Ziziphi iindoda ezizinzileyo
Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba ziphephe amagama athi "konke", "rhoqo", "akukho mntu" kwaye "akaze". Ihlabathi alimnyama nelomhlophe, lizele imibala kunye ne-halftones. Ngoko ukusho okokuba kuthiwa bonke abantu bangenakulungelelanisa, kuya kuba yiphutha. Ngoko ke, siya kugxininisa kwezinye iintlobo zabantu abangenakucala.
- Uqhawule umtshato. Indoda enjalo ayikwazanga ukuphilisa ukulimala kwayo. Amadoda abonakala ngathi abukeka ephulile emva kokuqhawula umtshato, eqinisweni bafumana iingxaki ekuthandana nalo mfazi. Amanye amadoda ngokukhawuleza aphuthuma njengengqungquthela kwiimvanoveli ezintsha ukuze azilibale emva komtshato. Abanye bangaphila iminyaka emininzi. Kwaye konke oku kuluphephe ubudlelwane obude kunye nabafazi. Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba uhlobo lwesibini lwamava okuxilwa kwangemva kokufa lubhekwa njengoluchanekileyo kwindlela yokujonga ingqondo. Oko kukuthi, indoda idinga ixesha lokufumana ukulimala ayenayo kumtshato ukususela kumfazi wakhe wangaphambili.
- Unyana kaMama. Oonyana bakaMama kaninzi abafuni ukufumana intsapho kuze kube yilapho bekhulile. Baqhotyoshelwe kumama wabo kangangokuba akukho mfazi onokumelana nomncintiswano naye. Umtshato okanye ulwalamano nomfazi kubo luyindlela yokuba ngumntu omdala, apho angakulungele khona. Ngokuqhelekileyo baye batywala imbopheleleko ekubhekiselele kumama, abayibumba ngokwawo. Nangona ukuthanda kwakho nomntu onjalo kuqala, uya kuhlala uhlala wedwa ngeeholide, uya kuzama ukuya eholide nonina, kungekhona nawe. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuhlaselwa rhoqo kwicala lakhe malunga nokuba awukwazi ukupheka, uhlambe kwaye uholele indlu kunye nonina.
- Indoda engathandekiyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ukungabi nenkalipho kumntu malunga nawe uthi kuphela ukuba awunomdla kuye. Akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi amadoda angatshatyalaliswa nomfazi kulo mbandela. Ukuba neengqondo, banokuphendula ngokuthe ngqo kumanyathelo akho kwaye baphendule ngokudlala ngothando. Kodwa kufuneka ubonise isibindi, indlela ababuyela ngayo kwaye banoku "thumela" nzima kakhulu. Ukuze ungangeni kwiimeko ezinjalo ezingamangalisa kwaye ezingamangalisi, zama ukufumana ukuba ngubani na owamabhinqa ayithandayo, kwaye ubone ukuba zibukeka ngathi ubonakala okanye uhlamvu. Ngenxa yoko, kungenokwanela ukuhlalutya kuphela oomama ababenabo ubudlelwane obude kunye nobuhle ngaphambili.
Ngawaphi amadoda asemadodeni angabonakaliyo
Ukuba uhlushwa ngumbuzo othi kutheni umntu engagxiliyo xa ejongene nomfazi, jonga ngokubhekisele kwindoda leyo. Kukho iintlobo zamabhinqa ezitshitshisa abantu abaninzi. Kwaye ukuba abafazi abanjalo bafuna ukuba amadoda ayeke ukwesaba, kufuneka aqale asebenze ngokwawo, kwaye angaqali ingxoxo kunye nabahlobo babo malunga nokuba bonke abantu banamhlanje bastards. Cinga nje ezimbalwa iintlobo zabasetyhini abesaba abantu.
- Ukufezeka ngokwayo. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zabala ukuba izinga loxinzelelo olwenzeka kumntu onqatshelwe ngumfazi liphezulu kakhulu kwimeko apho wayenqatshelwe ubuhle, kunokuba ngaba umfazi oqhelekileyo wayenqabile. Oku kusebenza nakowuphina uhlobo lwentlalo yoluntu. Okugqibeleleyo komfazi othile kumgangatho othile, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba amadoda asondele kuye. Akukhona kuphela ubuhle bokuqala, kodwa kunye nomfazi wokuqala oyisilumko okanye owesibini ocebileyo "kwidolophana" uyakwazi ukuthusa amadoda amaninzi. Yingakho kulula ukuba umntu athathe isigqibo malunga nomntu ongeyena mnandi kunye nompumelelo ongcono kunokuba nawe. Ukuze unqume ukuphazamisa abantu, ibhinqa kufuneka ikwazi ukujonga iindlela ezinjalo zokuziphatha ezibonisa ukuba akafezekanga kumgangatho othile. Ubuhle bunomqondo wokubonakala esidlangalaleni ngendlela engakhathaliyo, kwaye umfazi onobuqili akazenzeli njengesidenge. U-Bogachka unako ukugubungela amehlo akhe, ucele umntu ukuba azihlawule kwiivenkile nakwiidema. Oku kuya kumvumela ukuba aphumle kancane kwaye akukhangele ngendlela entsha.
- Umphathi weNkosikazi. Amadoda ayithandi abafazi abakhulu. Uluntu lwethu lusengumntandlunkulu, ngoko ke inxalenye enkulu, amadoda ahlala ethanda ukuthobeka, ukuthula, ukuthobela. Ukuba ibhinqa lifikelele kwindawo ephakamileyo kwimisebenzi okanye kuluntu, kunokuba nzima ukuba atshintshele kwinxaxheba yeCinderella embi emva komsebenzi. Uqala ukukhuphisana namadoda ngamandla kunye nokuphakama kweengcamango zakhe, ngenxa yoko, babaleka kuye njengomlilo. Ukuba ufumanisa ngokwakho umkhwa wokuziphatha nabantu, fundisa ukuba uthi: "Yeka." Ukwazi ukuthobeka, ubufazi kunye nomntu, kwaye awuyi kubona ukuba bangaphi abantu abajikeleze kuwe baza kubonakala ukuba unokukhetha.
- Besifazane . Olu hlobo lwabasetyhini luyinkwantye ngakumbi kunabalingcali. Bahlala ekhaya baze bakhulise abantwana, kwaye kwinqanaba lokunxibelelana nabantu ukukhuthaza imibono yabesifazane. Kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ama-feminist anokufumana inkululeko ephakamileyo kakhulu, abayifumanayo okanye eyayifumana kunye nelifa okanye inkxaso yabazali babo. Indoda ekuqondeni yindoda yindoda kuphela eyinika isisu ukuba ikhulelwe umntwana. Ukunyusa isilumkiso, ukufumana imali, ukuzala nokuvelisa abantwana njengowesifazane onokuzimela. Amanye amadoda afana nalolu hlobo lwabasetyhini: kunye nabo unako ukuphumla kunye nokulala ngethelevishini ngokuhlwa onke, ngokukhawuleza ukuphulaphule ukuziphatha kwakhe. Amadoda amakhulu amabhinqa agwenyelwa njengomlilo.
- Abasetyhini abaqinisekileyo ukuba bonke abantu bastards. Abasetyhini abathandayo abantu kwaye abazithembi, ngokwabo baze babethuse ngokuziphatha okunjalo. Bangakwazi ukulinda isikhulu kwihashe elimhlophe, ngelixa begxotha bonke abaphikisana nabo. Ukulindela okweqileko kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwabantu kuthusa abantu, kwaye benza ngokuchanekileyo ukuba bayakuphepha abo bafazi. Emva kwakho konke, eli ganeko elibi kakhulu nelinobutshaba ngokubhekiselele kwesinye isondo luphawu lweengxaki zengqondo ezingathinteki ezinokuguqula naluphi na ulwalamano kwisihogo sangempela.