Abasetyhini, bafuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni amadoda adibana neendoda zabo eziphathekayo kunye nento engayenziyo ukuze balondoloze ubudlelwane kwaye bangahlaziswa?
Ukuba uyazi ngokunyaniseka kwakhe, into ebaluleke kakhulu xa ungaphenduli kwaye uvumele izinto zihambe ngokuhamba. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ngokusondeza isandla kule meko, isazela siya kuvusa indoda, kwaye iya kuphelisa ubudlelwane, ngoko uphosakeleyo. Ngokuphambene noko, akacingi ukuyeka yakhe inoveli.
Ukusoloko ubopha umntu-nangayiphi na into efanelekileyo-yindlela efanelekileyo yokungcatsha. Indoda inokunyamezela i-whims kunye nokunganeliseki, kodwa kungekudala nje ukuba ubaleke kuyo. Xa umda wakhe usuphelile, akafumananga indlela efanelekileyo yokuphuma kwimeko - uya kushiya intsapho okanye ukhokele inkosikazi.
Ufunde malunga nobuthixo kwaye wenza isigqibo-ukumvumela ukuba azenzele isigqibo. Kwaye ngelixa ekhetha ukuba ngubani ongcono, uya kulinda, kwaye akayi kuyenza i-scandals. I mpazamo! Indoda iya kuvuya kakhulu ngesigqibo sakho. Ngaphambili, kwafuneka afihle kuwe, kwaye ngoku wena ngokwakho uye wamvumela ukuba ahambe ehlwempu ukuya kwelinye ibhinqa. Uya kukuqinisekisa ukuba kunzima ukuba enze isigqibo, uya kuchitha ixesha elide. Kwaye ngaphandle kokuba umbeke phambi kokukhetha okunzima, kholwani mna, akayi kumshiya inkosikazi yakhe.
Indlela eyona mbi yokulwa nenkosikazi kukubeka ingcinezelo kwintlungu yendoda, ukuyihlambalaza phambi kobantwana. Bhala uze uzame ukumbonisa ukuba ngaphandle kwakhe wena nabantwana bakho abayi kukwazi ukuhlala. Ngale ndlela, awukwazi ukugcina indoda. Njengoko uqeqesho lubonisa, abantwana abavumi ukuba indoda ihambe.
Kutheni amadoda ekhangelelwe kwicala? Ubuhle, ukubonakala komthandi - aluhlali indima ekhethekileyo. Omnye umncinci - izicelo zenkosikazi ziphezulu kunokuba zowomfazi. Ngoko kutheni amadoda adibana nabo? Konke ngenxa yokuba akukho mbopheleleko kule nxulumano. Unokumthembisa iintaba zakhe zegolide zeentaba. Kodwa, njengoko bethetha, ukuba bathembisa, bengatshatanga.
Ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda adibana neendoda zabo zangaphambili, kubayini? Kutheni amadoda adibana neendoda zabo zangaphambili?
Kungenxa yokuba intombi yangaphambili, inkosikazi, sele iqhelene naye. Akuyi kuba nako ukunakekelwa, kwaye uchithe imizuzu ebalulekileyo. Inkosikazi yangaphambili sele idlulile isigaba, uyazi ukuba uyayithanda, uyazi ukuba ungumntu otshatileyo. Kwaye, ekubeni ehamba ukubuyela kumyeni wakho, uyavuma yonke imigaqo yalo mdlalo.
Amadoda adibana neengxaki zabo zangaphambili ukuze benze ubomi babo bube lula.
Uphendule umbuzo othi: "kutheni amadoda adibana neengxaki zabo zangaphambili", kukho inkcazelo. Kwindoda, elowo asemantombazana yakhe yintsapho kukuba yisoyisa. Ngoko ke, xa omnye wabantu bakhe bokuqala engena ezandleni zakhe, ukuzithemba komntu kuphakamisa umbane ngokukhawuleza. Kuye kuthetha ukuba ungumntu obalaseleyo owaziyo ukuvuyisa kunye nolonwabo kunoma yimuphi umfazi. Ukuba ubuyele kuye okanye akayikukhumbula ukuvuselela leveli, ke yena nguye - indoda engcono kakhulu.
Kubasetyhini, izinto zihlukile. Wonke umthandi wangaphambili uyisikhumbuzo sokuba into ayizange iphumelele ebomini. Umntu owayengumthandi ubungqina obuphilayo bokungaphumeleli kwakhe.
Abasetyhini, ukuba ufunde ngokunyaniseka, wafunda ukuba indoda yakho inomxholo kwicala - fumana amandla okutyhila umrhwebi ngomnyango. Okanye ufuna ukuqhubeka uhlala nomntu ongakuhloneliyo kwaye akayikuyiqonda yonke into?