Kodwa xa ixesha liqhutywe ngaphezu kwemashumi amathathu, kubonakala ngathi isondo esinamandla siphelile, njengalezo zidinosaurs kunye nama-mammoths. Kuloluhlu unako ukudibanisa kunye nalabo abaye baphupha kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini kwaye baneminyaka engamashumi amathathu abaninzi behla. Emva koko, inxalenye enkulu yale nhlu iphinda iphindwe.
Enyanisweni, abantu abalungileyo nabakhululekile bahlala beleleyo, kufuneka nje ukuba nisondele kule ngxaki ngobuchule. Ukuba ukhangelelene ngendlela yakho yobomi, apho ivela khona-umsebenzi, ikhaya, umsebenzi-kuphela nje ngeentlanganiso kunye nabahlobo ngeveki. Kwaye ke ukuthintela ukucinga kwakhona ngobomi, emva kokuba sonke sibeka isantya kithi. Yintoni ekuthintela ukwenza utshintsho olutsha ebomini bakho? Umsebenzi usekupheleni, akukho xesha elaneleyo, akukho mntu uya kuhamba, akukho ndawo yokuya kuyo, kukho izizathu ezininzi. Yaye impendulo yodwa-ukuba uphume kwi-grey routine kufuneka unamathele umnqweno omkhulu kunye nentando.
Ukwazi njani umfana kwaye uqalise ubuhlobo obude kunye nobubi kunye naye? Nangona kunjalo, amantombazana amaninzi, ahlala enzima. Into ephambili xa udibana nawe akuvumelekanga ukuvumela ezi mpazamo zilandelayo:
- Musa ukuzithoba umzuzu wokuqala kwaye musa ukuvuma ukuba uthande, nangona ekuboneni kuqala, ngokukhawuleza ekutsheleni igama lakhe;
- ungabonakali umonde. Ukukhawuleza - ngamanye amaxesha impazamo enkulu, ekuqaleni kwesazi;
- ungathethi kakhulu, ulwazi oluninzi luya kuba yintlebo;
- Ungazi kakuhle lo mfana ngokufanelekileyo, ngelixa ungayeki kule ncwadi;
- musa ukukhawuleza ukuthetha kuqala kwaye ungaboni rhoqo kwiwashi;
- Ungayihoyi iimbono okanye iimpawu zengqalelo.
Ngoko, apho ukuza kumnxulumana nomfana, mhlawumbi ulwalamano olunzulu. Inkundla yemidlalo okanye iholo lomboniso - njengendlela yokwenza ubomi buntu abubi nakubonke. Akukho mfuneko yokukhetha izihloko zengxoxo, kukho nantoni na into yokuthetha ngayo, kunye nayo yonke into inokuphuculwa ngokwemveli.
Ukuboniswa kwezobugcisa kuyona ndlela. Kuphela, musa ukude kakhulu kwisigama-magama uze ubathethe ngokubukeka okunengqiqo. Ubume bendalo yendalo. Ukuba uloyiko ukuthetha into engalunganga, ungagqiba ukulahla isikhwama sakho okanye ifolda phantsi ... Kuhlala kukho umneneli ofuna ukukunceda.
Ukukwazi ukuthutha, ngenxa yesizathu esithile isizathu sokuthi imimiselo engalungileyo ayivunyelwanga. Sisoloko sithathwa njengesenzo esingathandabuzekiyo. Nangona kukho imizekelo emininzi, xa ukuthandana kwenzeka kwiindiza okanye ezitimeleni. Emva kokuba intlanganiso ibophelelwe, isiqingatha semfazwe sele senziwe. Vumela le ngxoxo ilawulwe ngumntu, kwaye ulungele kuphela ngokusebenza, ubuze imibuzo.
Ukuqhelwaniswa kwi-disco. Njengomthetho, batyelela i-disco ekudakiseni utywala. Abafana kunye namantombazana baya khona ngenxa yokuphumla kunye nolwazi. Kodwa njengokuba inani lamanani liboniswa, kungekhona izibini ezininzi, emva kokuzibandakanya kunye kunye nokuguga. Njengomthetho, ukunxibelelana, kunye nabaqhelana nabo, ukukhawuleza.
Ukuze udibane nomntu olwalamano oluqinileyo, soloko uphulaphule ilizwi lakho langaphakathi. Hlola amathuba akho phambi kokuba wenze umgudu. Uvavanyo lokuhlola luya kunika okufutshane, kodwa, into enokuyithetha. Ngoko ke, ukuzithemba ngakumbi. Kukho izibango zokuba iimpendulo ezifunyenwe kwiminyaka yokuqala engama-30 yokuthandana zihlala zingenakwenzeka.
Azikho ubunzima obuninzi kwindlela yokuzonwabisa. Kodwa kufuneka udibanise kunye, uxhobile ngeempawu zakho, kwaye kwindlela yethemba uthe ngokuqinisekileyo uya kudibana neqabane lakho. Oko, thwala uthando lobomi.