Njengomthetho, isigqiba sobomi babazali sisoloko sihamba kunye neengxabano kunye neengxabano. Kwaye kwenzeka njalo imihla ngemihla, kuquka neeholide kunye nemihla ebalulekileyo. Ngenxa yeso siqhelo, abantu bayapholisa ngokukodwa. Ngako oko, abantwana bahlala befuna ukwenza into echasene nemvelaphi yokukhathazeka rhoqo kunye neengxaki zabazali ukubenza bavuyiswe kwaye nayiphi na indlela yokuvuselela iimvakalelo zabo, ukuvelisa into entsha kwimpilo yabo yentsapho, ngelixa beka uxhulumaniso phakathi kobawo nonina. Ngokomzekelo, kutheni ungalungiselelanga isidlo sangomdla kubazali bakho esiya kuhamba kunye nolwandle olufudumele nolumnandi?
Ukutya okudalwa ngabazali kubazali: isibonelelo sokulungiselela
Ukulungisa isidlo sakusihlwa esinjalo, kunye neenkalo zokuthandana akunakunzima njengoko kubonakala ngathi ukuqala. Kwaye yonke into ezayo kuwe, ngaphambi kokuba ulungiselele isidlo somtshato kubazali bakho, kufuneka ube neqhinga xa ukhetha ixesha, indawo kunye nendawo. Lungiselela isidlo esinjalo kufuneka uqale kwangaphambili, unikezelwe ngokupheleleyo zonke iinkcukacha kunye nemiba enokuvela ngexesha lokulungiselela. Umzekelo, ukudibanisa ixesha labazali bobabini, ukwenzela ukuba bawugqibe umhla wokusebenza ngexesha elifanayo, balungise imenyu, kubandakanywa izitya ezizithandayo, ukucinga ukuba ungaphi kulobu busuku ukushiya abenzi bobubi "bhiyozo" kuphela. Kukulungele ukulungiselela isidlo sesicwangciso esinjalo ngoLwesihlanu kusihlwa, xa abazali, bekhathele emva kwemihla yomsebenzi, baya ekhaya baze bakwazi ukuphumla. Ngaphezulu, ngosuku olulandelayo abayi kuvuka ekuseni ukuze basebenze, kwaye baya kukwazi ukuzonwabisa ixesha elichithwe ngokupheleleyo. Ngaba ungathanda ukumangaliswa? Thumela uyihlo nomama isimemo somntu ngamnye semini. Esi simemo kwisidlo sothando singenziwa ngendlela yoxwebhu oluqinileyo okanye imvulophu enecebo lokuposa elifakwe apho: ngenxa kayise, kumama. Amakhadi anjalo anokwenziwa ukuba ahlele kuyo nayiphi na indlu yokushicilela. Ngobusuku ngokwalo kufuneka ukuba zibandakanya iintyatyambo zabazali bakho abathandekayo, isidlo sokutya kunye nesipho.
Imiba yokulungiselela
Ngoko ke, umgomo wakho kukudala umoya wokuphumla kunye nokuthandana, okwenyani intsapho yakho ukuba ivakalelwe ngokukhawuleza njengoko iwela umda wendlu. Ukusuka kuwe, njengokuba uvela kumququzeleli, udinga oku kulandelayo: faka kuqala itafile (i-setting setting itholakala kwi-intanethi), ikhandlela, iintyatyambo (kufuneka zihombise igumbi lonke), umculo ozithandayo umzali (umzekelo, unokubuza uyihlo okanye umama wakho ingoma, apho badibene nayo kwaye bayisebenzise ngenxa yeenjongo zabo zeenjongo zeenkundla). Ngendlela, loo ngoma ingaba isipho sakho. Ukuze ungaphuthelwa nawaphi na amaphulo okulungiselela umcimbi, kufuneka udale uluhlu olukhethekileyo, apho unokucwangcisa umgaqo wonke woqeqesho kwiingongoma. Ukukhokelwa kwesi sicwangciso, kufuneka uhambe ngesinyathelo ukulungiselela ukuhlwa.
Inxaxheba enkulu kwisidlo solu hlobo ludlalwa yimenyu, kuba abazali ngokuqinisekileyo bavela emsebenzini abalambileyo kwaye abayi kufuna ukukhokela kuphela ebusuku, kodwa badle. Ukuba awukwazi ukupheka, ulungise izitya kwivenkile yokutya okanye uhambisa amasaladi okukhanya, ushizi kunye nenyama enqunywe, iziqhamo, iipesele. Makube yinto efanelekileyo yokutya, kodwa ukutya okulula, okwenziwe kwintliziyo yentombi nomama.
Ukusela kotywala kukulungele ukuvelisa ibhotile yothando yohlobo lwe-champagne okanye iwayini. Unokuyihobisa itafile ngamakhandlela amade abekwa kwiibane zokukhanyisa okanye izibini ezincinci zeentyatyambo. Akunakulungele ukuvelisa iiflethi zasendle, apho ungabuthela ngokuzimela, ngokwenza izimbali zokuqala. Iziqhamo ezinkulu ezisetyenziselwa ukuhlobisa itafile ayifanelekanga, kuba ziya kuphazamisana nokuhlala phantsi.
Kodwa ukuze ulungise ukuqhubekeka kokuhlwa, unokwenza i-slideshow ukusuka kwiifoto zentsapho uze uyibhale kwidiski, ngenqaku: "Ukubona kufuneka!" Ukumshiya etafileni. Ukongeza, unokhetha abazali ukuba bahlaziye ngokulula.
Kwaye, okokuzama, zama ngalo ngokuhlwa, kwaye xa kunjalo, ke ubusuku, ukuchitha kunye nomhlobo, ngaphambi kokuba uvumelane naye malunga nalo!