Ngokukhawuleza abantwana bethu bakhula! Indlela yokuphila kungekudala okanye kamva iya kubakhokela abantwana kwi-kindergarten. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abazali basenokungayidingi loo mfuno, kuba ugogo unakekela umntwana, okanye imeko yezemali yentsapho ivumelekile ukumema umfana.
Kodwa ke abazali abaninzi banqwenela ukwenza isithethe kwaye bafune i-kindergarten yengane yabo. Kule nkalo, kukho imibuzo emininzi. Badibene nexhala lokuphila komntwana wabo. Kuliphi ixesha elingcono ukunika umntwana inkulisa? Kude kube nini ixesha lokuguquguquka lihlala ixesha eliphambili kwisikolo sokuqala? Le miba icetyiswa ukuba ixazululwe ngabaqeqeshi abanolwazi, kwaye kungekhona kuphela kwibhunga lentsapho.
Ngokutsho koogqirha bezingane, ixesha elihle kakhulu xa unika umntwana kwi-kindergarten iminyaka emithathu. Kodwa nangayiphi na imeko, wonke umntwana ngowokuqala kwaye ngowona mntu. Ukuba intsapho inkulu, kukho oodade kunye nabazalwana, ngoko akukho mfuno ekhethekileyo yokutyelela i-kindergarten. Kodwa kwimeko xa umntwana eyedwa kwintsapho, akukho ndawo yokungabaza. Uluntu lwabanye abantwana ngumhlaba omhle wophuhliso lwabantu. Kule meko, umntwana uya kuba ngumntu ozimeleyo, uya kukwazi ukuzimela, abe noluntu oluninzi.
Ukongezelela, kukho abantwana abangenakuyenza ngaphandle kokufunda esikolweni. Eli candelo liquka abantwana abaneengxaki zokuthetha, ubunzima beengxaki kunye nokuva. Kwi-kindergarten enezingane ezinjalo zibandakanya iingcali ezinokuziphendulela kwiindlela ezinjalo zemibuzo. Abazali abakwazi ukuqonda iindlela ezinjalo.
Ixesha elithintekayo lokubeleka umntwana ngamnye lunokuthi lwenzeke ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Abanye bangabonisa ubugwenxa, i-whims, abanye bayenqaba ukulala nokulala. Abanye abantu bajamelene neziganeko ezinjalo kamva. Abantwana abaneentsapho ezizinzileyo kunye nolwalamano oluhle kunye nabazali babo, zingcono kwaye zikhawuleze zisetyenziselwe i-kindergarten. Umntu okhulayo kufuneka ahlale esho amazwi omthandayo, abonise uthando lwabazali. Umntwana kufuneka azive efunekayo kweli hlabathi kwaye ukhuselwe. Ukuba uthe wagqiba ekubeni uthathe isinyathelo sokunika umntwana kwi-kindergarten, ngoko ulawulo lwekhaya kufuneka lusondele kwi-registry kwi-kindergarten.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho imibuzo malunga nokutya. AmaMama ahlala esondeza abantwana bawo kwaye alungiselela i-raznosoly, kuba lo mntwana kunzima ukujongwa kwi-kindergarten yokutya. Yaye xa umntwana engadli, abazali bayalila i-alamu. Mama othandekayo, musa ukwenza ubundlobongela. Abantwana ngokwabo bacela ukutya xa belambile. Umsebenzi oyintloko awuyikuphakamisa ukwesaba.
Iingcali zengqondo ezininzi zivumelana noluvo lwabahlengikazi: ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka emithathu, umntwana kufuneka abe ngcono nonina, oya kumqonda kangcono kunabanye. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba iimvakalelo zilungile, njengoko zikhula kumntwana ukususela ebuntwaneni. Kwaye unomama onomdla kuphela onokunika unonophelo imihla ngemihla, ukufudumala nothando, ukwandisa iimvakalelo ezintle. Kule meko, umntwana anganqoba nayiphi na ingxaki yobomi.
Yonke into ehambelana nokulungelelaniswa incike ekuthatheni inxaxheba yentsapho, kunye nokuqwalaselwa kweengcali, eziya kuba yintsana ngeli xesha. Kuxhomekeke kwindlela abazali ngokwabo abaxhamla ngayo kwi-kindergarten. Ngokwemvelo, abazali banenkxalabo xa banikela umntwana wabo kwabanye abantu. Amaninzi amaninzi kukho amaxesha xa oomama bengenakushiya umntwana engadini ngaphandle kweinyembezi. Yaye xa umama ekhala, umntwana uyakhala. Isidalwa esincinci kwaye sixhalabile kukuba sihlala kunye nabantu abangaziwayo, kwaye nanko umfana osemntwini uyakhala. Iingcebiso kubomama - ukuphelisa ukucaphukisa, ukuhlaziywa kunye nokungafuni. Abantwana bahle kakhulu ekuthatheni indlela abantu abadala abasabela ngayo kwisiganeko, kuba babone kakuhle. Kungenxa yale nkathalo abazali abancedayo kulo mbandela kuyimfuneko.
Umntu omncinci unobuthakathaka ngokukhuseleka, xa umphefumlo ungathuli kwaye umntwana ulungele izifo ezahlukahlukeneyo. Kule nto, into ebhetele kwintsana yakho kukujonga kwakho uvuyo kunye nokumomotheka. Uncedo kule xesha elinzima ngumnye wemisebenzi ephambili yabazali.
Khumbula, ukuya enkulisa kuyinye yeemvavanyo ezinkulu zokuqala ukuba umntwana wakho kufuneka ahambe ngokuzimeleyo, kungekhona nje indawo entsha. Ungabi neentloni, ubuze imibuzo kubagadi bezingane kunye neengcali zontanga, kuba kunye kunye unokufumana isisombululo esihle. Kwaye ngokwenza oku, uya kukhawulezisa umzuzu xa umntwana eza kukhawuleza kwi-kindergarten, kwaye iingxaki kunye nexhalaba ziya kushiywa emva.