Ingabonakaliswa yiminqweno okanye ihlambulukile? Ukuba ubuntombi bendoda, unokukhusela ngokuqinisekileyo ezi zibini. Enyanisweni, namhlanje inkolelo enjengokuthi "ubuntombi bendoda" ayinayo ingcaciso ecacileyo, nangona kunjalo, ngokufika kweendlela ezahlukeneyo zesini, kunzima ukuthetha ngubani owaziyo ngesondo - indoda esele ixhamle ngokufanayo kunye nomfazi okanye umntu owaziyo yonke into " ukungathintana "iindlela zokuphelisa ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo. Malunga nantoni engenazicathulo kunye nendlela yokuziphatha kakuhle nentombi kwaye iya kuxutyushwa ngezantsi.
Ubuntombi obusetyhini bufana nokuhlambululeka kwaye kunokukwenza ukhale ngokuvuya. Nangona ubuntombi bendoda, nangona kunjalo kwiintetho ngezesondo, ezijoliswe kubantu abatsha, oogqirha abazihlawulela ngokufanelekileyo. Yonke into iphela kuphela kwiingcebiso malunga nokukhulelwa. Kwi-Intanethi, unokufumana izibonelelo zeenkonzo ezivela kwiintombi, amadoda, kodwa intombazana-intombi zibiza kakhulu. Ubuntombi bendoda abuyikuthandwa, kuthethwa kunye nokuhlekwa usulu. Ngoko ke, abatsha abantu abangazi ngesondo, baziva bengaphelelanga, bezama ukukhawuleza ukulahla "i-ballast" yabo.
Ukuba ujongene nomfana okanye umntu oye walala ngesondo kuphela kwiingcamango zasendle kunye namaphupha ajabulisayo, kufuneka ukhumbule-kuba abantu abanjalo, okokuqala kubaluleke kakhulu. Kwaye kungenakucingela ukulungelelanisa kokubili ukudideka okuncinci kunye nokuphumelela okukhulu.
Kukulungile ukuba ngoku kwihlabathi lethu lolawulo lwentando yesininzi abantu bayazi kakuhle zonke iziqhelo zenkqubo. Ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba ucele umfana wakho ontombi ukuba angakhathazeki imibuzo kunye neentetho ngezocansi. Kodwa enye into inkolelo, kwaye enye enye into iyasebenza, impumelelo yayo kuxhomekeke kwimpilo yengqondo yomntu. Kwaye nokuba uyazi yonke into malunga ne-pistils kunye ne-stamens, inkqubo ye "pollen" inokuba nzima kuwe.
Ngendlela ...
E-Netherlands kukho isikolo esinceda amadoda ukuba athethe ubuntombi babo. Okokuqala bafundela kwi-theory ibhinqa labesetyhini. Kwaye kuphela xa umntu ekwazi ukuzincoma nokuzichukumisa ubuhle beqabane lakhe kwaye ngaphandle kokuzihlaziya ngokuzibonakalisa kwakhe kwisibuko-ke kukho utshintsho lokuziqhelanisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kuyenzeka ngokwalo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha phantsi kolawulo lweengcali.
Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zeentombi. Emva kokuba uzimisele uhlobo luni "olubanjwe", uyazi indlela yokuziphatha kakuhle nale ndoda.
Intombi enenhlamvu enkulu "D"
Olu hlobo lwenkwenkwe yenkwenkwe engaziwa ngesondo. Unelungelo lokubizwa ngokuba ngumntu onjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngaba ngabafana abaneminyaka engama-15-18, abanomgomo wokukrazula "ukunqongophala" kwabo ngokukhawuleza ukuze bakwazi ukuvakalelwa njengomntu omdala. Lo luhlobo lwesithintelo esahlukanisa inkwenkwe ukusuka ejob kunye nomntu osasa kusasa.
Amagqirha alolu hlobo anxulumene nobulili lula. Ngokuqhelekileyo bayazi ukuba benzani, nangona uhlazo oluthile lusekhona. Ewe, kungekhona ixesha elide. Ngolu hlobo kumfana akudingekile ukukhangela indlela efanelekileyo - nangayiphi na imeko uya kumnika oko akufunayo. Emva kwayo yonke, injongo yayo ephambili kukuba ukulahla ubuntombi. Umgaqo kuphela wokuba ungabamba. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba isenzo sakho sokulahlekelwa ubuntombi asizange sibe yinto nje yobugcisa, kodwa nesifundo sothando sinyani.
Intombi evela "kwezinye ihlabathi"
Uhlobo lothando, indoda leyo, ngendlela yakhe, inqabileyo ngobuntombi bakhe, njengento engabonakaliyo kwaye ibalulekile. Ubuntombi bakhe bunobutyebi benzelwe kuphela umfazi okhethekileyo. Abantu abanjalo abawamukeli le mqathango njengesiphene, kodwa njengesidima. Enyanisweni, njengamantombazana amaninzi, baphupha ngesondo sokuqala kwi-bed linen e-silk kwizandi zomculo weklasi.
Ukuba uye waba le ntombazana ekhethekileyo, efanelwe ubuncwane obunjalo - ungakhathazeki. Khawuvuyiswe nje emoyeni intombi yakho ethandekayo iya kudala yona. Wayecinga ngento yonke ixesha elide, wanyamezela isicatshulwa sale busuku iminyaka emininzi. Hlaziya kwaye uphumule ezandleni zombhali onolwazi owenzile le ndawo entliziyweni yakhe kwaye uyazi kakuhle indlela izinto ezifunekayo ngayo. Zama ukulawula izifiso zakho kunye neminqweno - lo bubusuku bakhe kwaye uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi imfundo ayifunayo. Into ephambili ekukhethileyo, kwaye oku kwimeko yoluhlobo lwabantu, lufanelekile kakhulu.
Intombi endala
Ngesizathu esinye okanye esinye, akazange afuneke, akaze amvumele umntu kuye. Ngenxa yokuba unamahloni angenangqondo okanye imfundo, ukubukeka okungathandekiyo okanye ezinye izinto eziphambili kwizinto zokuphila - konke oko kukhokelela ekugqibeleni inkwenkwe enkulu yenza inkathazo enkulu. Intombi elolo hlobo lubuhlungu.
Ngaphambi kokuba uchaze umntu onjalo yonke into evuyisayo yobomi bentlobano, kufuneka ube kunye kunye nokuphazamisa "idada eliqhenqa". Oku, kwindlela, kunzima kakhulu. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, mbonise ukuba awunamdla ngokupheleleyo kwimeko yakhe njengendoda enyulu, ukuba ayikuvuyi, ayiyikucasula okanye iyayethusa. Zama ukumnciphisa - unenkxalabo kwaye ukhathazekile. Yithi ngoku uhlangene, kwaye oku kuza kwenzeka. Ngamanye amaxesha, nje umntu okwenzekile emva kancinci ... kwaye kungcono ukuthetha kangako, kodwa yenza njalo. Uya kukubulela ngeminye imihla yakhe.
Intombi enesiphene esikhulu
Okanye isidima somntu. Okona kungaphezulu - ngokuxhatshazwa okanye ukulahleka kwekhangelo ngenxa yokungenelelo lwezokwelapha. Amava okuhlinzwa amancinci ebuntwaneni ngoku sele ephantsi kobunzima. Hayi, ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka ukuphepha ukulimala, ukuhlinzwa, unyango olude, emva koko abantu abaninzi ixesha abanakwenza oku, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abanako. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo bahlala bechanekile, basoloko besaba ukungaphumeleli, yingakho bezama ukuqala ubomi bobulili - akunakwanela ukuba ... Inkathazo yintombi enjalo (rhoqo ngokuncediswa ngugqirha) iyaba yinkxilongo - ndiyagula ngokwenene, kwaye ibe ngonaphakade.
Njengomthetho, amadoda e-macho alisoyikiyo intlungu, kodwa kungekhona xa efika kwiindawo zabo ezintle. Ubuhlungu bungasetyenziselwa amadoda afana nesithintelo kwisini. Luhlobo luni lovuyo olukhoyo xa kuziwa kukugaya amazinyo ngeentlungu? Kwaye nangona intlungu - kwixesha elidlulileyo, indoda ayiyi kuhlangabezana nokuloyika. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba akafuni ukulala ngesondo.
Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene umntu onjalo-yiba yizintlu. Musa ukukhawuleza, ungaqhubi kwaye ungayifundisi. Ukuba uthe wakuphathisa izifihlalelo ezithandana kakhulu, kufuneka ufune ukuthethelela le nto. Mxelele ukuba akukho sizathu sokukhathazeka ukuba awuyi kumlimaza, ukuba uyamthanda, ekugqibeleni. Uya kuba nombulelo omkhulu ngokuqonda kwakho nomonde. Ngaba kubalulekile ukuba ube nalo mntu? Makhe azive!
Intombi enamava athile
Kule meko, into enjenge-"half-deed". Lo ngumntu onolwazi lwexesha elidlulileyo. Akucaci oko kwenzekayo ngalo busuku obunomdla, kodwa abazange basebenze kunye neqabane langaphambili. Wafunga ukuba akayi kuphinda ... Futhi, ngokugweba kuba unawe ngoku, akazange agcine ilizwi lakhe. Lo mntu uya kuphepha zonke iindlela 'zokuhlaselwa' kwenyama yakhe. Oku kuya kuqhubeka ude eqinisekile ukuba ulungele ukumkela njengoko yena - engaphelelekanga, enqatshelwe kwaye ehlaziswa kanye. Kumele aqiniseke ukuba, xa kwenzeka ukungaphumeleli, awuyi kumguqula ngonaphakade okanye usule impumlo yakhe. Umsebenzi wakho kukuqinisekisa ukuba uthembekile kwaye ukulungele ukuba naye ekupheleni kwimeko apho. Ngaphandle kokungathandabuzeki - ukuphela kokuphumelela. Wena ngokwakho ufanele ukholwe kuyo!
Xa unethamsanqa ukuba "ugijime" kwintombi, ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kufumana izifundo ezingcono zothando, ububele kwaye uzive uxabiso lombulelo wakho. Ukumnceda ukuba anqobe ukwesaba kwakhe, intlungu, ukungaqiniseki, uya kubonisa ukuba ulungele ukuba kungekho enye inqanaba, kodwa umhlobo othembekileyo, iqabane onokuyithemba ngalo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokungathandabuzeki, ukulahleka kobuntombi kuvivinywa kakhulu kumntu. Khawuqwalasele oku ngaphambi kokuba ube ngumkhokeli kwihlabathi lezesondo. Umfazi onolwazi kunye nolumkileyo uhlale eziphatha ngokuchanekileyo-intombi iya kuba ngumntu ovuyisayo, ngokubulela kwaye iya kumnika ubusuku nobusuku ngokuthanda kwakhe.