Ubuntwana lixesha elihle. Akukho ziingxaki kunye nemixhala. Sonke sikhula, singena kumntu omdala, kodwa ngonaphakade kwimemori yethu siya kuhlala sisitshixo sethu esibathandayo. Kwenzeka ukuba nangona xa ikhulile, le nto yokudlala iyasemva kweglasi yodonga, njengengqungquthela.
Intando yokuzithandela yomntwana
I-toy yokuzithandela yabantwana ibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bomntwana. Nayiphi na into yokudlala ingaba yintandokazi, ingaba ibhere le-teddy, idonsa, umzila wesitimela. Njengoko ithoyiyayiyintandokazi inokuthi ibe, umzekelo, inqatha yobhokhwe, efana ne-hedgehog kwaye ekulungele ukuhamba nayo yonke indawo, uyibeke esifubeni sakho. Okanye uya kulala kwaye wazi ukuba awodwa, obaluleke ngakumbi kubantwana abanoyika ukulala bodwa. Into eyona nto umntwana wayenandipha ngayo, wayethetha naye, wabonisa ingcamango yakhe. Ukuba ubuya emva kweeminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, ngexesha lokungazange kubekho amathoyizi, unokubona ukuba okokuba amathoyizi ayenziwe kwizixhobo eziphuculweyo: zazivezwe ngotni, ezenziwe ngotshani, iidrags ezindala. Kodwa behlala bebathandwa baze bazuze ifa.
Indima yamathoyizi ebomini bomntwana
Amathoyizi omntwana akuyona into embi, kodwa inxalenye ebalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni kwayo, ukubunjwa kweempawu zobuntu. Ukususela ekuzalweni kwento yokudlala yonyana kunceda umntwana ukuba awazi ihlabathi. Emva kwakho konke, akukhona nje kuba oonyana besinconywa banconywa bexhomeke kwi-crib rattles kunye neselula. Imibala ekhanyayo kunye neendidi ezahlukeneyo zinceda ukujonga imemori ebonakalayo kunye nokuthintela. Kwaye ukukhanya kwepeyinti, kungcono. Emva kwexesha elithile, ukulungelelaniswa kwemfudu kwenzeka, xa umntwana, elula izandla zakhe, uzama ukubamba into ayithandayo. Ukuqhawula emva kwebhola kuvelisa izitho zangaphakathi, kunceda ekubunzeni ngokufanelekileyo umlenze. Xa usukhulile, i-fantasy iqala ukuphuhlisa, ngakumbi xa kukho umdlalo odlala indima.
Intando yokuzithandela njengomthunywa weengxaki
I-toy yokudlala yeyona nto yinto enhle kakhulu yokumazi kakuhle umntwana wakho. Nawuphi na ulwalamano olungavumelekanga kwinqanaba lomntwana kwiiyiloni kuyimbangela yokukhathazeka. Ngoko, ukuqaphela ulwaphulo - ukubetha i-alamu. Ukuthetha ngenyameko umntwana kwaye ufumane oko kukukhathazayo. Ekuqaleni uyayiqonda ingxaki, umntwana uya kuba nempilo.
Ukuba, xa uvela kwi-kindergarten kunye neentambo zokulima kunye ne mouse kwiqhekeza, umntwana uqala 'ukufundisa' kwaye awakhuphe ngokungqongqo okanye ukuhlaselwa, ngoko ke sisihlandlo sokubuza ubungcali bootitshala okanye ukulandela ubuhlobo bomntwana kunye noontanga.
Ulwaphulo olugqithiseleyo, oluhamba kunye nokuphula i-toy, ukubethelwa eludongeni - mhlawumbi umntwana unomona ngomntwana wesibini. Kule minyaka, umona wabantwana uyingozi kakhulu. Ukuba le ngxaki ayisombululi ngoku, ebonisa ukuba uyabathanda abantwana ngendlela efanayo, iya kuthi iyakugqithisa kwiminyaka kwaye inganiki iziqhamo eziduduzayo kwixesha elizayo.
Ngaba umntwana uthanda ukudweba? Jonga ngokukhawuleza imidwebo. Amaqhawe amabi ngokupheleleyo, izilo kunye nezinye izinto ezimbi, kunye nezixhobo-tyelela umntwana wengqondo ngokukhawuleza.
Ngelinye igama, jonga ithoyiphu nganye uze uyibeke kuyo. Emva koko, i-robot yinto yokudlala yezingane, itekisi abafana abayithandayo. Kodwa ukuba uyilungelelaniso elungileyo, umkhuseli wendalo yonke, akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo.