela ngeqhumiso, ngoko-ke akunakulinganiseki ukuba kufuphi nabo. U-eau de toilette ngumgca wokugqiba isitayela somntu, kwaye ukuba umntu uyisebenzise kakuhle, kubangela ukuba umntu abe nesimo sengqondo kunye nokuthembela kumntu wakhe.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ungacingi ukuba amadoda anengqiqo enomdla kunye nokukhathalela ngokubonakala kwawo abameli bezobugcisa bendabuko. Ngabo nje abameli bezesondo eziqinileyo abaziqonda ngokucacileyo intsingiselo yenkcazo yokuba bahlanganiselwe ngengubo ... Ngoko ke, baxhomekeke ngobuchule kwimifanekiso yabo indlela ekhethekileyo kunokuba bagxininise iimpawu zabo, izidima, amathuba kunye nokuvakaliswa ngokucacileyo: umqondo wesimo kufuneka ube ngowomntu wonke.