Ukugqithisa komzimba yenye yeengxaki eziphambili kumantombazana amaninzi. Kwaye ukuba abanye abantu baziva ngenxa yokuba abazithandi, ezininzi iikhilogram ziye zaphazamiseka ngenxa yokuba abafazi abanjalo abathandeki kubafana. Yingakho abafazi bahlala becinga ukuba kutheni amadoda athande i-skinny?
Uloyiko lwenzalo enokwenzeka
Enyanisweni, umbuzo wembangela ukuba umntu uyakuthanda obuncinci, kukho iimpendulo eziliqela. Kodwa okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba amadoda ambalwa afana nabantu ababi. Abameli bezesondo ezinamandla ezinjengamantombazana ahlakaniphile anamanani amahle. Kodwa i-skinny, ene-physic dystrophic, ayithandwa ngabaninzi. Kodwa ke siza kubuya kumbuzo othi kungani amadoda ekhetha amantombazana enhle. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba unonophelo olupheleleyo kunabo bonke abantu abaselula. Kwaye amadoda amakhulu ayenzeka, ingqalelo ehlawulwayo kubameli besifazane abangaphezulu. Ngendlela, apha akuyimfuneko ukuba idideke kunye namantombazana azinqamlekileyo abazithobeli ngokupheleleyo. Nangona le ntombazana igcwele, kufuneka abe nomfanekiso, kungekhona iindawo zokunqatha, apho kungenakwenzeka ukudibanisa nantoni na. Xa beselula, amadoda athande abancinci abasetyhini, kuba bengazi kakuhle ukuba umfazi onjalo ongenalwazi, engakulungele ukuzala. Kwaye abantwana banesabisa abantu abaselula. Ngoko ke, ukhetha isikhumba, bayazikhusela ngokukhawuleza kwiingxaki. Xa abantu bebadala, banomnqweno wokuba neendlalifa, kunye nalo umnqweno wabafazi abaneefom ezongeziweyo.
Unqwenela ukuba yiqhawe
Esinye isizathu sokuba abantu bathande i-skinny yithuba lokuba bazive njengeqhawe elikubo. Vumelana, kuba akubona bonke abantu banamhlanje banokuziqhayisa ngamandla amakhulu kunye neembambano. Kwaye kunye nentombazana encinci neyincinci, phantse wonke umntu uza kubonakala njengento ephezulu. Ukongeza, amadoda afuna ukukhusela, ukukhusela nokuhamba ezandleni zamantombazana athandwayo. Abafazi abancinci abafana namakhosazana, okubangela ukuba umnqweno onqwenela ukuwamkela, ujikeleze ngononophelo kunye nokufudumala.
Muse, kungekhona i-jellyfish
Esinye isizathu sokuba amadoda akhethe amancinci ukuba adibeneyo kubundlobongela. Abantombazana abancinci banjengama-moths, banesisa, baguquguqukayo, bahlanjululwe. Kodwa abasetyhini abapheleleyo baya kukwazi ukuhlala kude. Kakade ke, ungacingi ukuba zonke iintombazana ezipheleleyo zixhamle kwaye zizinzi. Kulula nje ngesisindo - kunzima ukuba ube ngumakhalekhukhwini kunye neeplastiki. Nangona kungekho mntu uthi ezi mpawu azikwazi ukuphuhliswa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unako, kodwa akubona bonke abafazi abapheleleyo abafuna ukwenza ngokwabo kwindlela efanelekileyo. Kwaye emva koko, amadoda afuna ukubheka intombazana ukuba ibone i-fairy kunye ne-museum, ebonisa zonke izinto ezintle kweli hlabathi. Amanani amabhinqa e-skinny ahambelana ngokupheleleyo nemifanekiso enjalo yeenkosana zehlathi kunye neenkwenkwezi, ezibekwe ekuqaphelweni kwendoda yonke ebuntwaneni obunzulu. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba oku kudlala indima enkulu xa umntu eqala ukukhetha intombazana ebonakalayo. Abantu abaninzi baye baqhele ukuva ukususela ebuntwaneni ukuba amantombazana asemgangathweni "ayimifino efana neebhunge", aqala ukuqonda lo mfanekiso nje kuphela.
Nangona kunjalo, amantombazana amnandi akadingeki ukuba acinge ukuba bonke abantu bathanda kuphela. Enyanisweni, abantu abatsha banamdla okwehlukile. Yaye nangona ininzi yabo ikhetha amantombazana amancinci, kukho ezininzi abantu abazithandayo. Abafazi nje abayilibale ukuba, okokuqala, loo nto ibhinqa ngumfazi wayo. Ewe, ewe, enoba intombazana engatshatanga, kodwa eyincinci ibonakala ihle kakhulu. Kodwa okuchasene ngokupheleleyo, ngokuziphatha kwabo kubangelwa abantu. Ngoko ke, ukuba intombazana ihlushwa ngumbuzo othi kungani abafana bakhetha i-skinny, kwaye kungekhona kuye, mhlawumbi kufuneka nje acinge ngendlela yokuziphatha nokuzithoba. Ukuba intombazana epheleleyo ibukele, igqoke ngendlela efana nokufihla ukusilela kangangoko kunokwenzeka, uyakwazi ukuba ngumnene, iplastiki, ukukhanya, ngoko unako inani elikhulu kakhulu lokuba ngumntu.
Amadoda afana ne-skinny ngenxa yokuba ngokuyinxalenye le ngqungquthela yowesifazane ococekileyo walala phantsi kwasebuntwaneni. Nangona kunjalo, elo lonke ibhinqa elingumfazi ongokoqobo linokuhlala lichithe le miba.