Bonke abantwana bayagula, akukho mntu uya kuxoxa nale nto. Kodwa kutheni abanye beza kuhlamba iintsuku ezimbalwa kwaye baphilile kwakhona, abanye-bangaphumi eembhedeni iiveki?
Ngamanye amaxesha izizathu azikho nje ubuthathaka kwinkqubo yokukhusela umzimba. Ukungakhuselekanga, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwimiba yokuchasene neentsholongwane kunye neebhaktheriya, ubukhulu bubalulekile, kodwa akukho mntu omnye ophilileyo. Kwaye umntwana - ngakumbi. Kwiimeko ezininzi iintsana zethu zizalwe ziphilile kwaye zikhuselekile. Kodwa ngaba abafana kunye namantombazana abanobuhlungu abavela kuzo? Ngamanye amaxesha kunokwaneleyo ukujonga kwisibuko ukuze ufumane umntu ongathandabuzekiyo. Thina, onothando, onenkathalo, onobubele, ngabazali abanomdla ngezinye iinkxalabo bexhalabele ngempilo yeendlalifa zabo, ukuba ... sibaphephe ukuba baphile.
Elinye iklabishi, ezimbini iikhabhiji
Yonke into iqala ngokuzalwa. Umama uthatha umntwana lwakhe ezandleni zakhe ... Uncinci kakhulu, ukhuseleke kwaye unobunzima. Kwaye ijikeleze ihlabathi elikhohlakeleyo ngeemfazwe, ubundlobongela kunye neefestile ezivulekile Umama uthi, "Ndiye kwaye ndinokukhusela!" Nendlela yokukhusela! Iinqayi, iisokisi, iifowuni, ii-overalls, kunye neengubo ezingaphezulu kweeboyile ... Ubuthongo, mntwana wam, ulala, mhle, umama uya kukunyamekela! Umntwana okokuqala uyamelana naye: unomdla, unxungule, unxibelelwe ngumbutho, kwaye ke ... uyasetyenziselwa. Kwaye yonke imihla yobomi bakhe uba ngumzimba ongenasiphelo, ungakhuseli phambi kwazo naziphi na iimozulu zezulu, nangona kuncipha kwindlela "yokuzola" kweendawo zokuzala ezivela kuyo.
Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Umntwana osandul 'uzalwa unjengeqabunga elingenanto, umzimba wakhe ulungile kuye, oko kukuhle nokubi. Kwaye ekubeni amandla okuzimela ngokuzimeleyo awanakuliswa ngokupheleleyo, ngokukhawuleza i-supercooled kwaye ixakeke kakhulu, ngaloo ndlela idala indawo epholileyo yokubanda kunye nezinye izifo zomntwana. Ngelo xesha, akanalo "umda", oko kukuthi, ulungele ukulungelelanisa nayiphi na imimiselo, ngaphandle koko, ngokugqithiseleyo. Kwaye kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi bomntwana, le mijelo iyasungulwa. Ngamanye amazwi, ukuba umntwana omnye akhule kwindawo ekhuthaza ukuqina kokwemvelo, uya kukhuselwa kwaye uphilile kunomntwana, owayetyenziselwa ukuba ahlale egqoke ngokufudumele kunokuba kuyimfuneko. Ngoko abantwana "ababuhlungu" bafunyanwa - abo baxhomekeke kwiminyaka yokuqala yokuphila bekuncitshiswa kwiingubo ezifudumele.
Ngaba ukwesaba ukuba umntwana uya kubanda? Umntwana waseTrarac (ongayazi ukuba ahambe njani) agqoke ngendlela enjengawe kunye nesinye isambatho seengubo. Kwaye umntu ogijimayo aze aqhube, kungcono ukugqoka ngokubanzi kunokuba ugqoke, - kuba, ngokungafani nawe, uya kuguqulwa njengesilonda.
Indlu yedololi
Utshaba oluphambili lwempilo lufudumeza ngokukhululeka kwiindawo zokulala. Iimeko eziqhelekileyo zisegumbini + 24-26, iiifestile zivaliwe, iibhetri zifudumele, zonke zihlanjululwe kwizinto eziselwandle, kunye nakwii-golf kunye negalufa.
Enyanisweni, nangona engenazo iimbambo, ii-degrees ezingama-24 ziyi-luxury. Ufuna umntwana wakho abe nempilo, jolise i-+18, ubuninzi +20. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka, ventilate indlu, kwaye "khubaza" iibhetri ezine-humidifier emoyeni. Kwixesha lokufudumala, kunye nakumakhaya apho kukho ezininzi iipatethi, izinto ezindala kunye nothuli, akukho nto yokuphefumula: ukunyuka kwemoya engaphantsi kuholele ekumanyeni kwimbumba, kwaye ekunciphiseni amandla abo okumelana nokusebenza kweentsholongwane kunye neebhaktheriya.
Hayi, hayi kwaye akukho!
Musa ukugijima, uya kuwa! Musa ukuma kwidrafti - uya kubamba ubanda! Ungaphuzi kubanda - uya kugula! Zonke ezi zihoxisayo kunye nokwesaba kweenjongo ezilungileyo zikhokelela kwimeko echaseneyo. Umntwana uyayiqonda into enye: ihlabathi liyingozi, yintoni ephosakeleyo - ndiya kugula. Ngoko, iqalisa ukulumkela nokuphefumula emanzini. Ufuna ukukhusela umntwana kwiinkathazo - ungayonakalisi ngeengcinga ezingalunganga. Igama elithi "ugula" lisebenza njengefowuni kwisenzo, samkele oku njengesixuku. Kodwa unokuthi "qaphela" kwaye uchaze ukuba kutheni. Ungethuki, kodwa lumkisa, ucebise kwaye ufundise. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - makumenze umntwana enze iimpazamo aze azilungele ubomi. Akunjalo ukuba uya kuba nzima kunakho. Uninzi kakhulu, nokuba ngcono. Ngenxa yokuba umntwana akanalo uluhlu lwezifo ezingapheliyo, ukubandayo kunye nezinye izifo zomntwana, unamandla kwaye unamandla kwaye ulondoloze impilo yakhe.
Ukugula ngokukhululekile
Kuphela kwithuba lethu laseSoviet elithandayo ... izilonda. Uyenza ntoni ngomntwana ogulayo? Unesihe, ujikelezwe ezininzi izinto ezintle - iiphototo, elele embhedeni, edibeneyo, kwaye ebaluleke kakhulu - umama noyise ngokubhekiselele ekuthembekeni kwamehlo, ukulungele ukuzalisekisa nayiphi na iminqweno. Ngoko, cinga ukuba ngokwenza ukuba "uvuselele" umntwana ukuba agula ixesha elide. Yonke into icacile: umntwana uyathandwa, inene imfesane, kwaye yakho iya kuba yinto - zonke izilonda ziya kuthatha. Ngaphezu koko, ngokuqhelekileyo abazali baziva benetyala lokuba umntwana uyagula - zitshitshiswe. Kwaye kufuneka ume uze ucinge ngento elandelayo. Okokuqala, into yokuba abantwana bayagula. Okwesibini, ukuba sikhuthaza ngokunyanisekileyo umntwana ogulayo, siya kumenza ulungele ubomi. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Sifanele simxelele umntwana ukuba iyinto engathandekiyo - iyinto enxantisayo, enyanyekayo kwaye engathandekiyo! Ngaba ugula? Ewe, yeka indlela embi kwaye kungekhona ngexesha, kodwa uya kuba nempilo, siya kwiseksi (i-cinema, ithala), siza kuphuma edolophini, siye kuhamba. Umntwana kufuneka afunde; ngexesha lokugula ubomi. Emva koko kwinqanaba elincinci, uya kuzama ukuphucula, uphume kakuhle, kwaye ulungile - ungaguli nhlobo.
Ngoko ukuba umntwana wakho akanakukhwehlela
Nangona ubusika buphelile, amathuba okubamba amaqabunga aphezulu kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, akukho mntu wamrhoxisa ngokukhawuleza ukupholisa umoya, ukuqhuma umoya, iimvula ezinzima, kunye ne-Aprili echithileyo.
Ngako oko, ukukhwehlela kwentwasahlobo yinto eqaqambileyo, ngelishwa, ngaphezu kokuqhelekileyo xa kuthelekiswa nokubandayo kunye nezinye izifo zomntwana. Esi sibonakaliso sibonisa ukuba kwi-bronchi isifo "sifihla", kwaye inyama iyahlangabezana nayo. I-sputum eyenziwa ngenxa yolu mzabalazo uzama ukuphuma. Kulo msebenzi wokukhupha umkhuhlane, ukukhulula i-bronchi kwi-sputum kunye nosulelo. Ngenxa yokuba umzimba wabantwana, ubuthathaka ngobusika bokugqibela kunye neengcingo, awunako ukubonelela ngokwaneleyo "umgangatho" wokukhwehlela wedwa, abantwana bakhonkxa ixesha elide kunye nobunzima, kodwa abafumani i-sputum.
Ngokukodwa ukukhwehlela kwesibonakaliso esibuhlungu ukuba udlule kwi-sputum ekhulayo, enomdla kunye nokukhawuleza ukuphucula, kukho isiraphu yaseMilistan ekhongeni. Iqulethwe ngamacandelo amabini aphakamisa ukukhwehlela okuvelisayo - iyanciphisa i-sputum eninzi ngaphandle kokwandisa umthamo wayo, kwaye inceda umntwana ukuba acacise umqala wakhe.
I-Milistan isiraphu yokukhwehlela ine-sweet taste of taste and is easy-to-be-spoon is already in the package. Ungasebenzisa isiraphu yaseMilistan ukukhwehlela ukusuka kwinyanga e-1.
Ngoxa uncedo luka-Miliston isiraphu ekukhwehleleni, abantwana bethu baya kuphelisa ngokukhawuleza uphawu olungathandekiyo kwaye bafikelele ngokukhawuleza kwintwasahlobo enhle!