Utywala
Kanye kunye nokuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi, le nto yenzondelelo enkulu, inokubulala umntu kuyo yonke into, kwaye unyanzelekile ukuba uzisole ngokukrakra ukuba xa udibanise i-destiny yakho ngotywala. Kodwa ukuzisa umcimbi kwimeko enjalo akufanelekanga. Yintoni oyenzayo?
1. "Utsho" inkampani apho umntu atywala utywala. Kuya kufuneka ukhuphe yonke into yakho yobulumko bentombi, ukuze - okokuqala-ukuhlala nayo kunye neminye imiba, ngokokuba wayengenalo ixesha lokunxila, kwaye okwesibini-ukumnyanzela ukuba ayeke "abahlobo" abaye bathatha isifuba ngokuphindaphindiweyo kanye ngeveki. Musa ukulibala ukuba utywala obunxilisayo awunaso konke ukhuselekileyo kunewayini okanye i-vodka. Ibhotile yebhiya yenyango yinyathelo lokuqala lokuxilisa, eliza phambili kunokuba umlutha kwiziphuzo ezinxilisayo.
2. Utywala buyisifo sokuzithemba, ukwesaba, ukunganeliseki ngobomi. "Dug" kwizinto ezibangela umnqweno "wokuphumla nokulibala", zama ukuzinqumla. Ngokuqhelekileyo banxulumene nokungaphumeleli kwindawo yokusebenzela, kwintsapho nangokulala.
3. Utywala njengesifo esiyintsikelelo siyingcali. Musa ukukholelwa! Ilifa lingadluliselwa kuphela kwiimpawu zobuntu ezenza ukuba iqabane lakho lityhale kwaye lisele. Le ngcaciso kufuneka ifakwe kumthandekayo ukuba uya kukuqinisekisa ukuba uyasela, kuba unina akazange alale ngaphandle kwesahlulo esihle, kwaye uyise akazange amile iinyanga.
4. Ungafungi naye konke - akunakunceda! Zama ukukholisa, ukukholisa, ekugqibeleni, ukuyikrakra. Ngenye indlela, akunakwenzeka ukuphelisa lo mkhuba owonakalisayo wabantu.
Umkhwa wokuhamba "kwesobunxele"
Ukuba loo mkhwa awukho khona, kodwa kubonakala nje kuwe ukuba indoda ilele kwaye ibona indlela yokutshintsha, musa ukulungiselela zonke izigcawu kunye nosongelo, kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba yena, uThixo akavumelani ... Abantu bavuselela izinto ezinjalo kwezo zihlandlo apho ukhangele khona, "kuya kuba yintoni", kwakucatshangwa njengomcimbi wohlonipho lwendoda. Ukuba ngaba kwenzeka ngaphambili, zama ukumchazela indlela engathandeki ngayo kuwe, kutheni, kwaye yiziphi iingcinga "ezimbi" ozifumanayo "ekuhambeni" kwakhe. Ungakhathazeki: hamba naye naphi na apho unako khona, phantsi kwesiphi na isizathu esicacileyo. Musa ukulungiselela amaqela amaninzi angama-hen kunye nabangane abangatshatanga ekhaya -kuba kutheni inkunzi "yindoda" kwisilingweni? Ngokuqhelekileyo udlala ngothando nomyeni wakhe - nawo onke amahlaya, amahlaya kunye "namaqhinga amabhinqa", ukuze angavavumi ukutshutshisa "kwi-prikole". Kwimeko yalomkhuba, iimpawu ezimbalwa, zibhetele. U-Skalki ezandleni zendodakazi edibana nommangalisa emnyango ekupheleni kobusuku, "yenza" kuphela kwiichungechunge zohlaziyo.
Umdlalo kunye nomlutha wekhompyutha
Isibetho sangethuba: indoda iya kubuya emsebenzini kwaye ihleli kwikhompyutha. Uhlobo olunxilisayo kubantu abangafuni "ukusela". Isenzo sokuxhomekeke kwikhompyutheni silinganiswa nefuthe lotywala: oku kungenye yeyona ndlela yingozi kakhulu yamadoda. Kutheni bekwenza oku? Ukuze "unqanyulwe" kwizinto ezizungezile, zihlukanise neengxaki, ukuxhalabisa, ukungaqiniseki, ukunganeliseki ngobomi. Qala nge nyaniso yokuba uhlala uthabatha ikhompyutha: khangela iimfuno, iingcebiso malunga nokukhulisa abantwana, njl. - ziza naziphi na izizathu zokuphelisa indlela yokuziphatha "yokutya iikhompyutheni-iphupha." "Sebenza" nomdlali oyifunayo, njengomntwana: ungavumeli, kwaye utshintshe ingqwalasela. Ngokuqhelekileyo hamba nomdlali wemidlalo emoyeni omtsha - iingcali zeengqondo ziye zaphawula: abadlala ingcakaza - abaxhamli bezhenketha bezulazula ezitrato, bahlaziye kwinkampani, baqhube "bengenanto". Ngaba kubi ukwenza ubusuku kunye nomthandi wakho? Khumbula kuphela ukuba ikhompyutha kufuneka igcinwe ngaphandle kwendlela - "ukudonsa" kuyo kuya kuba nzima.
Ukutshaya
Ukuba umntu ungaphantsi kwemashumi mathathu, kulula ukumnqumla ukutshaya. Kakade ke, xa ungazibhisi, kwaye kumntu othandekayo, ukucinga ukuba kuvelisa kuwe kuyabiza. Iphosi lelitye libukhali - kunye nentetho yakho engathethekiyo malunga nendlela ongeyonto uvakalelwa ngayo le nto ekhaya, kwaye nangakumbi emilonyeni yakho, inokuthi ifuthe. Khumbula umgaqo obalulekileyo wokujongana nale mkhuba: umntu onqabileyo ngokucacileyo uyaqonda "iziphakamiso", kodwa apha, nangakumbi, tshela ngqo into oyifunayo kuye kwaye kutheni.
Iinkqubo zokunceda ukuyeka ukutshaya, kungekhona ngaphantsi kweshumi. Indlela ephumelelayo - ukunciphisa inani leekheta ukuze ekugqibeleni bayeke. Abaninzi bayeke ukutshaya ngobusuku bunye: iintsuku ezintathu ukuya kwezine "zokuphula" kwaye, njengoko bethetha, "bekhululekile". Kuza kuba nomnqweno-kuyimfuneko nje!
Imikhaya
Le ngqungquthela: izinto ezinobungozi nezonyoko zabantu abafumana abafazi besuka kubo. Hlalani ngezwi elibi kwisitya, bhinqa izikhonkwane, nitshitshise, nitshengise iintengiso, niyalele bonke abantu, hlalani iiyure kwindlu yangasese, nidle ebusuku, nilumke ngelizwi elibi ngelixa nibona ibhola, nibhale kwindlu yangasese kunye neminye imikhwa esenza thina besifazane sibonakala sikhwele ukungahambi kakuhle kunye "nokungcola." Napha, kwakhona, ukusabalalisa iisokisi zendlu zibonakala ngathi zingenangqiqo ye-prank yesilisa ... Enyanisweni, ngeesokhe ziyakwazi ukulwa - kwaye nayo yonke imikhwa efanayo ayinakwenzeka ukusebenza. Ziyiziqhamo zemfundo kwindlu yabazali, ngokuqinisekileyo zixutywe ngobisi lwama-mother. Bafanele baxolelane. Kwaye kwakhona: abantu abahlali benomsebenzi wokubonakalisa nokuziphatha "ngokuhle" - bahluke! Ekugqibeleni, inokucaphukisa umkhuba wakho wokuthetha, ngelixa uhambisa izipikili zakho. Okanye unqwenela ukususa ibhedi ngexesha apho wavuka kuphela okwesibini ukuya kwindawo yangasese.