Ngoko, kweli nqaku siza kukunika iingcebiso eziza kukunceda ubelethe umntwana osenyanisekileyo! Kwaye umbuzo othi "Yintoni enokuyenza ukuze uyenze umntwana ozalwe ngumbono?" Uya kutshabalala ngokwawo.
IBhunga kuqala.
Iingcali zenzululwazi zikholelwa ukuba abazali abaceba ukuzala umntwana oyinyaniso kufuneka babale ixesha lokukhulelwa ukuze kuzalwe ukuzalwa ngoFebruwari-Matshi, kuba uphando lwezenhlalakahle luqinisekisa ukuba ininzi yezifundo zazalwa kuphela ekupheleni kwebusika nakusasa kwentwasahlobo. Inkcazo ilula kakhulu: kwithuba ukususela ngoFebruwari ukuya ku-Matshi, ilanga livame ukurekhoda umsebenzi owandisiweyo, kwaye xa ihambelana neqondo elithile lemibala echaphazelekayo lichaphazela ukusebenza komsebenzi wengqondo.
Kukho neemeko ezithile zokuhlala kwakho - ngokukhethekileyo, kufuneka kube yi-60th latitude, okanye ingcono - ukuba ngexesha elifanayo kufuphi neendawo zokuhlala kuzo kuza kuba ne-volcano esebenzayo okanye intaba yeentaba.
Nantsi ingongoma enjalo, eyona nto iyonwabile, kodwa iimeko ezingaqhelekanga, kuba kunzima ukuqikelela umsebenzi wendalo ngexesha elinye.
Into ebalulekileyo kulo mbandela ngumdala wabazali, izazinzulu zikholelwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unina wengane-mntwana kufuneka abe mncinci kunomyeni wakhe. Ngoko ke, kuphawulwe ukuba inkoliso kaninzi umntwana wazalwa enengqondo xa unina wayeselula kakhulu - malunga ne-13-15 ubudala. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi kubo bonke abazali abaneminyaka engama-15 ubudala bafanele baphathe kwisibeleko somntwana. Emva koko, ubudala bobawo bubalulekile! Bala i-age difference for age simply: ukwahlula iminyaka yobudala babesibini, wongeza ezisixhenxe - uze ufumane unyaka ofunwayo ngumama. Nangona kunjalo, lithini le nto? Ukuze umntwana azalwe ngumbono, umntu uya kufuneka ashade ngenxa yothando, kodwa ukuba ahambelane neminyaka yobudala? .. Kukuya kuwe ukugqiba ukuba ngaba ufanelekile.
Isiluleko sesithathu.
Musa ukucinga ukuba ukuze ube neengqiqo, udinga kuphela ukukholelwa kwintlekeleko-kubalulekile hhayi kuphela ukuqonda kwengqondo yomntwana, kodwa lwakho olufanayo, usapho. Kuboniswa ukuba i-arithmetic ephakamileyo ithetha intsingiselo yentsapho, ukuphakama okungenzeka ukuba i-crumb izalwa njengengqondo. Misela isigqibo sezinga le-IQ kwilungu ngalinye lentsapho, phinda uze uhlule ngenani labantu. Iphakamileyo ixabiso - enkulu amathuba okubeletha inhlakanipho. Kodwa kukho ukuhlala njalo: ngaphezulu kwintsapho yezingane, i-AQ yezantsi i-IQ - ngokulandelanayo, kwaye ingqiqo iya kuba nzima kunzima ukuzala. Nangona kukho iimeko kwimbali, kodwa amaninzi amaninzi azalwe ngabantwana abangabantwana bodwa kwintsapho, okanye "amacembe" amancinci kubantwana abakhulu.
Ibali lisithi inani elincinci leentlobo zamadoda, ngoko ke abo balinde le nkwenkwe banethamsanqa - banethuba eliphezulu lokufumana ingqiqo yangempela. Amakhono akhe aboniswa kumkhosi, imathematika, izakhiwo kunye ne-physics. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba abo balindele le ntombazana abayi kuba nethamsanqa-emva koko, kukho iimbalo eziphathekayo kunye neetalente phakathi kwabasetyhini, ngokukodwa xa kuziwa kwintsimi yeencwadi.
Ibhunga linesihlanu.
Isondlo esifanelekileyo sesinye sezidingo zokulungiselela umntwana-genius. Kwaye, malunga nayo kubalulekile ukuba ungabonakali emva kweentlobo, kwaye ngokuthe ngqo ngexesha lokukhulelwa-isiqhamo kufuneka sitshintshwe nazo zonke iivithamini eziyimfuneko. Ayikho imeko ayikwazi ukuhlala kwiidlo. Unyoko, ophethwe phantsi kwentliziyo yekamva elizayo, kufuneka adle kakhulu kwimveliso equkethe i-lecithin-le nto idala imemori nengqondo yomntwana, ukuze umntwana abe lula ukufunda esikolweni. Phakathi kwezi mveliso i-yolk yolanga, isibindi kunye nenyama. Akufanele ulahlwe i-acidi ye-folic - umama wakho kufuneka ayisebenzise ukususela kumzuzu wokukhulelwa, kwaye ungadli nje into equkethe i-asidi, kodwa iphinde uyiphuze kwiiphilisi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukutya komfazi okhulelweyo kufuneka kufake ukutya okuqukethe isinyithi kunye ne-zinc ngaphezu kwexesha, umzekelo, isibindi kunye namaqanda, i-buckwheat kunye neentonga, ushizi, ubisi kunye nentlanzi. Ngokukodwa oogqirha bagxile kwientlanzi, njengoko sele kuphawulwe ukuba iintsana ezinomama ngexesha lokukhulelwa zixhomekeke kwiimveliso zentlanzi, zikhula ngakumbi zintlalontle kwaye zinezipho. Emva koko, ioli yeentlanzi, equkethe i-polyunsaturated omega-3 acids, echaphazela ukuphuhliswa okukhawulezayo kunye nokusebenza kwengqondo, inefuthe elihle kwimemori yomntwana kunye nenqanaba lobuchule bakhe ngokubanzi. Kanti nabo boomama abaxabisa iphupha lokufundisa abantu, kufuneka udle ama-cranberries kunye nesipinashi, i-blueberries, iklabishi nesipinashi.
Ukubeleka kubalulekile ngokubhekiselele ekuphuhliseni kwengqondo yomntwana, kwaye ixesha elide liqhubekayo, iphakamileyo amathuba okuba umntwana abonise ubungako obungavamile kwixesha elizayo.
Ibhunga lesixhenxe.
Nangona umama esonwabela "ixesha lokukhulelwa" lobomi, akafanele akhohlwe ngokuklama. Kufuneka ukuba uzibandakanye nento ephuhlisa imfesane: umzekelo, ukubetha okanye ukukhanda. Musa ukulibala ngomculo - oko kukuchaphazela ukuphuhliswa komntwana. Into ephambili yinto evela kwiiklasi: I-Chopin kunye neMozart, iVivaldi kunye neGlinka, i-Mussorgsky neRimsky-Korsakov. Ukuqhagamshelana ngokomzwelo phakathi komama kunye nosana kubalulekile. Nangona kusekhona kwisisu sakho - oku akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukucula i-lullaby okanye ukuxelela isigqi. Ngokuchasene noko, oku kuya kuba nempembelelo emihle ekuphuhlisweni komntwana. Mxelele yonke into oyifunayo - ibaluleke kakhulu, kuphela umntwana onokukhokelela umama, unxibelelwano olungaphazamiseki, angakhula abe ngumbono wenene.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezilula kunye neengcebiso esinokusinika umntu ofuna ukuzala nokuphakamisa umntwana, ingqondo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, indawo ebalulekileyo ebomini inikwe ityala, ngoko ke ukulandela yonke le mithetho engaqinisekanga ayinikezeli ipesenti zokuqinisekisa ukuba uya kuba ngabazali balo mntwana. Kwaye, nangakolunye uhlangothi, ukungaphumeleli ukulandela isiluleko akunakukuthintela ekuzaleni inhlakanipho encinci. Into ephambili yindlela efanelekileyo yokujonga impumelelo, kwaye yonke into iya kulungiswa! Ewe, ukuba ayisebenzanga, ngoko uya kuba nobomi bonke phambi kwakho, ukuze ufundise umntwana wakho ohlakaniphile, ofundiswe kunye nolwazi-olubalulekileyo.